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TTGP Grad Forum? (**TW**, but opinions from non-grads wanted too!)

Hi all,

So I've moved over to my BMB since my BFP,'s less than fulfilling. Am I the only crazy one who thinks this? I think the TTGP group has carved out a really nice little niche here. There are the daily check-in boards, and then the fun daily topics, and everything is nice and tidy and organized here. But over there, it's like all the drive-bys we get, but there's no one to stop it. PLUS, I miss everyone who isn't in my BMB!

So, that said, I was wondering if anyone would be interested in starting a group (private, maybe?) for TTGP grads. Sure, we'd all be at different points in our pregnancies, but the community and snark would be preserved.

Maybe I'm just jumping the gun and my BMB will learn to regulate itself/get closer as we near the end of the nine months. But if anyone else feels the same way, I'd love to get something together.
Me: 31 | DH: 31
Together since 2003 | Married 2010
TTC #1 January 2016
BFP April 18 2016 | EDD December 29, 2016
Welcome baby A! January 9, 2017

TTC#2 March 2018
BFP March 30, 2018 | EDD December 12, 2018

Re: TTGP Grad Forum? (**TW**, but opinions from non-grads wanted too!)

  • Guys, there's a monthly checkin around here for grads, plus you need to remember that this board is a well established community, people may come and go but they all follow the same guidelines, your BMB has only just started.
    Me - 22  |   DH - 32   |  Married - 24 May 2014
    DS - January 2014 
    TTC#2 - December 2015
    BFP - 6 March 2016  |  MC Confirmed - 21 March 2016
    TTCAL  |  April 2016
    CP  |  June 2016
    CP  |  July 2016
    BFP - 25 August 2016  |  Due Date - 11 May 2017
    PensiveCrayon[Deleted User]BusinessWifeizza2
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  • I have thought all along that if I ever get a BFP I would really like a TTGP grad board! 

  • I'd be down. It looks like people really enjoy their BMBs when they get there and I'm sure it takes some time to get started. Even so, I'm thoroughly enjoying my time here and would still participate if there was something.  
  • I felt that way when I jumped to my bmb with DD. Allllll the way through my pregnancy and after she was born I had given up on it. It was borning. Almost all drive bys and trolls but never the snark to go with it. I'd say make the group.
  • l9il9i member
    @PensiveCrayon I jumped over to December and had the same thoughts.  I haven't actually participated in anything because there wasn't much organization :neutral: 
    Me: 26 & DH: 25
    Married: August 2014
    TTC since November 2015
    BFP #1 12/17/15 - MC 1/28/16
    BFP #2 4/22/16 - EDD 12/30/16
  • Once I graduate, I'd like a TTGP board :) 

  • **Lurker/Siggy Warning**

    I'd be down for a grad board.
    Me: 31 | H: 32
    Married September 2014
    TTC #1 December 2014
    RE appt 12/2015
    CD3 labs normal | HSG 1/8/16 clear | H's SA excellent
    Dx: Unexplained Infertility
    February 2016, cycle 16 - cycle #1 with Letrozole 5mg + TI | Progesterone=20.6
    BFP 2/24/16 - EDD 11/7/16
    It's a girl!
    Isla Quinn born 10/29/16 at 38w5d via C/S
    TFAS March 2018
    RE consultation 8/2/18
    Suprise! BFP 8/8/18 natural cycle | EDD 4/19/19
    It's a girl!
    Afton Noelle born 4/10/19 at 38w5d via natural VBAC
  • Ha! This is funny only because I told my DH that if and when I ever get KU that I probably wouldn't participate in BMBs because I would miss the ladies in TTGP too much and the BMBs didn't seem as So --that's a resounding yes from me. 
    Computer Hope
    TTC January 2016
    BFP May 17, 2016
    DS born January 31st, 2017: Rory "Mac" MacKinnon

  • I'd definitely participate!  I've been lurking the Dec board, but have yet to join in... 
    Me:  35  DH:  37
    Married: June 2015
    TTC #1: September 2015
    BFP: 4/17/2016   EDD: 12/28/2016
    DS born 12/23/2016
    TTC #2: October 2017
    June 2018: SHG - Right tube blocked
    June 2018: HSG - Tubes clear!
    August 2018: Clomid/IUI #1
    September 2018: Clomid/IUI #2
    October 2018: Natural cycle/IUI #3
    BFP: 10/26/2018  EDD: 7/6/2019
    DD born 7/2/2019

    ~Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.~
    Matthew 6:34

  • antoto said:
    Give your BMB time and maybe you and @DiFazette can work to get that shiz organized and cohesive. It takes time to bond- be patient. There should be daily threads for BMBs right?

    edit for typo
    From lurking, a lot of BMBs have some of the same daily threads - FFFC, UO, etc. Lurk the other BMBs to see what kind of daily check ins they have and try to get them going. It will probably take some time to get it going, especially if it's early and there's a lot of intros/new posters that skipped TTGP.
    We have daily threads, but no body interacts on them, or at least not very much.  It's crazy to me, and I don't like it.  :cry: 
    Me: 30 DH: 32 ~~ TTC #1: Sep 2015 ~~ BFP: Mar 2016 ~~ Daughter: Nov 2016
    TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019

  • @MonaLisaRalphio it was through a PM. It was in response to my comment about her having a HPT as her picture. 

    Formerly known as Kate08young
    August '18 Siggy April Showers:

    Me: 28 H: 24
    Married: 7/22/14
    Baby L: 8/4/2015  August 2015 Moms
    Baby E: 11/18/2016   December 2016 Moms
    TTC #3 08/2017  BFP 11/27/2017. 
    Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well. 

  • It was no fun. Especially since I was very nice and just said 'we don't really do pictures of things that have been peed on. You might want want to change your picture.' Then she blew up my inbox.

    Formerly known as Kate08young
    August '18 Siggy April Showers:

    Me: 28 H: 24
    Married: 7/22/14
    Baby L: 8/4/2015  August 2015 Moms
    Baby E: 11/18/2016   December 2016 Moms
    TTC #3 08/2017  BFP 11/27/2017. 
    Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well. 

  • virginiahamvirginiaham member
    edited April 2016
    @Buthayna re: your comment about who doesn't like board organization cause I went to the same school as @MrsDho11 for awhile:  an impressive number of people.  We got chastised for being bossy and "enforcing rules" that nobody liked or wanted and were told that the world wouldn't end and we needed to all relax (ETA basically what we hear on the SS threads here).  Sorry it hasn't gotten much better @MrsDho11.

    I'm definitely with you on feeling that way after loss @MrsBinPA.
    me . early 30's | h . mid 30's | < 3 . 2013

    ntnp #2 . summer 2018

    *siggy warning*

    ttc#1 . jul 2015
    mmc . mar 2016 | 6w2d
    dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
    tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
    BFP! . jan 2017
    DD . oct 2017

  • Oh geez.  I'm waiting for someone to come at me about my post today on Dec BMB.  
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