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September 2016 Moms
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Team Blue Check In
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Team Blue Unite!
I was inspired by the Team Green check in. I know those ladies probably need more support since it's such an admirable and difficult (for me!) team to be on but I was hoping us Blue moms could also connect in a fun way. Team pink, want to start your own? If it's totally lame and people don't want to share I get it lol.
FTM or BTDT mom?
First time team blue?
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
I was inspired by the Team Green check in. I know those ladies probably need more support since it's such an admirable and difficult (for me!) team to be on but I was hoping us Blue moms could also connect in a fun way. Team pink, want to start your own? If it's totally lame and people don't want to share I get it lol.
FTM or BTDT mom?
First time team blue?
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
Re: Team Blue Check In
First Time Mom!
First time team blue?
Yes
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
I'm very excited to have a little mama's boy. I know my husband is excited to do all the sports stuff with him. I'm glad our oldest will be a boy but I really hope we get a girl at some point without having too many kids lol
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
He's so excited to put him in football since that's what he did when he was little
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
I get to use my favorite color (turquoise) in his nursery! I also am loving all the little boy clothes
FTM or BTDT mom?
First time team blue? 2nd time Team Blue!
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? Super excited to be Team Blue again. I found being a boy mom to come really naturally to me, and he melts my heart every day with little sweet moments. I can't wait to have brothers romping around my house
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? My husband only ever pictures having girls, so he has had to adjust his image of his future with boys, but is completely over the moon to do so. He is an only child, so entering the world of 2 kids is odd for him either way (though he's always wanted more than 1 for himself) and the dynamic of brothers is something neither of us know much about
Best part of Team Blue thus far? Pulling out #1's Newborn-3 month clothes and oohing and ahhing over the memories and the thought of a new little squish being snuggled up inside. Also, we aren't all about totally matching outfits, but we bought #1 a T-shirt and #2 a onesie in the same dark teal that have big bro/little bro slogans on them.. and I just can't wait.
First time team blue? Yes, even my pup is a female
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? I am seriously so happy. I I smile every time I think about it.
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? He is stoked!! We both were hoping for a boy (I'm one of two sisters and DH only has sisters) so we are happy for the opportunity to raise a little guy.
Best part of Team Blue thus far? I'm very girly but I find myself very drawn to the little boy stuff which has been surprising and made me happy. We are making his room a safari theme and just picturing him in there makes me so happy. I also like the idea of my dad having a grandson because my mom says he always wanted to have a boy but ended up with 2 girls! (And we are fabulous btw so he's trippin) lol. I would say the worst part is not having as many options as the team pink does. Every clothing item I see has about 20 options for girls and like 5 for boys. No fair.
FTM!
First time team blue?
Well, if you count my furr-baby then no lol!
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
I thought sure in the beginning that I'd be disappointed if we were having a boy- I had always wanted a girl, but a couple of people said they sensed I was having a boy, and I sensed it early on too, so I started to think about it more, and the more I did the more excited I got. It got to the point where I would genuinely be happy either way, and it was actually really exciting to find out my hunch was right! I want to have 3 or 4 kids, so I'm curious to see what we'll get next- and glad that whatever we get, the oldest will be a boy.
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
As much as he kept quiet about what he wanted, I think he's secretly really excited to have a boy. We have two nieces and a nephew- and he has always loved playing with them. Plus he gets to actually pick a name lol- I've had my girl name since I was a kid, so it's non-negotiable, but I'm open to boys names.
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
The highlights for me so far have been before we knew and I went on a hike after a particularly stressful couple of weeks at work to clear my mind, and I came across a baby blue balloon in the middle of the woods. I thought sure it was a sign, and sure enough it was! The other major highlight was the a/s for sure. The first thing that came up on the screen the moment the technician put the scanner on my belly was this little stinker's junk, because he was ass up, spread eagle, wiggling it around like he was showing it off. The technician was cracking up, and watching DH fly out of the chair in excitement was really great. He's not a very verbal guy, so his actions speak volumes. He was giddy the rest of the appointment, and has since been picking up little things here and there for the baby. It's SO. CUTE.
First time team blue? Yes!
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? I'm excited and feel very fortunate to have one of each. I
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? He's beyond excited to "even the score". Lol!
