TTC After a Loss

Statistical Data on Testing by FF

Hi all! Sorry but I had to take a bit of a break, and I think I'm in a much better mental spot than I was a month ago. I have been lurking here and there though and I'm glad to see so much persevering and good strong attitudes, despite wishing more of you/us weren't still here. But how all of you approach conquering this hurdle is always inspiring :)

Anyway, I was wondering if anyone saw this study that FF did. I found it really interesting as to the variance between when we in our dreaded TWW feel the optimistic possibility of getting a BFP, versus the hard data of when that BFP actually typically shows up.

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/Faqs/#/Faqs/When_can_I_expect_a_positive_HPT_if_I_am_pregnant.html
Me: 41 / Fiance: 35 +  One DS, one dog & two kitties...
First BFP: 1/17/16 = EDD 9/21/16 (MMC)
Second BFP: 6/24/16 (CP)
Third BFP: 2/7/17 = EDD 10/20/17 🌈 *** BORN 10/23 *** 🌈
Fourth BFP : 2/5/19 = EDD 10/14/19
     BabyGaga

Re: Statistical Data on Testing by FF

  • Rather than editing I just have to add, after re-reading the article once more, my main reason for posting it:
    I first read this article several days ago. Yet, I tested a couple hours ago; not FMU, at only 11 DPO. *smh*


    Me: 41 / Fiance: 35 +  One DS, one dog & two kitties...
    First BFP: 1/17/16 = EDD 9/21/16 (MMC)
    Second BFP: 6/24/16 (CP)
    Third BFP: 2/7/17 = EDD 10/20/17 🌈 *** BORN 10/23 *** 🌈
    Fourth BFP : 2/5/19 = EDD 10/14/19
         BabyGaga
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  • Hey, I was thinking about you. Glad to hear you're feeling a little better. I have read their study, but the compulsion is so strong to test. I'm thinking about not buying internet cheapies for next cycle because there's no way I'll go to the drug store with the cranky, judgmental cashier to buy a $15 test unless my period is late.
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • cooaladollycooaladolly member
    edited April 2016
    Awww thank you @reneeannemm! Every month I tell myself I'm not going to do it. I succeeded better at it last month, but I think it was because I was just so negative about everything. I find that the more hopeful I am about my chances in general, good BD timing, symptom spotting, high temps, I just can't fight that temptation, despite the logic. I even did the math of possible implantation timing, and then doubling of HCG from that date, which still puts me at tomorrow at the earliest.

    I blame falling for advertising. In my waffling back and forth over doing it early, the box convinced me with its "Test 5 days earlier" claim in big print (followed of course by a series of asterisks in much finer print). Though I seem to find a different excuse for testing early every time :p

    "Compulsion" is exactly right! (eta)
    Me: 41 / Fiance: 35 +  One DS, one dog & two kitties...
    First BFP: 1/17/16 = EDD 9/21/16 (MMC)
    Second BFP: 6/24/16 (CP)
    Third BFP: 2/7/17 = EDD 10/20/17 🌈 *** BORN 10/23 *** 🌈
    Fourth BFP : 2/5/19 = EDD 10/14/19
         BabyGaga
  • This is why I'm trying so hard to wait until 12dpo to test. I have no desire to put myself through the "too early" negatives. I didn't buy wondfos this time to keep myself accountable!
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    Our Rainbow Baby H arrived at 37 weeks on 12/20/16!
    Baby E arrived at 37 weeks on 01/31/15!
    Married my Marine 05.23.14

    *TW*
    TWIN LOSS 7.2.15
    BFP 9.7.15 CP 
    BFP 12.31.15 MC 2.28.16
    BFP 10.14.17 CP
    BFP 3.10.18 D&C 4.13.18
  • Right? For me the worst part of early negatives is that I keep my hopes up, since I know I'm too early, there's a tangible reason for the negative results. Instead of disappointing myself once, I'm going through it multiple times. At least now I feel like I can wait the extra day or two before trying again though.
    Me: 41 / Fiance: 35 +  One DS, one dog & two kitties...
    First BFP: 1/17/16 = EDD 9/21/16 (MMC)
    Second BFP: 6/24/16 (CP)
    Third BFP: 2/7/17 = EDD 10/20/17 🌈 *** BORN 10/23 *** 🌈
    Fourth BFP : 2/5/19 = EDD 10/14/19
         BabyGaga
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