Hey all, so my employer requires all doctors notes to include diagnosis. Does anyone have any experience with this? What diagnosis has your physician stated on your notes? Any help is appreciated.
Does your employer need a note for you to be out of work for appointments? In general, there are laws protecting employees from having to divulge personal information. And often, employers won't require a note unless you are out for 3+ days.
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Me: 31 DH: 27 TTC since April 2013 Two cancelled IUIs in Aug and Sept '15 due to low motility/count IVF round 1: January 2016 ER: February 17, 2016; 9 retrieved, 7 mature, 7 fertilized Day 5 Blastocysts: 5 BB, 1 AB, all normal from PGS FET date: May 11, '16; transferred 1 AB embryo First beta: May 23, '16: 998!! Second: May 25, '16: 1648 EDD: January 27, 2017
@wishingforluck, I would speak to an HR professional or attorney to get clarity on this. Like @dragonfaerie said, there are privacy protections in the law and also, your doctor might not be able to disclose that information under HIPPA.
Me: 33, PCOS with anovulation DH: 36, No known issues TTC since 11/2014 1000mg Metformin daily
Oct-Dec 2015: Letrozole 5mg, Ovidrel, TI = BFN x 2 Feb-May 2016: Letrozole 5mg, Ovidrel, TI, Prometrium = BFN x 3 August 2016: Clomid 100mg no response, Letrozole 5mg, Ovidrel, TI, Prometrium = BFN
Wow yeah that seems like huge privacy violation. I don't think they can require that. I don't have any experience with that as I work for an independent attorney and he doesn't require doctor's notes at all, but I would do a little research on your state's laws and requirements to see if they are in violation of any privacy laws. It sure sounds to me like they are. Now if you were trying to get short term disability or FMLA or something like that, then I could see them asking for a diagnosis.
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A letter stating you are under the care of your doctor and with dates really should be sufficient. I would fight back on that as you don't want your employer to discriminate against you in any way.
Yeah, that's totally illegal. I get the doctors note, I need one too, but they can't require diagnosis. That's a huge HIPPA violation.
Me: 31 PCOS + Homozygous A1298C MTHFR DH: 32 A-OK! December 2015-IVF 24 eggs retrieved, 16 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 9 frozen blastocysts January 2016-FET #1-BFP! February 2016-MC @ 7w3d April 2016-Hysterscopy and D&C May 2016-September 2016-Prepare to move to Qatar and TTC is on hold October 2016-Natural BFP & MC @ 6w December 2016-Natural CP April 2017-FET #2-BFP-It's TWINS! Follow our journey!
Thanks all for the replies. I was told after my transfer (by the nurse) that I wouldn't be able to lift anything, no strenuous activities and work until my beta. My job is very strenuous. However my RE told me today that I could go back to work and they wouldn't provide a note excusing me from work until the first beta, but they would provide a note stating the restrictions about lifting.
@dragonfaerie I was planning on being out for two weeks but the nurse is a little wacko I guess, because the RE says I can go back to work. Thanks for the info
@LizzieJ13 I spoke to the EEO officer who deals with work accommodations and such so she is setting up everything on that end. Thanks for the info.
@ale9687 Yes I definitely don't want them to discriminate.
@ultratomato yeh, I was planning on being out for over a week so I was trying to prepare myself. That darn nurse had me thinking I would be out of work for the TWW. Like way to add more stress to my plate.
@takethelongway I think even after the three days it is still a violation to ask for a diagnosis. But what can I do.
Anyways ladies thank you for all your replies. I really appreciate it. FX for everyone on this journey!
Hello all. I think if you are asking for a modification of duties at work, you need to provide evidence of a disability or health condition. This is different from asking for it taking sick leave. Where I work, the office of equity and diversity would get the medical info and then approve accommodations.
******* Married Jan. 2014 Me:36 DH: 39 TTC since August 2014, Mild PCOS + uterine fibroids Myomectomy June 2015- 18 fibroids removed IVF #1, May 2016 = 32 eggs retrieved, 12 fertilized, 7 frozen, 3 PGS normal FET#2, July 2016 = one embryo transferred TRIGGER BFP! Beta = 617 Due date = 4/9/17 Delivery date = 3/20/17
Re: Doctors note including diagnosis
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TTC since April 2013
Two cancelled IUIs in Aug and Sept '15 due to low motility/count
IVF round 1: January 2016
ER: February 17, 2016; 9 retrieved, 7 mature, 7 fertilized
Day 5 Blastocysts: 5 BB, 1 AB, all normal from PGS
FET date: May 11, '16; transferred 1 AB embryo
First beta: May 23, '16: 998!! Second: May 25, '16: 1648
EDD: January 27, 2017
DH: 36, No known issues
TTC since 11/2014
1000mg Metformin daily
Oct-Dec 2015: Letrozole 5mg, Ovidrel, TI = BFN x 2
Feb-May 2016: Letrozole 5mg, Ovidrel, TI, Prometrium = BFN x 3
August 2016: Clomid 100mg no response, Letrozole 5mg, Ovidrel, TI, Prometrium = BFN
https://money.usnews.com/money/blogs/outside-voices-careers/2015/09/21/whats-your-boss-allowed-to-ask-when-you-call-in-sick
Obviously I know going to the dr for fertility treatments or visits isn't the same as being sick, but I would think the overall point still applies.
Diagnosed with unexplained infertility
IUI #1- April '16 - BFN
IUI #2 - May '16 - BFN
IVF Fresh Xfer #1 (1 blastocyst) - Sept '16 - BFN
FET #2 - 11/8/16 (2 blastocysts) - Beta on 11/18
4 more blastocysts on ice
December 2015-IVF 24 eggs retrieved, 16 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 9 frozen blastocysts
January 2016-FET #1-BFP!
February 2016-MC @ 7w3d
April 2016-Hysterscopy and D&C
May 2016-September 2016-Prepare to move to Qatar and TTC is on hold
October 2016-Natural BFP & MC @ 6w
December 2016-Natural CP
April 2017-FET #2-BFP-It's TWINS!
Follow our journey!
@dragonfaerie I was planning on being out for two weeks but the nurse is a little wacko I guess, because the RE says I can go back to work. Thanks for the info
@LizzieJ13 I spoke to the EEO officer who deals with work accommodations and such so she is setting up everything on that end. Thanks for the info.
@em01092 Thanks for the article!
@Monica54321 Thanks!
@ale9687 Yes I definitely don't want them to discriminate.
@ultratomato yeh, I was planning on being out for over a week so I was trying to prepare myself. That darn nurse had me thinking I would be out of work for the TWW. Like way to add more stress to my plate.
@takethelongway I think even after the three days it is still a violation to ask for a diagnosis. But what can I do.
Anyways ladies thank you for all your replies. I really appreciate it. FX for everyone on this journey!
Married Jan. 2014
Me:36 DH: 39
TTC since August 2014, Mild PCOS + uterine fibroids
Myomectomy June 2015- 18 fibroids removed
IVF #1, May 2016 = 32 eggs retrieved, 12 fertilized, 7 frozen, 3 PGS normal
FET#2, July 2016 = one embryo transferred
TRIGGER
BFP! Beta = 617
Due date = 4/9/17
Delivery date = 3/20/17