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Had a D&E yesterday...

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going to start coming around more.  Discovered an aggressive molar pregnancy about a week ago so a D&E was the best option for us.  Glad to have closure, or at least the first steps towards closure.  Hoping my levels go down and TTC is in the future Ina couple months.  Anyone else here benched for a bit? 
              
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                                                            DS #1 born 05/25/2012   
                                                     BFP#2:  06/12/2013 ---- loss 
                                                            DS #2 born 4/08/2014
      BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
                                                               BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
                    
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Re: Had a D&E yesterday...

  • penelope4612penelope4612 member
    I'm sorry for your loss.  I just started TTC again after being benched for about 4 months.  Welcome!
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  • MWoodsideMWoodside member
    I'm sorry for your loss. 

    DD1 born 5/24/10.

    Missed M/C at 14 wks Feb 2012.

    DD2 born 5/14/13.

    Missed M/C at 9 wks July 2015.

    Expecting someone new 4/17/17.
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  • BaylieGirlBaylieGirl member
    I so sorry!! :(
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  • silentPsilentP member
    Oh gosh, I am so sorry for your loss! We have just started TTC again this past month after a couple months benched for testing, etc. I hope you can relax a bit today and that your benched time goes quickly.
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  • catiecatpcatiecatp member
    I'm so sorry for your loss
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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  • Tennis11785Tennis11785 member
    I'm benched for at least the next month, possibly two.  It's this weird in-between place.  

    ** December BMB Siggy Challenge - Animals in Pools **


    Me: 31+ H: 32
    TTC Since 11/2015
    #1 - MMC 6.5 weeks (2/16); #2 - MC due to cystic hygroma at 20 weeks (10/16); #3 CP (2/17); #4 - Due 12.16.17
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  • lilyasterlilyaster member
    I'm so sorry.  I had a D&E Friday (and in October) and physically I feel pretty good within a few days.  I'm benched at least until my postop, but possibly several months depending on what testing we do, what my doctor suggests, and how much of a break I feel like I need.  I hope you can get plenty of rest and have a good recovery.
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  • Aera11Aera11 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. I had a D&C in mid January and I am still currently benched.  There was a little miscommunication between my nurse and I about when I'd go back (I thought tomorrow but apparently it's not till April), so I am sure by the time I am back in the game it will be May.  Patience is something I am learning to deal with daily now.  Hope you're feeling ok!
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  • BornReadyBornReady member
    Sorry for your loss
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  • MooFish2364MooFish2364 member
    I am currently having my first AF post loss. We are going to start trying again right away. It took us 6 months to get pregnant the first time so I feel like it probably won't happen right away this time. My dr mentioned waiting a few cycles but from what I've heard there's no real evidence for needing too. He told me as soon as I had negative pg tests that we were good to go. 
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  • stephann85stephann85 member
    So sorry for your loss.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • bornmommybornmommy member
    @MooFish2364 I hope you jinxed yourself there in a good way. Gl  

    My mw (and now her OB counterpart) wants to continue blood tests to see hcg go down to 0.  I wish I could just pee on sticks.  My arms are going to look like I have tracks when I'm done all these pricks. 
                  
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                                                                DS #1 born 05/25/2012   
                                                         BFP#2:  06/12/2013 ---- loss     
                                                                DS #2 born 4/08/2014
          BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
                                                                   BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
                        
                                                                                                                                     * formally bornmommy

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  • SnobunnieMelSnobunnieMel member
    @bornmommy i remember you from our BMB. I'm am so sorry to hear about this and that would had to join us all here. I hoping being benched doesn't drive you crazy. Everyone has been incredibly welcoming and supportive on these boards 
    Me: 30     DH: 31
    Married: 11.12.11
    TTC: Nov 2015
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX)
    D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.2016
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending  8.15.16
    Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid 
    half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006

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  • bornmommybornmommy member
    hey - right now I'm only thinking about recovery but I'm sure in a month I'll be going a little bonkers--- celebrating my kiddos birthdays and comparing the age difference of our (maybe) future children.  I'm hoping to use this experience to make positive change in my life and have more peace with becoming a "non planner" ... Hate to see you here too.  Glad to have the support.  @SnobunnieMel

                  
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                                                                DS #1 born 05/25/2012   
                                                         BFP#2:  06/12/2013 ---- loss     
                                                                DS #2 born 4/08/2014
          BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
                                                                   BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
                        
                                                                                                                                     * formally bornmommy

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  • Kay6519Kay6519 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss! I hope you heal quickly and find peace.
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