Hey ladies! I'm hoping to get opinions from not FTMs (or FTMs who have experience with this, of which I am not one).
I'm looking at registry items already (I know, I shouldn't, but I'm such a planner, I can't help it) and am trying to figure out the best solution for the first few months of sleeping. I know I want to have baby in my bedroom (as babies room is 3 floors above my bedroom), and that I want to use a pack 'n play type thing with an infant napper.
I need to know this: anyone have experience with Summer Infant grow with me play yard versus Graco Pack 'N Play playard? I have never heard of Summer Infant, but I do know of (and used for niece/nephew) Graco. Anyone used one or both of them?
Thanks!!!
About us:
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
Re: Portable baby sleepers
PSA: this is why babies should never nap in car seats or rock n' plays...not worth the risk IMO (feel free to disagree).
That said, I'm pretty sure most pack n' plays come with a full size bassinet, which is where I plan on sleeping my babes for the first few months!
DD: 8/20/14; DS: 11/13/16; DD: 5/3/19; DD: 8/31/21; Baby #5 (team green) due 3/24/24
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
Another vote for a RNP then transitioning to a full sized crib. But- and I can't stress this enough- you won't know how your baby sleeps best until they actually arrive and you try out different things. I always try to avoid buying a whole bunch of gear before the actual child gets here. In America (unlike some of the places I've had babies), Target is 10 min away and Amazon is 2 hrs away, so you don't have to stock up in advance. The amount of baby gear that my LO's ultimately rejected...it's appalling.
Your best bet is to try to borrow some different sleeper options (RNP, PNP, etc) if you have any friends or relatives with babies. If not, consider how long the babe will actually be using the product before spending money on it (or registering for it).
IUI #1 Feb 2012= DS1 born 11/2012
Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle)=DS2 born 9/2014
Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle again)= EDD 11/2016
We also had a RnP but she never slept overnight in it.
https://www.amazon.com/Graco-Playard-Jacqueline-Discontinued-Manufacturer/dp/B005UV0UUE?ie=UTF8&colid=Z85ZQVFB5O2L&coliid=I3P98IZ4CBVXKL&redirect=true&ref_=br_it_dp_o_nS_ttl
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
For people who love the Rock 'N Play — did you have trouble transitioning your LO to a crib after he/she got used to sleeping in the RnP? I feel like I've heard so many horror stories about babies not wanting to sleep in their cribs after using a RnP.
I've been planning on purchasing and using the Halo Bassinest and a Pack n Play or the Nuna Sena. I know the Bassinest use will be pretty short term, but I LOVE the idea of it being practically right in bed with us, and the travel crib/cots I know we'll use on vacations or at grandparents houses long-term.
Married: September 2012
Began TTC: September 2015
BFP #1: 10/12/16, EDD: 06/23/15,
(pPROM, 16 wks + emergency D&E 12/31/15)
BFP #2: 03/09/16, EDD: 11/16/16
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The one big downside is how low to the ground the baby is. This mostly matters when you are trying to transfer them into their crib without waking them up. It's harder to accomplish in a PNP. Also, if you have a kid that likes to be patted to sleep (we did this in the MOTN when night weaning), it's hard to stand over a PNP, reach in and pat them- you can't really sit down or lean on the side. Think back cramps.
There's a bunch of little, practical stuff you don't think about when browsing the local Babies R Us. I guess it goes back to my earlier point that you don't know quite what will work until you try it out. Borrow instead of buy, when possible.
IUI #1 Feb 2012= DS1 born 11/2012
Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle)=DS2 born 9/2014
Unmedicated BFP (first post-weaning cycle again)= EDD 11/2016
Awesome Kid #2: Due November 2016!
BFP 01/01/2015, EDD 09/07/2015, CP
BFP 10/09/2015, EDD 06/01/2016, MC @ 7 weeks
BFP 03/12/2016, DD#2 born 11/15/2016
BFP 01/28/2019, EDD 09/29/2019