I would call her Voldemort because she seems to be "she who shall not be named or else you get banned ", but even Voldemort was straight up about the fact that he was a crazy. She's more like Umbridge over here hitting the report button like
Umbridge for real. Hearing what she wants to hear, doesn't give a crap that no one is buying what she's selling.
Also, for the lurkers of November 2016 - please come on out. We really don't bite. I would love to get to know some new ladies, it's always a good time to have a huge pool.
You may think you don't have a lot to say, but I bet you do.
@LikeICantEven I'm so glad that you picked up on that vibe too. The similarities are unreal. everytime she gets one of our peeps banned it's this scene all over again.
I just read the prison thread.... Omfg does this woman not have friends in IRL?! I feel like she doesn't and she's taking us all prisoner on her crazy ass ride! Literally nobody gives a damn what she thinks and yet she babbles like a moron! Please let me in the group so I don't have to read her garbage!!.... "I don't want to be a prisoner anymore!!!!!" Is my reason for joining
Man, I disappeared for a couple of days because work got nuts, and when I came back, a whole bunch of drama went down and a couple of my favorite regulars had been banned! Does it only take one person reporting posts to do that!? It's just awful that one person is ruining our board that I have grown so fond of!!!
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Me: 35 | H: 40 Married Sept. 2013 DS1: Nov 11, 2016 MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d) CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d) BFP! 8/24/19 DS2: May 10, 2020
Ok I'm new to forums and stuff so this might be a dumb question.... What happens if we all start reporting her posts as offensive or "not welcoming"? Would she get banned as well?
28 years old. Married 5 years. DD born Oct 2014 via C-Section (footling breech) Baby #2 (AND #3...SURPRISE!) Due Nov 17, 2016. Found out it was twins at 18+5!
Also, for the lurkers of November 2016 - please come on out. We really don't bite. I would love to get to know some new ladies, it's always a good time to have a huge pool.
You may think you don't have a lot to say, but I bet you do.
I do post, not as much as I would like because if I did, I would probably get fired for lack of productivity and recently Umbridge has been a bit trigger happy...
@Katemr1146 you may not be able to do it mobile on the site.I did it through the app there was a button that said 'join group'. Nothing seems to have happened so it's either technology issues with doing things mobile or they don't want me I their group. I honestly don't know.
I wish I was less of a lurker and more involved too. Reading posts and responses from many of you is very helpful for me, as I will be a ftm. Hoping to connect more with you all.
Also, what do the little icons represent under our names? Like the little chat bubble? Sorry if this is something I should know already or should have found somewhere else.
I'm going to go out on a limb and say we're not part of the cool kids.. unless it really takes upwards of 3-4 hours to be approved. But I doubt it seeing as there are like 10 discussions on there already.
@desoky01 You can mouse over them, and they'll tell you. Each one can give you information about your post history. For example, you have a chat bubble with a 1 beside it. That means that you've made your first comment. It will change once you get to 10 comments. You can also get more of them as you participate more on the boards.
If you click on your profile, you can see them there. I believe you're allowed to click on them from your profile page and get more information that way.
I'm going to go out on a limb and say we're not part of the cool kids.. unless it really takes upwards of 3-4 hours to be approved. But I doubt it seeing as there are like 10 discussions on there already.
Yeah I asked to join a while ago. But I may not be "regular" enough. Or whoever made it just hasn't gone through and added people yet.
28 years old. Married 5 years. DD born Oct 2014 via C-Section (footling breech) Baby #2 (AND #3...SURPRISE!) Due Nov 17, 2016. Found out it was twins at 18+5!
I think the group mods are being flooded with requests, plus things tend to quiet down around TB at night (dinner, bed time for kiddos, etc.). There's a bit of a mass exodus from the BMB into the group and it's probably a bit of a process to go through all of the requests. It could also be that people in the group don't recognize your usernames if you don't post a lot. Don't fret if you're not in yet.
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Me: 35 | H: 40 Married Sept. 2013 DS1: Nov 11, 2016 MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d) CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d) BFP! 8/24/19 DS2: May 10, 2020
@kms456 - Are you on a computer or mobile? If you're on a computer....when you find a gif, right click and select "Open image in new tab." Then just copy and paste the URL in to the "Image URL" box when you click on the image icon (the one that looks like a piece of paper with the corner folded down).
My DD's favorite song right now is Fathers And Daughters by Michael Bolton, which my DH turned her on to. I sing it to her with DH and we tell her all about how it's her daddy's special song for her and blah blah blah. I usually listen to it no sweat until one day she got old enough to piece "adult things" together and said "mommy, does this song make you sad because you miss your daddy who's up in heaven? My grandpa?"
I have a question, if you get banned, are you banned forever? Why are there bump gods? How do you become a bump God? Are there multiple bump gods? I was originally part of April 14 before the all powerful Gods. Is this allowed to be discussed? I am truly just curious.
Feel free to click Apply to join, it takes a little while to be accepted as there is a vetting process. Be patient, no one is forgetting anyone. Also, there is a spot to write in why you want to be accepted but the Mods/group can't view this for some reason, so don't worry about writing anything.
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You may think you don't have a lot to say, but I bet you do.
would have done a gif or meme but I'm not a 100% on how technology works.
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
Awesome Kid #2: Due November 2016!
DD born Oct 2014 via C-Section (footling breech)
Baby #2 (AND #3...SURPRISE!) Due Nov 17, 2016. Found out it was twins at 18+5!
I solemnly swear to post more!
Me: 26 DH:27
Due: 11/6/2016
This is is what I get in my browser, but nothing is clickable.
*sigh* Edited because I can't get my GIF to work...
If you click on your profile, you can see them there. I believe you're allowed to click on them from your profile page and get more information that way.
Hope that helps.
DD born Oct 2014 via C-Section (footling breech)
Baby #2 (AND #3...SURPRISE!) Due Nov 17, 2016. Found out it was twins at 18+5!
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
DS Born 12/20/13
#2 EDD 11/20/2016
3/6/16 BFP
EDD: 11/14/16
Mobile bumping, I can't help
TEARS. FOR. DAYS.
3/6/16 BFP
EDD: 11/14/16
3/6/16 BFP
EDD: 11/14/16
https://forums.thebump.com/group/981-n16-clubhouse
Feel free to click Apply to join, it takes a little while to be accepted as there is a vetting process. Be patient, no one is forgetting anyone. Also, there is a spot to write in why you want to be accepted but the Mods/group can't view this for some reason, so don't worry about writing anything.