anyone have any opinions on travel with baby? My little girl will be 6 months old at the time of our family reunion this summer. The road trip is broken up into 2 days- a flight would be 3 hours. The idea of either stresses me out lol. Which do you all think would be easiest. (I pump every 2 hours which is a downside to driving in my mind)
Re: Travel with baby
My sister has flown cross-country with my nephew since he was 3 months old. Even when he was that little, she said it is worth it to purchase a seat for him. She said holding him just got to be too much, especially when you factor in all the maneuvering of gear for a baby.
I even went so far as to bring his swing for him and he still wasn't having it.
I would try to get baby used to sleeping in unfamiliar places. DS had only slept at home or in the car, never at someone else's home, etc. And he was a downright awful napper, so the same applied there. Trying to get him to sleep in an unfamiliar hotel room just didn't work for us.
I'm not comfortable driving for that long just because he goes nuts if in his car seat for an extended amount of time.
Like pp said some airports have nursing stations to feed or pump, also I learned when going thru security if you are bringing already pumped milk they dont have to test/check it if it's over I want to say 3.2 oz.
Oh! and if you decide to fly, if you ever wear your LO it really comes in handy when walking in the airport...total life saver- at least in our case!
My baby is also one that hates the car seat but did really well considering!!! I just sat in the back with him the whole time, had toys he likes, teethers and soothers (even though he rarely takes them), music he likes and some tools to help him sleep. When it was "nap time" in the car I would turn white noise on on my phone, tightly tuck a blanket all around babe in the car seat and put the blanket car seat cover I have on over the car seat so it was dark, say our usual bedtime story and he was always out within 20 minutes, if he took the soother more like 5-10. He's a terrible napper though so naps were only 20-35 minutes in the car. We stopped every 2 ish hours or 3 if we could spread out his nap, but he didn't eat big any of the times we stopped on the trip which was unusual...not sure if the constant motion made his tummy queasy or too much distraction or what but I was bursting after each drive!
For flying we did direct 5 hr flights at 2 months old and thanks to bfing and a soother he slept most of the time. At 3.5 months we did two 2 hr flights and those were tougher as he was getting hard to put to sleep in public...it was a "just make it through" kind of trip, but I still say it's all worth it. We love to travel!
I'd suggest bringing whatever you can from home to keep things familiar...for example he still sleeps in the pack n play so we brought that for smooth sleep adjustments. I second baby wearing and even think the stroller can be skipped depending on your situation. We didn't bring the stroller on the road as he doesn't love it and I could easily baby wear for any walking, whereas we brought it for air travel to make carrying multiple bags through the airport easier...it's just a little challenge to take it through security and collapse at boarding.
Have fun!