Hi, I am here after joining the November due date board, my EDD would have been 11/5/16 if my O date was correct. My husband and I have been together for 9 years, married for 6, and TTC for about 7 months. I am 33, and he is 47, this was the first pregnancy for both of us. My tests got darker over 5 days and then suddenly started getting lighter. I have had a very rough week physically, extremely heavy bleeding and severe cramping, which is finally subsiding. I am struggling, I was just short of 5 weeks, and I feel guilt about how lost I am. I know I am lucky to know we can get pregnant, I know losses this early are very common, but I am just so fucking sad. We are going to try again right away, I am trying to feel positive and look forward but it's hard. My best friend from early childhood who is truly a sister to me is pregnant after a long struggle and IVF, and while my happiness about that couldn't be diminished by anything, I am also so sad that we are not pregnant together anymore. I have a great support system, and a squishy rescue pit bull named Albert to cuddle while I heal, I look forward to getting to know you all but I hope we get to move on soon.
Re: Intro after chemical first pregnancy
BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d;
BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks;
BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016
Me: 33 & DH: 33
Married: 07/2006
TTC: 10/2015
BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017
I was also pregnant at the same time as my best friend/neighbor. We were only one week apart. My pregnancy ended, and hers has continued. I am so incredibly happy for her and grateful that she's had no problems so far. And yet, I am so sad for myself. It's a very difficult situation, and I feel your pain.
Me: 29, DH: 34
I'm sorry you have to watch your best friend's pregnancy go on without you. It is hard. My first pregnancy I would have been due in Dec 2015. It wasn't until I got pregnant that time did I start to enjoy the fact that I would have a 2015 baby along with my best friend and two other good friends. When I had the miscarriage, seeing them go on to have 2015 babies stung deep and still does. I am trying to let go of it but it really bothers me that as I watch their children hit milestones I will always think of what could have been. Ugh, it sucks. Hugs.
TTC #1 started Aug 2014
BFP Apr 3 2015
natural M/C April 20 2015 @ 6w6d
BFP Nov 18 2015
natural M/C Nov 23 2015 @ 5w4d.
TTC 09/15
*TW Loss mentioned*
BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
TTCAL 3/2016
Acupuncture 11/16
Dx December 2016: unexplained
January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby!
EDD: 10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17
Ambrose born on his due date!
Welcome to a great additional support network; I hope you find your hopefully short stay here insightful.
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
#BitterHagPartyOf1
Me: 26 DH: 28
TTC #1 since 06/2014
BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17
Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013
2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017
May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714
EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL! E. L. A. born 12/7/2017
Our Journey:
DS born 05/14
Losses 06/15, 09/15, 02/16