Best part of Team Blue thus far? Besides that we'll have "one of each", I love seeing how excited DD is to have baby brother.
BTDTx4!
First time team blue?
2nd time team blue
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
love that we are team blue again! So happy for my girls to have sisters, and now my little guy will have his brother
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
my husband is definitely just as excited as I am. He grew up with one sister, and always wanted a brother.
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
Probably how excited my son is to have a baby brother. He keeps telling me how excited he is for September, and he kisses my belly, etc. He's so full of love.
FTM or BTDT mom? BTDT (sort-of...it's been almost 14 years)
First time team blue? Yes
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? Excited but nervous. This is new territory for me.
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? Very happy. As he put it "either way is a win!"
Best part of Team Blue thus far? So many cute little boy clothes. I'm excited to see DH and DS wearing matching superhero shirts. Plus there is a picture of DH when he was about 5 ish mock shaving next to his dad. I can't wait to recreate that with our son to share with grandparents.
DD 10/4/02
DS due 9/28/16
First time mom!
First time team blue?
See above.
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
At first I had a little gender disappointment (we were hoping for one of each), but I'm on board now and excited!
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
DH is still taking it a little hard, since he really wants a daughter. We're hoping to give our boys a little sister in the future.
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
I don't have to worry about getting a ton of pink/frilly super girly clothes as gifts.
I had already said I didn't want them and put a pink ban in effect before we knew, but I know people would have gotten them for us anyway.
Of course, now I have to deal with people getting things with ridiculous "boy" sayings on them ("hunk," "daddy's wingman," etc.) But I feel like that's less likely to happen than the girly bomb that was destined to be dropped on me if we'd been Team Pink or Purple.
● IUI #2: BFP - early M/C
● IUI #3: BFN
● IUI #4: BFN
● IVF/FET #1 (2 transferred): BFP! TWINS!
● FET #2 (1 transferred): BFP! BOY #3!
● Natural #1: BFP - M/C @ 8 weeks
● Natural #2: BFP - M/C @ 5w5d
FTM or BTDT mom? FTM
First time team blue? Yep
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? I am really excited. I always imagined I'd have a girl first so I was a little surprised when I initially found out we were having a boy, but it's going to be so fun
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? Over the moon! We found out team blue at 10 weeks after a blood test, but of course there was still uncertainty. I never saw him so happy as when we saw the penis on the ultrasound at the a/s
Best part of Team Blue thus far? So far, I am still trying to get prepared for what life with a newborn will be like and haven't thought much about the best part of having a boy . Since the baby isn't here yet, I guess the best thing is picking out adorable outfits (not that girl outfits aren't cute too)
BTDT
First time team blue?
2nd time team blue!
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
I can't wait! I've always wanted to be a boy(s) mom.
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
He seems much more relaxed and has been nesting hardcore.
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
Setting up the nursery, breaking out old newborn clothes (brings back memories), and the thought of two little boys running around the house and being best buds!
FTM or BTDT mom?
BTDT
First time team blue?
Yes! If we don't count the domestic zoo!
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
I am super excited and nervous at the same time! I think I would be the exact same way if we were team pink again though... It's more the unknown person that will be coming into our lives than the impending dynamics of diaper changes. That said, maybe I would feel differently if DD was very girly... She embraces helping daddy build and fix things with the same enthusiasm that she has for dance and dolls.
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
He was surprised, so took a breath to adjust his mental image of our family. I'm not sure why, but he was convinced that we would have only girls, which is funny because he only has a brother. He explained it later though as 'I just have so much fun with her, I can't imagine having any more fun with a boy.' Awkward and so very sweet at the same time.
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
I'm not sure... all of it? I am loving planning a boys room. If this had been another girl we would have tried to somewhat match their rooms to some degree in the spirit of fairness (DD has a huge tree mural that I painted on her wall and an awesome whimsical chandelier). This guy gets to be a whole new outlet for my creative overflow!
Charlotte born at 28w3d due to severe IUGR on 12.24.2012 Merry Christmas!
Missed M/C discovered 12.22.2014 at 8w1d measuring 6w3d
2015 was a year to test strength of both body and character, but it led us to this... BFP 01.26.2016 EDD 9.30.2016
FTM or BTDT mom?
BTDT
First time team blue? 2nd time team blue!
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
not gonna lie I was hoping for a girl. I grew up with 4 brothers and always wanted a sister. But now that it's been a few weeks since we found out I'm getting really excited about my lil guy having a baby brother. Hope they will be best buds.
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
my husband guessed boy before we had the ultrasound. He is a guys guy and it better at boy things. He has a daughter and son from his first marriage. He has way more in common with his son.
Best part of Team Blue thus far? Being able to reuse the clothes from my son and hoping when he grows up they will share the same toys!
I'm loving it! I swear I knew from the second I saw two lines that I was having a son. I've always wanted a girl but I'm thrilled.
Oh goodness he is over the moon
I just love the little boy clothes
FTM or BTDT mom? FTM!!
First time team blue? If you count dogs then no
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? Feeling super excited!! I had a feeling it was a boy
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? He is so excited to have a little buddy!!
Best part of Team Blue thus far? Knowing what's in there!!!
DS1 -- 9/30/2016
First time team blue? Yep
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? Feeling excited that our first is a boy! I have an older brother and my fiance has two younger sisters so we both are accustomed to the dynamic of families with the eldest being a boy.
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? He's super excited and he had a feeling that it was a boy from the very beginning. He's being sending me fun onesies with Star Wars theme photos that he finds online and such and had a nickname picked out from the moment that we found out the sex from our NIPT.
Best part of Team Blue thus far? Not sure, it's all new so all of it?
First time team blue? Second time Team Blue
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? I'm excited but was a little bummed at first. I always wanted a sister growing up since I was the middle child between two brothers. And I really want to experience having two daughters/want DD to experience a sister relationship. After losing our second daughter it just intensified that want for another girl. So while I am so thrilled for a perfectly healthy baby boy, there is a little sadness at missing out on another girl. I've mostly gotten over it though and we may try for another baby in the future. But I love him already and I know that feeling will multiply once I see and hold him!
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? He was very excited to find out we are having a boy. After two girls in a row I think he was worried we might not have any more boys!
Best part of Team Blue thus far? Picking his name. It's a name we've loved and were worried me might not get to use after the last two babies being girls. I love his name and can't wait until he's here so everyone can call him by name. (We don't share the name IRL until baby is born).
Me (32) Dx PCOS, DH (32) SA = Normal/mild morph issues
TTC#5 July 2017 - 3rd cycle TTC = BFP on 11/12/17 at 9dpo Beta #1 = 96 at 13dpo - Beta #2 = 207 at 15dpo
3 rounds of Clomid + TI and 3 rounds of 7.5 mg Femara + IUI before our BFP on 11/8/10 at 12dpiui
TTC #2 3rd cycle of Femara 7.5mg+Ovidrel+TI = 4 follies = BFP on 10/12/12
TTC#3 July 2014 - Metformin +TI = BFP at 9dpo - Twins, one baby lost at 5.5 weeks
Macy Annabelle born at 37w4d on 4/29/15. Diagnosed with Cri du Chat and passed away on 6/6/15. Forever in our hearts.
TTC#4 3rd cycle of Metformin + Femara 7.5mg+Ovidrel+TI = 3 follies = BFP on 12/24/16
FTM or BTDT mom? BTDT x2
First time team blue? Nope - I've got a 6-year-old son.
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? I'm so excited for DS1 to have a little brother. I knew that if we found out we were having 2 boys or 2 girls, one of my kids would be super bummed for a little bit. DS1 is super thrilled that he gets a little brother!
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? DH was very surprised as we both thought we were having 2 girls. So he's pretty thrilled.
Best part of Team Blue thus far? We'll have a perfectly symmetrical family, which is pretty awesome. I love love love having a little girl that I can share all the girly things with. But there's something super special about having a "mommy's boy" too!
First time team blue? Yes
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? This feels like an UO on this thread, but I'm still adjusting, I was excited about sisters and hand me downs. I know I'll be crazy about him when he gets here. But I'm still nervous about the boys bits and getting peed on and baby boners.
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? He was going to be stoked either way, so he's definitely excited. He's already practicing calling him various potential names and refers to our little man often.
Best part of Team Blue thus far? I'm just excited that all is going well so far. And I'm excited to bring another guy like SO into the world.
FTM
First time team blue?
Yup
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
I'm excited that baby is growing and is healthy but I'm still a little sad that my oldest won't be a girl. Mostly I'm stressing out about the circumcision. Husband is adamant that we do it but I am absolutely terrified. I don't feel it is necessary, it is extra pain that we are choosing to put our tiny baby through. What about the after care? How long does it take to heal? My friend's sister had a boy not too long ago and apparently he cried for about two weeks because every time he peed it hurt. I can't justify putting the baby (and me) through that just so that he "looks like his dad". Btdt moms, what was your experience? Healing time? Etc
we are also unable to come to an agreement on his name. We had a girl name that we loved from before I got pregnant and we have been going back and forth about boy names since January.
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
he is super happy. He is terrified of babies in general but he's excited to teach his son how to do things like is a car and build things. I told him if this was a girl, he should also teach her.
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
The clothes are adorable. Baby bow ties = me dead lol
I don't like the idea of extra pain for our boys or doing something to alter their bodies (without it being medically necessary) without giving them a say-so, but I also keep hearing about the benefits of having them circumcised. I don't know any men who aren't, so I haven't been able to get first-hand opinions from the "other side," and that's bothering me.
Right now, I think I'm leaning towards circumcision in spite of my concerns, but not for any truly solid, justifiable reason. I feel like it's the "default" decision (given our geographical location and lack of cultural reasons against it) and so I'm leaning that way because it makes me feel like I'm making the "safe" decision, but then I worry about the aftercare and their future as adults (will they wish I hadn't had it done and left the choice to them?).
● IUI #2: BFP - early M/C
● IUI #3: BFN
● IUI #4: BFN
● IVF/FET #1 (2 transferred): BFP! TWINS!
● FET #2 (1 transferred): BFP! BOY #3!
● Natural #1: BFP - M/C @ 8 weeks
● Natural #2: BFP - M/C @ 5w5d
FTM
First time team blue?
Yes!
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? I was expecting a little girl, so it was a bit jarring to find out I have a little boy inside me! Also, I feel like it has made the 'baby thing' WAY more real. A little girl? She's just a little mini-me, no big deal. A little BOY?!? Well, he'll be a whole separate person from me! (Of course, a girl would also be a separate person... but it probably would have taken me longer to realize it.)
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? My DH grew up with 3 brothers, and has 1 nephew with another nephew on the way. So... he is over the moon that it is another boy.
Best part of Team Blue thus far? We have received so much love and support from our families, friends and co-workers. All of the blue and green onesies are adorable. Now that I know, I am falling in love with our little guy!
First time team blue? btdt too! #boymom
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? I love it! I'm so excited for my boys to grow up so close in age, 2yrs. Plus all the clothes, toys, shoes, etc I have for DS1 get to be reused. We may try for a 3rd baby in a few yrs but if we don't I am perfectly happy being the queen of my castle and to have all of my adoring men to love on me forever
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? DH couldn't be happier! He was scared to death this one would be a girl! He's the oldest of 3 boys and was his moms big boy helper so he is very comfortable and happy playing and goofing around with boys. DS1 also has 3 boy cousins, all under 4, so the 5 of these boys will have lots of fun growing up together!
Best part of Team Blue thus far? Seeing the relief on DHs face at the gender reveal
FTM (woot woot)
First time team blue?
Yup!
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
Well I don't know why but I could have sworn it was a girl in there. I also read a million different articles on how to figure out the gender ahead of time. So I was shocked to say the least. I knew I would be excited either way because now it feels so much more real and I can finally start putting a registry together.
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
He is excited! He told me ahead of time that he would be excited either way. I was so convinced it was a girl though that I think he was shocked also, but he can't wait. He keeps joking that he's taking too long in there and needs to come out now.
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
My Dad had two girls and he loved having girls but I think he always wished he had a boy. We had a gender reveal party and someone captured his face when he found out and it will be forever a picture that I cherish. Pure joy!
First time team blue?: Yep! Daughter is 6 1/2.
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?: I'm getting more used to the idea but I'm gonna be honest: I am a little freaked about having a boy. Don't know what to expect. Will he be rambunctious? Will he be destructive? Is he going to be stinky? I'm growing a penis inside me. That's weird.
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?: My husband is smug AF. We just found out on Saturday that this is a boy & he had a shit eating smirk on his face basically the rest of the day.
Best part of Team Blue thus far?: Being able to call this little booger by his name—Jude!
FORMER USERNAME: @runningisrad
FORMER USERNAME: @runningisrad
And think, if he's rambunctious, maybe he'll be energized in the morning and quicker to get ready for school than your daughter??
FORMER USERNAME: @runningisrad
If we end up with 2 just like Emmett I'll be thrilled (because he's wonderful) but all of my hair will either be gray or completely fallen out before 2018.
And Jude is a great name, btw
DD 10/4/02
DS due 9/28/16
FORMER USERNAME: @runningisrad
First time team blue? YES!!!
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? I wanted a baby and didn't mind either sex. Oddly enough I knew I was having a boy the minute I seen the pink lines on the strips. Call me crazy but I had a gut feeling I was suppose to have him first. I would have been very shocked if I was carrying a little girl when we found out at 15 weeks. I will still be shocked if by some accident all scans showing a penis between the legs was wrong and we end up having a little girl.
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? DH was rooting for a boy the whole time and is very happy to be having a son.
Best part of Team Blue thus far? Awesome complexion and buying cute boy outfits
Me:24 ~~~~~ DH:26
High school Sweethearts 03/29/07
Engaged 11/29/2009
Married 09/04/2012
TTC#1-06/01/2015
BFP 12/27/2015 EDD 9/8/2016
It's a BOY!
FORMER USERNAME: @runningisrad
FTM or BTDT mom?
Btdt!
First time team blue?
First baby boy of 4 girls!
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
Super excited!! We weren't trying for a baby so he is quite the surprise but apparently God decided it was time to change it up! :-)
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
He was pretty shocked at first and was really hoping for another girl but after only a few hours of getting used to the idea he is now a proud to say he has a son.
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
Ok so of all the best parts so far I just like the idea that I can finally say it's a boy. There were a few people who were saying "oh it's gonna be another girl" but I was glad to shut them up! LOL
I have also thought many times 'I'm growing a penis inside me' weird! I have hair on my belly now, in a line above and below my belly button
FTM or BTDT mom? FTM
First time team blue? Yes
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
I am quite nervous, I think I'm similar to many of you above. I don't know about boy things, hate sports, and never ruff housed. Not that I really wanted a girl more but I felt like I would know how to handle life issues better for her. I am quite close with my mom and love our shopping days but I don't want to make my little man pick out dresses with me, or should I? I think this article expresses some of my thoughts. Women get praised (as they should) for busting gender stereo types but when men do they get called "gay"
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
He actually wanted a girl and was more than vocal about, it got awkward. He did think it was a boy because I was exhibiting male "his last name" stereotypes. He is very happy to be a dad and I don't think there was much disappointment.
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
The thought of dressing him and H up the same, H is totally on board. Blue is my favorite color by far, there will be sooo much blue.
FTM or BTDT mom? BTDT
First time team blue? 2nd!
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? I know what to expect and I can reuse everything I already have. It makes things easier and a more compelling argument to my husband about why I should take additional time off from work
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions? He was excited! I'm not sure he'd know what to do with a daughter.
Best part of Team Blue thus far? I guess the whole not needing to buy anything bit..but I'm most looking forward to the relationship my sons build together.
FTM
First time team blue?
Yes
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
Super excited. I am the oldest of 4 and always wanted an older brother so I am happy our first is a boy. Only fear is playing with him when he gets older. I'm not a big outdoors or get down and dirty girl so know that will change but am so looking forward to it.
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
He is beyond excited. He is looking forward to teaching him all part cars and all that boy stuff. He has three brothers and loved it so it is perfect.
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
Getting things picked out for him like the nursery, clothes, and toys. Plus being able to call him well him and by his name.
BTDT mom
First time team blue?
Yes, daughter is 4.5
How are you feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
Nervous. I know "girl." Boys in our families are crazy hyper & destructive while girls are all pretty calm. My daughter is pretty chill, hoping she'll be a good influence...
How is your SO feeling about team blue? Raves/Questions?
He was hoping for another girl too but is excited now about having a boy
Best part of Team Blue thus far?
It's different than last time when we were Team Pink.
Even miracles take a little time - Cinderella