For all you moms out there, pending your second child.... are you planning on having a baby shower? I have mixed thoughts. My little boy turned 5 in December so it has been quite a long time now and I did lose a lot of my baby stuff to a flood in the basement. Plus the father to be is a new father, with nothing and no idea of what is to come. But I am still hesitant to have a baby shower despite all those reasons. I heard you were perfectly expected to even though it was your second child. It was only with the 3rd, that it would be known as the "baby sprinkle".
What are anyone's thoughts?