taking this post down! sorry didn't realize it wasn't allowed here!
for the record- I am new to the bump and have suffered many losses as well on my TTC journey. (more than likely I'm still not even preg!!) Last time this year I was having my right tube removed because of a ruptured ectopic, and before I conceived my daughter (who is now almost 7) I have three early MCs, not trying to be a downer but yall really should take it easy on new posts..all that needed to be said was please remove your post IT doesn't belong here.
TTC is hard enough you shouldn't be ugly to others in your same boat as well.
It is extremely frowned upon here, and against the forum Terms of Use (TOU), to post pictures of things you've peed on. It is also considered rude to go into a group of women struggling with TTC and wave your BFP in their faces. The fact that you're asking a question about a negative digital doesn't change the fact that you've violated the TOU and rudely waved your BFP in our faces.
Also, because I'm honestly curious, what is the point of posting the picture of the pregnancy test? One does not need to see your faint positive FRER to tell you that digitals aren't as sensitive as FRERs and therefor won't read positive as early. I suppose I'm also a bit confused by the fact that this question could have been easily answered with a Google search that would have taken less time than signing up for a forum and posting the question.
Congratulations. Please move over to your Bump Month Board (BMB) or the 1st trimester board. If you'd like to post more pictures of pregnancy tests the appropriate place to do so is in this thread: What does a positive pregnancy test really look like? over on the 1st trimester board.
Your question won't go over well here. So prepare yourself for that. And in the future if you have a BFP don't go to a board of women struggling TTC to show off your BFP. And before you get offended by people flaming you for your rude post I want you to think about the women on here with infertility diagnoses who have spent so many hours worrying they'll never see a positive test like yours. I want you to consider the ladies who have been through loss(es) and how seeing that positive test brings back painful memories for them. I want you to think of the ladies, who for whatever reason, are having an incredibly hard TTC day today and how seeing this post just made their day 100x worse because it is a reminder to them that everyone else in the world seems to have no trouble getting pregnant. Pregnancy announcements really hurt when you're struggling TTC. And this forum is our safe haven to support each other through the hard days. This is supposed to be the one place where we can go without having to worry about seeing random pregnancy announcements.
ETA: I see that you've changed your original post to include your own TTC struggles. I'd think that after all that you'd be more understanding of just how painful it can be to see random pregnancy announcements. And I'd think you wouldn't do that to other ladies. I'm sorry for your struggles and your losses.
Me: 28 Husband: 31 TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016 Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Read our TOU at the top of the page, take down your pee stick and move to your BMB............. also the term i highlighted above is not a term we use here...it is considered offensive to those who have had losses...
TTC #1 - December 2015 Me:31 H:31 DX: MFI - 1% Morph 12/16 -IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol w/ Lupron trigger ER - 11 retrieved- 9 mature - 7 fertilized - 3 sent for PGS on day 5 - No normals (1 XXX Embryo - may use in future) 3/17 - IVF #2 - Antagonist Protocol w/ HCG trigger ER- 13 retrieved - 11 mature - 8 fertilized - 2 sent for PGS on day 5 -2 Normal FET #1 - 5/16/17 - BFP! - Beta #1 5/25 - 156 - Beta #2 5/30 - 2562 - Beta #3 6/1 - 5191!
Me: 34 DH: 36 TTC#2 September 2015 DD #1 born July 2014 Clomid 50 mg x2 months- no ovulation Clomid 100mg x 2 months- confirmed ovulation first month, BFN
You really need to read the terms of use for this site. It is against the rules to ask if you are pregnant and you are also not permitted to post pictures of pee sticks on any board with the exception of one tread in the first trimester board.
Move along to your BMB, get a clue and don't post here again trying to defend yourself it will only make matters worse for you. Waving a BFP on a thread is HIGHLY frowned upon here.
**TW LOSS*** I am in the middle of a miscarriage, my THIRD. I didn't need to see this today. Thanks a freak-in lot.
OP, a simply apology would have been fine. It makes it worse when you get snippy. I am sorry you have dealt with struggle and are having a hard time, but so are many of us here. Please learn from this and move on.
Personally, I don't see a second line, but if you are KU, congrats and move onto your BMB.
This thread has been closed. Please do not post pictures of your pregnancy test and ask the Community if you are pregnant. Instead, please visit our 1st Trimester board to discuss early possible pregnancy symptoms and the thread pinned to the top of this board called, “What does a positive pregnancy test really look like?” where members are permitted to display their pregnancy tests.
Please note that we remove posts that do not follow our guidelines and will issue warnings to users who violate the Terms of Use.
To review our Community guidelines, please visit The Bump Guidelines pinned at the top of this board. Thank you.
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QFP
kt0325 said:
Me:31 H:31
DX: MFI - 1% Morph
12/16 -IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol w/ Lupron trigger
ER - 11 retrieved- 9 mature - 7 fertilized - 3 sent for PGS on day 5 - No normals (1 XXX Embryo - may use in future)
3/17 - IVF #2 - Antagonist Protocol w/ HCG trigger
ER- 13 retrieved - 11 mature - 8 fertilized - 2 sent for PGS on day 5 -2 Normal
FET #1 - 5/16/17 - BFP! - Beta #1 5/25 - 156 - Beta #2 5/30 - 2562 - Beta #3 6/1 - 5191!
TTC#2 September 2015
DD #1 born July 2014
Clomid 50 mg x2 months- no ovulation
Clomid 100mg x 2 months- confirmed ovulation first month, BFN
Move along to your BMB, get a clue and don't post here again trying to defend yourself it will only make matters worse for you. Waving a BFP on a thread is HIGHLY frowned upon here.
**TW LOSS*** I am in the middle of a miscarriage, my THIRD. I didn't need to see this today. Thanks a freak-in lot.
Me: 39 DH: 40
Married: 12/6/2014
BFP#2: 10/28/15 MC: 11/24/15
BFP#3: 3/20/16 MC: 4/26/16
BFP#4: 7/15/16 DD: 3/18/17
BFP#5: 5/1/18 EDD: 1/12/19
Me: 32 DH: 31
TTC #1: January 2008
Surprise BFP: November 2009
CP: September 2016
OP, a simply apology would have been fine. It makes it worse when you get snippy. I am sorry you have dealt with struggle and are having a hard time, but so are many of us here. Please learn from this and move on.
Personally, I don't see a second line, but if you are KU, congrats and move onto your BMB.
10/2/10
Me:29 H: 31
TTC#1: Aug 2015
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5e3072
Do you know how I can take this post down for good???
Me: 39 DH: 40
Married: 12/6/2014
BFP#2: 10/28/15 MC: 11/24/15
BFP#3: 3/20/16 MC: 4/26/16
BFP#4: 7/15/16 DD: 3/18/17
BFP#5: 5/1/18 EDD: 1/12/19
This thread has been closed. Please do not post pictures of your pregnancy test and ask the Community if you are pregnant. Instead, please visit our 1st Trimester board to discuss early possible pregnancy symptoms and the thread pinned to the top of this board called, “What does a positive pregnancy test really look like?” where members are permitted to display their pregnancy tests.
Please note that we remove posts that do not follow our guidelines and will issue warnings to users who violate the Terms of Use.
To review our Community guidelines, please visit The Bump Guidelines pinned at the top of this board. Thank you.