Any other Moms-to-be out there diagnosed with a chronic illness? I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis 9 years ago and have been relatively symptom free. With this being my first pregnancy, I am wondering how other Moms might be feeling and dealing with your illness during pregnancy.
Re: Pregnancy and chronic illness
good luck, take time for yourself and take it easy!
Now on steroids and getting referred to a high risk OB and a gastro that will handle pregnancy. Very grateful for my OB as I just met her for the first time on Tuesday and she went so out of her way to hook me up.
@AllyTheKid I know RA and Crohns share a lot of the same meds! Did you ever do Remicade or Humira? I'm hoping to get on Humira eventually.
@AllyTheKid I am not one to talk because I like to ignore my symptoms too, but meds can be a lifesaver! I don't know if there are surgical options for RA, but with Crohn's, even meds don't always stop the surgeries from needing done. I hope your family had good results with surgery! I had one at 21 and it put me med-free until now.
Anyway, I'm glad you're still in remission. I can't imagine how difficult living with flared RA would be. All I know about are digestive issues haha.
I think with RA if it ever came down to surgery, it's game over. I don't want to be the 30y/o with joint replacements one day though, so hoping for a LONG comfy remission, but meds are my next stop need be!
@OrangeEv I have been on Humira for a couple of years and I love it! I was on Remicade for awhile and had a lot of issues because my veins are crap, so I had a port put in (it flipped) so I had that taken out and was like screw this, and switched to Humira. Feel free to ask any questions about it. After my last flare I went from biweekly injections, which is standard, to weekly. That is helping my arthritis too.
I'm more nervous about post delivery. Both my OB and my gastro are concerned that I will flare after delivery.
@GotRedOnYou I'm worried about post delivery, too. Also, because my disease has historically been the most severe in the large intestine, my doctors have suggested that a vaginal delivery may not be the best way to go, so I'm freaked about the impacts of the delivery itself, too.
Regarding the Humira/Remicaid discussion - I have been on both and neither were successful keeping me in remission. The Remicaid seemed to work for about 6 months, but then I ended up back in the hospital with a flare that my doctors weren't sure they would be able to get under control. The Humira never had a positive effect. I know they work well for a lot of people, but like anything response is specific to the individual.
For me, natural labor really wasn't an option because the fistulas could have ruptured during labor, emptying the contents of my bowels into my body, which is potentially life-threatening. So I wanted to deliver baby in the way that was safest for her and me, which meant a c-section.
FWIW, anecdotally, I think scheduled c-sections are easier because your body isn't exhausted from labor, but that's just based on my experience and others I know of. Your mileage may vary. And at the end of the day, no matter how baby is born, we are all mothers. Good luck to you in your pregnancy.
We'll just have to see.... hubby is prepared for whatever may come. No use is stressing about it now.
The minor annoyances:
- The RA fatigue has combined forces with the pregnancy fatigue and the Dictectin side effects. The trio is merrily kicking my ass all day, except apparently at 4 am, when sleep would be useful. Assholes.
- The whole relaxin + shitty joint combo has me waddling already even though I have nothing close to a bump and weigh less than I started off with. It's not very painful at all compared to my usual flares - just feels like post-exercise discomfort all the time. Mostly I just feel like a bitchy penguin. Think Gunther from Adventure Time (condensed primordial evil and all).
- Every. Joint. Is. Cracking. All the time. If I had any rhythm, I would make a pretty decent instrument.
- Synovial fluid draws. I mean, you don't fuck around with lung impact, and they're a solid disease indicator when pregnancy limits other diagnostic methods, but FUUUUUUUUUUUUUU. 1 down, 2 more to go.
ETA some letters. Mostly Us. Couple of Es. An S or two.
My Crohn's is still flaring and I may have to go on prednisone the entire pregnancy. Not happy about it but you gotta do what you gotta do. Anyone ever do Cimzia? Just curious?
Side Note: It is kind of awkward when everyone asks how you are feeling because they know you're pregnant and you don't whether to just say "great!" OR launch into how badly your chronic disease is treating you...
However, with DD2, I was symptom free during and after my pregnancy.
There is certainly hope that getting the flare under control during pregnancy can significantly help post-partum. Take care of yourself, and I hope you feel better soon.