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As far as DH

Kyla SiscoKyla Sisco
in 2nd Trimester

He made it home at 4am finally. I was too exhausted to dig into his a$$ at that point, but he got NO action as phase 1 of his punishment--which he was not happy about because right before I feel asleep I changed into some lingerie knowing it would get him in the mood when he got home.

Hehe Devil

I am still taking suggestions from you ladies as to what his pnishment should be for the rest of the day and maybe into the night. I am partial to hanging his Xbox 360 by the cords from a tree and scattering all his games over the grass (which is wet) with no cases.

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  • Temp865949250007475Temp865949250007475
    I dont know about you, but when I just refuse to even talk or look at my DH he feels SUPER bad.  Inside, it secretly makes me happy :)  Or, I give him a really long list of chores.  Granted, he doesnt usually do them but once I start and make a big fuss about how I am pg and doing HIS chore list, usually a few of them get done... God, I am so sneaky :)
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  • schmaprilschmapril
    I would totally be about the silent treatment or just straight up sarcastic comments all day.  I would also make sure he was awake and stayed awake all day!  Don't give him a chance to rest...keep him busy with job after job and hide his XBox 360 and all games for as long as you want!
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  • NoelleHansenNoelleHansen

    If you cook, coook everything you love and he hates - and don't open the windows so it reeks to him.

    Make sure he wonders where you are some of the time too.

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  • brandistrionfo@gmail.combrandistrionfo@gmail.com

    I usually cry.

    then he feels super guilty and gets all weird.

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  • Mrs.Jda0604Mrs.Jda0604
    The silent treatment works for me. Why did he get home at 4am?
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  • toospookytoospooky

    Okay, caught up on the posts. 

    Maybe it works for some, but for me, silent treatment never works. Of course, neither does nagging. So...I'd have to say that making him feel guilty or upset with himself might be the best way to handle it. He might remeber it if there's a "next time".

     I don't know if the thought that he disappointed you or anything would affect him, but boy does that get my DH (so much so that I never do it on purpose...talk about feeling like a pile of crap).

     

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  • lhulllhull
    imagebran_flake09:

    I usually cry.

    then he feels super guilty and gets all weird.

    LOL I have pulled the crying card too many times in almost 7 years, that it barely works anymore.  Use this sparingly!!

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  • DDKlarDDKlar
    What seems to ALWAYS work for me is to start doing lots of chores all at once and then randomly ask him to do smaller things while you're clearly in the middle of a larger project. DH always seems to get the picture and get off his a$$ to help me. Then i turn around and pull the pg card and he finishes up. Works every time. Wink
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