@newmommyZ i am so sorry! No words i can say will take away the pain but know you will be in my prayers @kami6887 i am sorry you have to go through this awful waiting. I cannot even imagine what that would be like. I don't think it is unreasonable to call and ask what is going on and to express your frustrations
@kami6887 I'm so sorry they keep putting you off! Hopefully they get everything together and call you tomorrow! I would totally call again in the afternoon if they haven't called you back
Sigh... I had to wait longer than expected for my first blood result. Finally got it last evening and went right to get my second draw. I was so relieved to find my hcg was a bit over 4,000 and told myself everything was fine. Now I wake up to blood and a bit of clotting. Even if my second result doubled I will still be worried until my US at over 9w.
I keep checking to see if you've gotten an update yet! I can't imagine how you're feeling! I have no shame bugging drs when they are going so slow. I hope you get good news SOON!
I went in yesterday and they did a transvaginal u/s and didn't see much. I got my hcg levels this morning and was at a 967. From my calculation, I'm 7 weeks 4 days today but who knows, maybe I'm off? I did just finish breastfeeding a few months ago so my cycles aren't completely normal yet. My bleeding seemed to slow down a little last night and turned from red to light pink but has gone back to red today. I'm having very mild cramping (less than a period). I go back for another draw tomorrow afternoon and get the results Friday morning. This waiting is terribly frustrating - I just want an answer!
@kami6887 I am so very, very sorry. I know there are no words to comfort you right now, but please know you are in my thoughts. Take good care of yourself, both mentally and physically. Big hugs your way.
@kami6887, that's devastating. I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your husband as you navigate through your grief. Be kind to yourself as you walk this path. All the hugs in the world.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Please be kind to yourself and take care of yourself. :-( Also, maybe look into joining some TTCAL and Loss boards, they're super supportive.
Previously PaukMeKiande
Surprise BFP/MC February 2011 BFP May 16th 2016
EDD January 25 2017 DD born January 30 2017 Surprise BFP/MC April 2017
@kami6887 I'm so sorry this is happening to you and your family. I'll give you some unsolicited advice. Don't do what I did. Don't bottle it up and keep this horrible horrible thing to yourselves. Don't try to suffer in silence. There is tangible release in telling people, even if it's just a few close to you. People will have no idea what to say and will sometimes say the wrong thing but I wish I told them to begin with. It doesn't make the ache go away. It doesn't help you move on. But it is nice knowing that people care. That people know you're acting different because you're going through something, not because they did something. I wish I told them for me - not for their benefit. I wish you didn't have to go through this. I'm sorry.
No words can make it better, but know that I'm sorry. Sending lots of hugs and prayers your way. Don't bottle it up, it's okay to be sad, angry or whatever you feel. ❤️
I have been in your shoes. It hurts your heart so bad and I'm so sorry! I agree with a pp, don't keep it to yourself if you don't want to, talking with a few close ppl really helps
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been there and know how devastating it is. Please be kind to yourself and your husband and do what you need to do to get through the next few weeks.
@kami6887 I'm so sorry to hear this news. It is important that you take care of yourself and truly feel and react however you need to. *sending you lots of positive energy and hugs
Married 10/4/2014 (10-4, good buddy!) Baby Boy #1 born 1/9/17 Baby Boy #2 EDD 11/4/18
"It's when you know you're licked before you begin, but you begin anyway and see it through no matter what. You rarely win, but sometimes you do." -Atticus Finch, To Kill A Mockingbird
Re: Possible MC... Need Some Advice
@kami6887 i am sorry you have to go through this awful waiting. I cannot even imagine what that would be like. I don't think it is unreasonable to call and ask what is going on and to express your frustrations
Me: 26 DH: 29 Married 8/4/2012
BFP #1 8/20/2013 | EDD 5/4/2014 | MMC 10/2/2013 9w3d | D&C 10/8/2013
BFP #2 2/8/2014 (kinda) EDD 10/29/2014 | DS Born 10/8/2014
TTCAL 11/2015 BFP #3 5/12/16 | EDD Jan 2017
TW: Loss
I went in yesterday and they did a transvaginal u/s and didn't see much. I got my hcg levels this morning and was at a 967. From my calculation, I'm 7 weeks 4 days today but who knows, maybe I'm off? I did just finish breastfeeding a few months ago so my cycles aren't completely normal yet. My bleeding seemed to slow down a little last night and turned from red to light pink but has gone back to red today. I'm having very mild cramping (less than a period). I go back for another draw tomorrow afternoon and get the results Friday morning. This waiting is terribly frustrating - I just want an answer!
BFP1 12/24/14 - EDD 09/07/15 (D/C 8w1d)
BFP2 6/12/15 - EDD 2/22/16 (D/C 10w3d)
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Diagnoses and Treatments
PCOS (myo-inositol, excercize)
Indeterminant levels of APS IgM antibodies (baby aspirin)
Sub-septate uterus (hysteroscopic septoplasty 12/18/15)
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BFP3 05/02/16 EDD 01/09/17 DS born 01/05/17
BFP4 01/28/19 EDD 10/?/19 🤞🙏
June Siggy Challenge: Robert Downey Jr
37 yr old mama with 4yr old DD and 2 yr old DS
DS1 - 03/31/2006
DS2 - 12/31/2008
DS3 - 06/26/2012
DS4 - 08/07/2014
Me: 31 | Husband: 32
Married: September 2014!
TTC #1: January 2016 BFP 5/16/16 Quinn Born 1/27/17
TW: Loss
BFP May 16th 2016
DD born January 30 2017
Surprise BFP/MC April 2017
Me: 26 DH: 29 Married 8/4/2012
BFP #1 8/20/2013 | EDD 5/4/2014 | MMC 10/2/2013 9w3d | D&C 10/8/2013
BFP #2 2/8/2014 (kinda) EDD 10/29/2014 | DS Born 10/8/2014
TTCAL 11/2015 BFP #3 5/12/16 | EDD Jan 2017
***TW****MC mentioned & BFP mentioned***
TTC#1 since July 2014
AMH 0.1, DOR, Poor responder
Moved to Prague, Czech Republic for IVF
DE attempt in Czech Republic!!
March trip to Prague canceled due to Pancreatitis.
Headed to Prague April 30
3 different donors resulted in 1 PGS tested embryo and 1 fresh embryo
BFP on 5/15/16 at 5dp5dt
My blog: www.wearethehammitts.blogspot.com
Jan '17 August siggy challenge: Cat fails
DS born 4/06/14
MC #2 August 2015
CP November 2015
MC#3 January 2016
BFP 5/11/16 EDD 1/19/17
Baby Boy #1 born 1/9/17
Baby Boy #2 EDD 11/4/18
BFP 2/3/16 --> MC 2/13/16
***TW****MC mentioned & BFP mentioned***
TTC#1 since July 2014
AMH 0.1, DOR, Poor responder
Moved to Prague, Czech Republic for IVF
DE attempt in Czech Republic!!
March trip to Prague canceled due to Pancreatitis.
Headed to Prague April 30
3 different donors resulted in 1 PGS tested embryo and 1 fresh embryo
BFP on 5/15/16 at 5dp5dt
My blog: www.wearethehammitts.blogspot.com