Monday Bitchfest 5/2

JulieSmiles · May 2016

princesslockness · May 2016

I have 2 that are about equal so far.
1. My emotions. I cried on my drive to work because H gets to stay at home with L while he is job hunting. I am jealous, then I think about Summer Break and being a STAH mom for that 3ish months and I panick. WTF self

2. My students. They had a project due Friday. I made a folder for them in their Google Drives, so they just had to drag and drop. I showed them every day how to do it. I personally checked each of their drives to make sure they had the folder. Yet today when I go to check, I have 80+ that were shared instead of just dropped into the damn folder.

slartybartfast · May 2016

I can't open the fridge or freezer without barging. I repeatedly asked dh if he could clean it and organize it and make sure there's food for mil this week. He didn't and now she's nannying for us with chaos fridge and pantry and I can't even explain because we aren't sharing the news yet

jenlynne0624 · May 2016

The fact my toddler got up at 345 and wouldnt not go back to sleep in his bed without dh or I staying in the room. Stupid storm.

DiFazette · May 2016

I need a new car in light of having twins and Ford wants to tell me that I have to pay out all payments in my lease (I work from home/stay at home mom - so I drive about 8k miles/year so I didn't buy) to get out of it. I told the manager that he/ Ford need to write an exception letter for the police when they want to know why my 3 children aren't in car seats to explain its because Ford is a bunch of greedy assholes. He said - let me see if I can find an exception clause for you. I mean, I CANT have 3 car seats in this car. It physically can not work. Going to ring his phone here soon and go at him hard if he doesn't call me before noon as promised. I told him Friday that if I need to pay out all of my patents to get out of my lease I will be visiting their lot daily making sure they don't sell it until the lease is due to expire - why should they get to profit on it 2x over while making my life a living hell? If they can sell it for more money since it's got less miles, what the hell is it to them?

Sorry for the rant. So many expensive things coming at us with having two babies and I ain't got time for this car bullshit on top of all of it! Someone's head is going to roll today.

princesslockness · May 2016

@DiFazette What a load of crap. It should be just like renewing your lease. As long as you are continually making the correct payments it shouldn't matter what car you have.

dckateh · May 2016

My morning sickness is generally pretty mild; I have nausea on and off all day but I feel so lucky that it's not that debilitating. I hit 8 weeks yesterday and this morning I had to pull over because I was about to vomit in the car. I didn't have a bag so I had a coffee cup I was planning on dumping on the street between heaves. Lovely. Ended up not blowing, thank God.

When I got to work I found that someone hadn't finished a rotating daily task over the weekend, so I had double work this morning; some jerk had rearranged bins of books and dividers in the children's section that I had to sort out (I'm a children's librarian), and a woman who drives the entire staff crazy came up and started demanding free printing. So after two hours of wanting to strangle everyone I told my manager I had to leave. Got in the car, made it home, and immediately burst into tears.

Today is just not a good day.

brittnic86 · May 2016

1st: This baby is sucking all of the moisture out of my skin! I swear I've never in my life had dry skin. My face and my hands are the worst, ugh. I look like a snake -_-

2nd: when will people leave me the hell alone =( Um, long story short; DH and I split last year for about 6 months, there were other women involved during the split seeing as DH was just so sure he wanted a divorce. He was having a quarter life crisis, we've worked things out, we continue to work through things, and honestly as much as it sucked, our marriage is better now. However, these bitches seem to think it's still cool to try to contact him, to make up stories about me meeting up with them (um excuse me?!) and call me fat and say I look like a troll. Honestly, I did nothing to these women. They're the ones who knew he was married, and that I was still hanging around in the background. I never contacted, harassed...nothing. So now that we're back together, and things are going great, they feel the need to harass ME?! Honestly I know that DH is being faithful; he's SO excited about baby, and he's always with me or at work...and I know that he's actually at work because he's gotten in the habit of sending me pictures all day long. I was already the victim here...I don't know why these women feel the need to do this. Especially the one who told him I met up with him...she wasn't even anyone significant...she just gave him her number in a bar 8 months ago. It's just annoying, and hurtful, and stressful.

Whew sorry, needed to get that off my chest! lol.

Sugargirl1019 · May 2016

I'm at work.

ugh.

@brittnic86 Omgsh! I'd be so stressed. Props to you for fighting through it. I'm so glad you and your DH are doing better.

