Not TTC'ing yet, but joining if that's okay. — The Bump
TTC After a Loss

Not TTC'ing yet, but joining if that's okay.

Hi everyone, I just wanted to post a quick intro so I can start posting here. I lost my son last week after finding out he had no heartbeat at our peri appointment. We had already known something was wrong because we received bad T21 NIPT results but we still weren't ready to find he had passed. We had a fairly traumatic D&E at an abortion clinic because our local hospital refuses to do the procedure, even though he had already passed.

At any rate, although I'm still a few months from being able to TTC again, I'd love the chance to cheer y'all on. Reading this board and PGAL gives me a little bit of hope during a pretty hopeless time.
Me: 38 l DH: 41
Gavin - 8/27/10
*TW*
Gabriel - 2nd tri loss 5/17/16 Trisomy 18 & 21
Hope -  2nd tri loss 12/7/16 complications from pneumonia


Lilypie Pregnancy tickers

Re: Not TTC'ing yet, but joining if that's okay.

  • I am sorry for your loss and sorry. This board is full of a lot of supportive people
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm also not TTC yet. There are many ladies here that are benched for physical or emotional reasons, or both. I think there's even a benched check in. 

    Anyway, again, sorry for your loss ((hugs)) <3
  • Loading the player...
  • I am so sorry for your loss. Even if you can't actively try, this is a great environment to be in and a part of for when you can. We have a monthly benched board as well as weekly and TGIF check in threads for everyone
    Me: 30     DH: 31
    Married: 11.12.11
    TTC: Nov 2015
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX)
    D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.2016
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending  8.15.16
    Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid 
    half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006

  • I am so sorry for your loss and I hope you find the support you need here.
    “Be present in all things and thankful for all things.”  ~Maya Angelou

    ~~~~ TW ~~~~~~

    Me: 40    DH: 39
    Married 12.19.13
    BFP #1 1/14, MC 2/14 (6wks)
    BFP #2 1/15, MMC/D&C 3/15 (12wks)
    BFP #3 6/15, MC 8/15 (9wks)
    BFP #4 4/16, MC 4/16 (5wks)
    BFP #5 7/16, MMC 8/16 (10 wks)
    BFP #6 3/4 , EDD 11/9/17
  • I'm so sorry for your loss, welcome
  • So sorry for your loss. We're happy to have you on our board as you heal and begin a new TTC journey.

    *****TW*****

    Me: 32      DH: 32
    Married: 11/19/11
    TTC 3/15
    BFP #1: 10/15, MMC 12/15 (10.5 weeks)
    BFP #2: 7/16, DD born 3/2/17 at 38 weeks <3
    BFP #3: 4/18, DS born 12/11/18 at 36 weeks <3
  • Hello, welcome. Sorry for your loss but we're happy to have you join us. 
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • I'm sorry for your losses. Many of us are benched currently-feel free to check out the May Benched thread, hop around and join in when you want. Welcome.
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • I am very sorry for your losses too. Welcome to our community.

    I am also benched, waiting for test results. It's specially hard during fértile week.


    Married 06.21.14 / TTC since 11.15 /
    BFP 01.03.2016 / MMC 6w5d D&C 02.2016 // BFP 05.06.16 / natural MC 05.12.16
    Benched 06.2016-08.2016 / TTC again 09.2016! On a diet. Cranky.
    BFP 10.02.2016 / NT scan at 12w looked normal / Anatomy scan at 20w everything ok
    Team blue! / EDD June 11th 2017
    DAVID ROGER was born on May 23rd at 37 weeks.

    Architect, Peruvian living in Chile. I love art, opera and good chocolate.
    Started PhD studies in Architecture on 2017.
    Fur mom of a rescued miniature poodle called Luke Skywalker.


    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • I'm so sorry for your loss
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



    Pregnancy Ticker






  • @thatlauragirl welcome :) So very sorry for your loss
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • Klee_NCKlee_NC
    100 Love Its 10 Comments Name Dropper Photogenic
    member
    I'm new here, too. I am so sorry for your loss. 
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Welcome and sorry for your loss.

    Love GIF

    Me: 34    DH: 38

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    Married: Nov. 7, 2015
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) 
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    Possibly giving up because I just can't even anymore...
    #BitterHagPartyOf1

    BFP 1/16/2019  
    HCG blood qualitative test - between 5 and 25... FML...

    fuck my life GIF

  • so sorry for your loss, you are more than welcome to join us here. 
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards