May 2016 Moms

Monday/Tuesday Ticker Change (4/25 & 4/26)


How many weeks/fruit? 

Symptoms/raves/rants? 

Appointment update? 

Questions for the group?

How "ready" do you feel? Physically, emotionally, etc...

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Re: Monday/Tuesday Ticker Change (4/25 & 4/26)

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  • ^^ congrats!!
  • congratulations @Nicbert1214

  • How many weeks/fruit? 39 Pumpkin lol- will week 40 be "Baby"? 

    OMG. This made me giggle so much I *almost* peed.

    Also, congrats on getting married!!!
  • @Nicbert214 Congratulations!! :D

    Me: 31

    DH: 29, SA - Great

    Married: June 12,2011

    TTC #1: 1/2014

    Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea

    Treatment: Clomid:  50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored

                      Menopur 75ml (upped to 112.5ml), Ovidrel, & IUI  IUI #1 8/31/2015

    9/15/2015: BFP HCG - 400, 9/17/2015: HCG - 827, 9/21/2015 - HCG 3,327!
    Heartbeat 10/2/2015: 118bpm
    DS: 5/27/2016

    TTC# 2: 12/2017
    BFP: 4/20/2018
    EDD: 12/29/2018
  • Thank you ladies!! @jenbkc some of these comparisons are just so silly lol. My husband said yesterday maybe next week it will be a bear- I'm going with baby though ha ha
  • @missnc77 I haven't done any meal prepping either. I figure I have enough wonderful people around me that I will be fed afterwards!
  • @Nicbert1214 congratulations!!
  • AliciaD39 said:

    How many weeks/fruit? 36/papaya (tomorrow)

    Symptoms/raves/rants? She did a cervical check today and I'm hurtinggggg now. I've also been having headaches and mediocre blood pressure. They are starting the pills to get it going within the next 30 minutes so I'm going to be monitored until delivery. 

    Rave: I get to meet my baby tomorrow!!!

    Appointment update? In hospital now

    Questions for the group? Ideas to help with anxiety? :neutral: 

    How "ready" do you feel? Physically, emotionally, etc... Not ready. I thought I was until it became a reality about it starting. I have to keep telling myself women have kids everyday. Over and over and over... :-)

    Hugs!!! Yay about baby tomorrow!!!! You're going to do great. T&P for you and LO on your big day.
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  • @Bluejay3030 You're going to be a great mom to 2 kids. You know what to expect (for the most part). Remember that everything comes with time. I'll bet you find your flow faster than you did the first time around.
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  • Thank you everyone :)

    @kennedy0830 I can totally relate about the duo turning into a trio! I think that might be one of the most difficult things to adjust to- but I guess that's where all the family comes in and gets to play babysitter for the night or for a weekend right? :)
  • @Bluejay3030 You're going to be a great mom to 2 kids. You know what to expect (for the most part). Remember that everything comes with time. I'll bet you find your flow faster than you did the first time around.
    @doozer1345 God I hope so.  Thanks for the encouragement:)
  • How many weeks/fruit?  38/winter melon

    Symptoms/raves/rants? Hip pain is annoying. I sleep much better when I take an Epsom salt bath before I go to bed.

    Appointment update? I'm going every Wednesday. Last week I was 1 cm dilated.

    Questions for the group? 

    How "ready" do you feel? Physically, emotionally, etc... Not ready at all. I have a lot of irrational worries :(  Please don't judge me, but I'm worried I won't like him. I'm not sure where that is coming from, but all these baby pics where people say "so in love!" What if I don't feel that way??
    Me: 38; DH: 41
    DS: Born 5-17-16 

  • vinerie said:
    How "ready" do you feel? Physically, emotionally, etc... Not ready at all. I have a lot of irrational worries :(  Please don't judge me, but I'm worried I won't like him. I'm not sure where that is coming from, but all these baby pics where people say "so in love!" What if I don't feel that way??

    @vinerie - this is a normal feeling! For both of my pregnancies, it has been hard for me to bond with the baby. I don't have that "I am so in love with you" feeling that so many people talk of. Even when I gave birth to my daughter it wasn't like an instant connection. I think it's completely normal for that bond & connection to form overtime.
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  • @AliciaD39 - you got this! Keep us updated!

  • How "ready" do you feel? Physically, emotionally, etc... I really don't think it's set in that I'm about to be a mom. I know the end result here is me birthing a baby, but I'm just so nonchalant (sooooo not me - Ms. Type A) and DH have really enjoyed this pregnancy and it's almost made us closer - so it scares me a bit that it will no longer be just the two of us and although I know we'll be a great team, I know it'll be stressful off the bat and we'll get a little lost in this beautiful tiny human. Here's to good changes though. We got this. Oh and work - I'm so mentally checked out I think my boss is about to tell me that she'll just see me in August lol.
    I totally could have written this. I feel the same way! But my hope is that watching him be a dad and both of us loving the baby so much will continue to bring us closer (once we get used to total sleep deprivation).

    vinerie said:

    How "ready" do you feel? Physically, emotionally, etc... Not ready at all. I have a lot of irrational worries :(  Please don't judge me, but I'm worried I won't like him. I'm not sure where that is coming from, but all these baby pics where people say "so in love!" What if I don't feel that way??
    Yup. I get scared about this too. One of my friends told me she didn't have that "so in love" feeling with her daughter until several weeks in. I know it's normal but I hope I do feel it right off the bat because I worry that not feeling that way will cause a lot of anxiety.
  • I had the same thoughts with DD1 (not bonding). I didn't bond when she was in my belly and I haven't bonded with this one being in my belly. Fortunately, it did come the minute she was put in my arms BUT it's so normal for that not to be the case too. Don't be hard on yourselves. You're going through a lot at one time. Everything will come in it's own time. Unfortunately, this process doesn't come in a stock package. Everyone is different and there's nothing wrong with it.
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    Unicornuate Uterus (yes I menstruate glitter)
    Several MCs
    DD born 2013 (our miracle "you can't have babies" baby!)



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