@DiFazette I'm sorry Fords being a four letter word, your choice. If you were here I'd totally help you with our car dealership friend! It sounds like they should just transfer the lease over to the next car. Surely they have a special circumstances clause. How far into the lease are you? Maybe Ford can buy 3 Cybex Aton car seats for you since they are smaller (Not that they would fit.. But.. Gotta stick it to Ford somewhere.)

leksiL · May 2016

My rant is that i just threw up a little in yoga. WTF. TMI warning - I was able to swallow it and I did everything super slow and half-assed the rest of the class (luckily I was near the end) but man I miss working out soo bad. Then in the shower it smelled strongly of pee (UGH) and then walking back through the gym everyone's BO was setting me off. Then everyone had lunch in the elevators to get back to my office. I know I should eat something to make me feel better but yeeeeeeeeeeeck.

@DiFazette I'm so sorry. I just leased my Civic in September and it only has like 7000 miles on it too. I was thinking about trading it for a CRV but what would be the point if you still have to make all of your lease payments? I guess I won't even look into it. Our other Civic is paid off but I really don't want to trade it in and have two car payments!!

penelope4612 · May 2016

@brittnic86 - that's awful! How are they getting ahold of you? Can you block them?

@DiFazette - I also don't understand why they can't just transfer your lease to a bigger car. If they make you pay out the lease there is No Way I'd return it to them until the lease was up ( assuming you have someplace to park it). Can your husband drive it? I would totally just leave it in my driveway even if I couldn't use it as long as I was paying for it, just because I'm bitter like that.

phoenix870509 · May 2016

After being able to eat hard boiled eggs the last few weeks, baby decided I'm not allowed to eat them anymore. Great, one breakfast/snack option out the window. Why can't things just be consistent!? So now I'm sitting at my desk eating mac n cheese (and I swear this had better stay on my list of ok things to eat, since it's the one thing I'm always able to keep down) cursing the Zofran for not working. And one of our clients sent out a letter with my phone number on it stating to call it to make corrections I can no longer make. I came back from vacation to have 200 VMs and 400 missed calls! Yeah, oh so thrilled with that. Luckily my contact with the client has my back and is just as pissed with the whole situation. My boss and his boss have my back too, so smiles to that.

brittnic86 · May 2016

penelope4612 the girl from the bar first messaged me on facebook, so I blocked her. DH blocked her number on his phone, and she text him from another number, making up some story about how I had met up with her that day and talked to her about their "whole affair". TF. Go away.

DiFazette · May 2016

penelope4612 said:

@brittnic86 - that's awful! How are they getting ahold of you? Can you block them?

@DiFazette - I also don't understand why they can't just transfer your lease to a bigger car. If they make you pay out the lease there is No Way I'd return it to them until the lease was up ( assuming you have someplace to park it). Can your husband drive it? I would totally just leave it in my driveway even if I couldn't use it as long as I was paying for it, just because I'm bitter like that.

@penelope4612 - oh I hear you on being vengeful and bitter! I'll stick it to these mofo's any way I know how right now. H needs a truck for work and with 2 babies coming on top of the one we already have we can't accrue another payment just to be vengeful. I'm working them hard today. I've had 3 managers on the phone so far and just asked them if they'd prefer I come to the dealership so we could talk face to face ;-). Oh no, no, we'll figure this out. I will be there with bells on making a spectacle and give zero f's if they don't.

Sorry for anyone offended by my language today. This is me being PC & angry.

sammyl1221 · May 2016

@DiFazette can you go to another dealership and get a car you want and have them buy you out of your lease? A lot of companies will do that. I had another 8 months on my lease and they paid it out in order for me to get in their car. But it was a totally different car company so if you stick with ford I'm not sure how that will work.

slartybartfast · May 2016

I'm waiting for a plane to unload right now. I'm in the second to last row and it's a full flight. I know for a fact that no one on here showered, washed their clothes, or brushed their teeth. And they all brought garlicky things on for lunch

DiFazette · May 2016

sammyl1221 said:

@DiFazette can you go to another dealership and get a car you want and have them buy you out of your lease? A lot of companies will do that. I had another 8 months on my lease and they paid it out in order for me to get in their car. But it was a totally different car company so if you stick with ford I'm not sure how that will work.

@sammyl1221 - yes, I can! Ford will likely give me the best deal since they can re-sell it on their lot quickly rather than taking it to auction. If they can't come correct today or tomorrow I'm going elsewhere, and they are very aware of this!

princesslockness · May 2016

@DiFazette Good Girl!!!!! If you have to switch to a different dealer/brand I highly recommend Chevy Traverse or Acadia. They are large, comfy for adults, hold multiple car seats, and most have a built in vacuum.

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