12.5 weeks and I'm on the verge of freaking out... Not sure why but everything little thing is getting under my skin.. Please tell me I am not the only one who feels like this... Don't know if I want to cry or rip someone heads off...
Yes, just started for me and it's bad! DH made us homemade pizza Sunday night. He loves jalapenos and I asked him to put just a couple on mine. I took a bite and they were so spicy. I then yelled at him for not testing it first (I started eating it first) and told him I can never trust him again. He asked why I didn't just stop eating it (good point). It can get a little dramatic over here
I've been sending passive-aggressive messages to a manager all day because everything is irritating the living daylights out of me. I went off on my husband for saying something stupid earlier. And I'm pretty sure the next person that comes into my office will be losing their head. Thank goodness my assistant (who shares an office with me) is super awesome and literally just rolls with whatever. She's the only person I don't hate right now.
I haven't had any ragey moments until today. My landlord has two adorable pugs that like to come into my apartment to visit (sisters named Mary Anne and Ginger). Usually I like having them hang out, but one of them is a LOUD breather and I got so irritated! I had to kick her out three different times...for breathing!! I felt terrible because they are both so sweet, but only the quiet one gets to stay. I felt like I was having the worst PMS ever. Also, I live under the take off pattern for an airport and usually it doesn't bother me. Today I want to kill all the planes.
I thought I was going to lose it in a 2 hour lunch meeting today about things like teamwork and blah blah blah. Our boss LOVES to hear himself talk and he was reading every single word on the power point slides to us. I just wanted to yell "We can f#cking read it ourselves!" The last slide said "team building exercise" and I really thought I was going to walk out but luckily we were out of time.
Ticking time bomb. Aha. My hubby had been getting the brunt of it, mostly the venting about what others are doing to drive me nuts. Aha. This will go away, right?
I had to have blood drawn today and told the girl doing it I have a needle phobia. She finished drawing the blood, took the needle out and immediately said 'oops I used the wrong vials, I have to stick you again'. 2 needles and 11 vials later I was ready to smack the b*tch. WTF why didn't you make sure you had everything you needed before you started. Especially after I told you I have a fear of needles!
We have a "diva" at work right now. Ugh. It seems though that announcing baby gave me a buffer zone - he hasn't been having conniption fits with/around/at me. He has been with someone else on our team, so I of course hear all about it after. The bigger issue is that he agreed to something because most of the time it works to his advantage, and then when it doesn't he goes off the deep end. And takes it out on everyone else. He's a grown man, with his oldest child being 10 years younger than me. Ugh. The behavior just looks bad on the rest of the team though, which I really dislike. If he happens to blow at me again, I don't think I'll be able to take it. Not sure what my reaction will be with the hormones though... I could rage, or I could break down and cry. Either one will scare them because I'm usually pretty stoic.
We have a "diva" at work right now. Ugh. It seems though that announcing baby gave me a buffer zone - he hasn't been having conniption fits with/around/at me. He has been with someone else on our team, so I of course hear all about it after. The bigger issue is that he agreed to something because most of the time it works to his advantage, and then when it doesn't he goes off the deep end. And takes it out on everyone else. He's a grown man, with his oldest child being 10 years younger than me. Ugh. The behavior just looks bad on the rest of the team though, which I really dislike. If he happens to blow at me again, I don't think I'll be able to take it. Not sure what my reaction will be with the hormones though... I could rage, or I could break down and cry. Either one will scare them because I'm usually pretty stoic.
Can you just ask him to not yell? That you are standing right in front of him and it's not necessary? Calling attention to his antics should embarrass him into shutting up, hopefully. What a toolbox. Sorry he's a dick.
@HomeyDontPlayThatthat's the thing... he doesn't exactly yell, he gets very passionate in conversation. And he doesn't let you get a word in before he interrupts again. He got pulled aside by our department head the other day for speaking to another manager like that. I would assume he was put in his place because frankly you just don't mess with our department head [I both love and fear her for the exact same reason]. I don't mind when others share the frustrations with me, because it's good way to find out what the next scheme is gunna be. And gives me time to plan the shut down. I just dislike when it interferes with our time away from work, as I had to diffuse the scenario on my off day last week. Anyways, I don't think it'll be too possible for him to get to far with me if he tries to aim at me next time. Like I said, either I'm going to rage at him or I'm just going to break down and cry. No one wants the rep for making the preggo rage/cry/both.
I'm a SUPER bit&h lately. I mean I always sorta am, but it's been awful. But today, I was totally not and hubbs expected me to explode. LOL I asked him to bring something home from the grocery store, and he forgot. Instead of freaking out, I improvised and he was all.... back away slowly before this turns into a problem. LOL
Re: About to explode!
Also, I live under the take off pattern for an airport and usually it doesn't bother me. Today I want to kill all the planes.
My hubby had been getting the brunt of it, mostly the venting about what others are doing to drive me nuts. Aha.
This will go away, right?
The bigger issue is that he agreed to something because most of the time it works to his advantage, and then when it doesn't he goes off the deep end. And takes it out on everyone else. He's a grown man, with his oldest child being 10 years younger than me. Ugh.
The behavior just looks bad on the rest of the team though, which I really dislike. If he happens to blow at me again, I don't think I'll be able to take it. Not sure what my reaction will be with the hormones though... I could rage, or I could break down and cry. Either one will scare them because I'm usually pretty stoic.