What I find amazing about parenting? There's more than one way. Helicopter parenting or not, whatever rocks your boat. I don't need to be right or perfect, but I want to be happy.
I think you have a very distorted version on what "happiness" is. Sounds like being in control is what gives you the illusion of feeling happy, when what you're REALLY doing is just pacifying your neuroticism.
It is NOT healthy to live in fear, and you certainly can't derive happiness from it. If your hubby is a bio grad, he should know better than to fuel your irrational fears.
Please try to maintain perspective, it will do your unborn child a lot of good.
Me: 33 | DH: 34
TTC #1 Oct 2015
BFP Mar 26, 2016 - DD born Nov 2016 TTC #2 since Mar 2017 DX: MF June 2019, varicocele embolization Jan 2020, good improvement (14 mil, low motility) IUI#1 Aug 2020 - BFN IVF #1 Dec 2020 (ICSI) - ER, freeze-all - 15 retrieved, 15 mature, 15 fertilized. 4 embryos frozen, all day 5 blasts! FET #1 Feb 2021 - BFN FET #2 Apr 2021 - BFP 5DP5DT!! Beta #1 13DP5DT (17DPO) = HcG 1,238. Beta #2 17DP5DT (21DPO) = HcG 8,269
wow. I will gladly go back to October. God speed to the lurkers who can't join the private group
BFP #1 10/30/15 MMC found 11/30/15 D&C 12/11/15 EDD 7/9/16 BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16 BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21
healing comes in waves, and maybe today the wave hits the rocks and that’s ok, that’s ok, darling. you are still healing, you are still healing- Ijeoma Umebinyuo, be gentle with yourself
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Re: Eeeeek bug bite
I think you have a very distorted version on what "happiness" is. Sounds like being in control is what gives you the illusion of feeling happy, when what you're REALLY doing is just pacifying your neuroticism.
It is NOT healthy to live in fear, and you certainly can't derive happiness from it. If your hubby is a bio grad, he should know better than to fuel your irrational fears.
Please try to maintain perspective, it will do your unborn child a lot of good.
TTC #2 since Mar 2017
DX: MF June 2019, varicocele embolization Jan 2020, good improvement (14 mil, low motility)
IUI#1 Aug 2020 - BFN
IVF #1 Dec 2020 (ICSI) - ER, freeze-all - 15 retrieved, 15 mature, 15 fertilized. 4 embryos frozen, all day 5 blasts!
FET #1 Feb 2021 - BFN
FET #2 Apr 2021 - BFP 5DP5DT!! Beta #1 13DP5DT (17DPO) = HcG 1,238. Beta #2 17DP5DT (21DPO) = HcG 8,269
Me: 26 DH:27
Due: 11/6/2016
BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16
BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21
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