Hey ladies...need some help.
My grandmother is 90 years old and not doing so well. She had a stroke 2 weeks ago and since then has lost the will to live. My mother has said that i pretty much won't have another opportunity to see her alive even though I'm going to visit Easter Monday. I live in maryland and my family lives in NY. I am trying to think proactively about any funeral and services we might need to attend. I have looked through LO closet, but everything is bright colors. How do you dress a 3 month old for a funeral? If I could leave her with someone I absolutely would, but my whole family would be attending. Thoughts?
Thanks!
Re: Funeral
I do remember a few years ago at hubby's grandmother's funeral there was someone in the family that had a newborn and just put her in a white dress. It was the same time of year. The funeral was Easter day that year so my guess is it was likely an Easter dress.
ETA I found this on carter's website
https://www.carters.com/carters-baby-girl-dresses/VC_120G013.html?cgid=carters-baby-girl-dresses&dwvar_VC__120G013_size=12M&dwvar_VC__120G013_color=Navy#navID=header&start=40&cgid=carters-baby-girl-dresses
You should also start to think about how you will handle your lo with others who may want to hold her. The funeral we went to was more of a memorial and not as traditional. We also didn't have to stand in the receiving line. During the luncheon afterwards, the immediate family kind of formed a barrier around the twins so no one could hold them or get too close. They were still fairly young and were preemies so we were concerned with someone getting them sick.
I know others have just worn their los to avoid a random friend of the family or someone they've never met trying to grab them from someone's arms.
I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother.