I went in to labor & delivery 2 nights ago...90% eff & a "good 5, almost 6" freaking cm dialated... and was sent home after no changes and inconsistent contractions after 3 hours... i've been laboring at home since, with horrid contractions about every 20mins, sometimes 3-4 back to back every 5-10, no real pattern but they are horribly painful. I've been walking, walking, walking, bouncing on a damn ball, drinking tea, primrose, darn near everything... and I can't get my labor in to full swing. This is my second kid, and they tell me it's going to happen really fast once it actually starts happening.
Everything i read says once you're past 5 cm you really should be in the hospital... any truth to that?
I just wonder how much longer they will let this continue like this... it seems odd, but doc doesn't seem alarmed at all. (39 weeks)
Re: 6cm/90%eff -- sent home?
That's why I'm confused that they wouldn't admit you...if you wanted an epidural I would think they'd keep you so they could help you manage pain. I'm a first timer, so I wasn't sure if contractions had to be regular in order to get an epidural or not (since it sounds like you are in quite a bit of pain).
Hang in there and hopefully you will have a beautiful baby here soon.
I'm at 39 1/2 weeks, 4 cm, fully effaced, and carrying VERY low, but my OB says that typically they won't interfere except for medical necessity prior to 40 weeks.
Here's what I would do in your shoes to get baby in the right spot and get things going: Miles Circuit. Walcher's. Side-Lying Release. Abdominal Lift and Tuck. And if things are too intense, take a warm bath. Have someone massage your back and squeeze your hips.