Infertility

Thank you! ***trigger warning**

I wanted to thank ll of you lovely ladies and men.

When I started my journey I knew I was doing it on my own.
Due to the use of a donor, I knew I had to go through IUI to get pregnant.
I had read all about it, was as informed as good as one could be and was ready to start this journey.

What I didn't know is that I had PCOS and what that meant.
I didn't know that I needed hormone injections to get mature eggs and I had no idea I would end up going through IVF.

When started my first hormone shots with IUI I felt very much alone. No one in my family or any of my friends knew what I was talking about. 
They all just pop out babies.
The most common thing that was being said was 'maybe you should get a husband', 'it's because you are doing it on your own'. 
Again and again I had to explain that it is not the lack of a husband that I have to use hormone injections, its the lack of mature eggs.
I got really tired of explaining.

In November I started IVF and it was about the same time I joined you lovely ladies and men.
Boy have I felt welcomed here!
You all have been such a great support, cheered me on and let me feel that I am not completely alone.
You have given advice, shared your stories and understood where all the feelings, worries and exhaustion came from.

You are all amazing and I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart. I could not have gone through some of these days without having your support.
Thank you! 

Sending all of you lots and lots of babydust xoxo

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Daisypath Happy Birthday tickers Lilypie Maternity tickers



Re: Thank you! ***trigger warning**

  • hello beautiful! Boy am I going to miss you around these parts! ;)
    I hope you continue to pop back in and visit. In the meantime, I'm wishing you the absolute most amazing pregnancy. I know that child is going to be so so loved when they make their way into this world. I'm sure you're just over the moon, and now filled with so many new worries and concerns ;) that's just the way it goes I suppose. Over one hurdle, onto the next, and then the next...  Big big congratulatory hugs to you. Take care! xx
    ---
    Started TTC April 2011
    Me: 32, DH: 32
    Diagnosis: Endometriosis

    • 2012 - 3 Rounds clomid - all BFN
    • 2013 - 1 Fresh IVF with 2 day 3 embryos - BFN
    • 2014 - 1 Frozen IVF with 2 day 5 embryos - BFN
    • Took a long break, continuing trying naturally
    • Feb 2016 - Biopsy = Endo, DH sperm improved from 1% to 6% morphology
    • March 2016 - Fresh IVF cycle with acupuncture & intralipids: 20 eggs retrieved (17 mature), 7 ICSI'd fertilized, 9 naturally fertilized. 16 total embryos!
    • April 8th - 2 embryos (1ICSI and 1 Natural) transferred. (7 blastocysts frozen), April 18th - Beta = BFN
    • Sept 23rd - Lupron Depot Injection for Endo control
    • Nov 15th 2016 - Started daily Lupron Injections for upcoming FET
    • Nov 22 - Baseline US/BW - Intralipid Infusion - Start Meds for FET with immune protocol
    • Dec 16th FET transfer of 3 embryos (1 - AA, 2 - BB)
    • TW below
    • Dec 22nd - first ever bfp (very faint lines FRER & cheapie)
    • Dec 27th Beta = 192, Dec 29th Beta = 379
    • EDD - Sept 5th 2017

    - - -
    I'm a YouTube vlogger who talks about Infertility, IVF and Endometriosis. Check it out here!
    Follow along at http://liv4today.blog
    Instagram @liv4todayvlog 


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  • You got your bfp??? Omg, im so excited!!!! You will make the best mommy! I'm also proof that you don't need a man and a woman to make a baby who will be loved and adored. Good luck! 

    RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS  RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
    Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • I haven't been here long, but in the time I have, I have been able to see what a wonderful, supportive member of this community you are. So happy for you! 
    Me: 29 DH: 28
    Together since 2008, married Sept 2013
    ttc #1 since July 2014
    DX: unexplained infertility
    Sept, Oct, Nov Clomid 50 mg: BFN
    Feb 2016 IUI w/ 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel, Prometrium: BFN
    March 2016 IUI w/ 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel, Prometrium: BFN
    June 2016 IVF: BFP 6/28!!! beta #1: 358, beta #2: 1428, beta #3: 3742


    Pregnancy Ticker
  • I've been reading your posts on different threads here and I am so happy for you! For all the people that said to maybe just get a husband, how dumb! I hope they are able to educate themselves on what infertility really means and what so many people are going through to conceive a child. Anyway, I'm thrilled you got your bfp and I'm sure your little bean is already getting lots of love. Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months! :smiley: 
    ***History & TW in Spoiler***

    ***bfp & child warning***
    TTC - since 2014
    7 rounds of Clomid - BFN
    IUI #1 - October 2015 - BFN
    IUI #2 - November 2015 - BFN
    IUI #3 - December 2015 - BFN
    IVF #1 - March 2016
    Retrieval #1 - April 2016
    FET #1 - May 2016 - BFP!!! DS - Born January 2017
    Trying for baby #2...
    FET #2 - January 2018 - BFN  
    No more embryos left; switched to a new RE
    IVF/Retrieval #2 - January 2019
    IVF/Retrieval #3 - March 2019
    FET #3 - April 2019 - BFP!!! - DD: Born December 2019
    Trying for baby #3...
    FET #4 - October 2021 - BFP!!! - Due June 2022


  • Congratulations!  You have always been such a source of support to the group.  Best wishes for an amazing happy and healthy 9 months.  
    TTC since August 2014 
    Me: 41, Him: 43 

    DX: Unexplained secondary infertility 

    History:
    Multiple months of Clomid/Femara
    End of March 2015: BFP with Femara! Saw heartbeat at 5.5 weeks. M/C at 11 weeks
    Multiple more months of Femara
    IUI #1 with Femara and Follistem 75 units: BFN
    IUI #2 with Follistem 150 units: BFN
    Dec 2015: 1st IVF. 10 eggs retrieved with 8 eggs fertilized.  5 day transfer of two embryos with 2 frozen embies. BFN
    January 2016: FET #1 2 embryos: BFN
    March 2016: 2nd IVF cycle. 4 eggs retrieved with 2 fertilized. Quick two day transfer of both embryos: BFN
    April/May 2016 IVF #3. 11 eggs retrieved. 10 mature.  7 fertilized.  2 5AA blasts transferred 5/11/2016 BFN
    September 2016 IVF #4: 17 follicles growing, premature ovulation through Cetrotide. Retrieval cancelled. 
    April 2017 IVF #5: 9 follicles growing, 6 eggs retrieved with 5 fertilized. Transfer of three blasts. BFN
    June 2017: IVF #6: 2 follicles growing, 5 eggs retrieved with 5 fertilized. Transfer of 5 3-day embryos. Chemical pregnancy. BFN
    Nov/Dec 2017: Donor egg cycle. 33 eggs retrieved, 26 mature. 26 fertilized. 
  • Girl, you are making me cry! I am so happy for you, and blessed to have benefited from your wisdom on these boards. Don't be a stranger! God bless you and your wee one!

    ---Trigger warning---

    Me: 31 DH: 27
    TTC since April 2013
    Two cancelled IUIs in Aug and Sept '15 due to low motility/count
    IVF round 1: January 2016
    ER: February 17, 2016; 9 retrieved, 7 mature, 7 fertilized
    Day 5 Blastocysts: 5 BB, 1 AB, all normal from PGS
    FET date: May 11, '16; transferred 1 AB embryo
    First beta: May 23, '16: 998!!  Second: May 25, '16: 1648
    EDD: January 27, 2017
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • I'm so happy for you. Look forward to seeing you over on the BMB!
    DS#1: born Dec 29, 2013 
    TTC#2 since Sept 2014 - unexplained secondary IF
    BFP #2: 11.7.14  M/C: 11.27.14 @ 6w3days
    BFP #3: 04.19.2015 M/C 04.27.15 @ 4w3days
    BFP #4: 10.05.2015 C/P @ 3w4days
    Oct 11, 2015: Cycle 13. Starting Femara (2.5mg). HSG this cycle (all clear) - BFN
    Nov 12, 2015: Cyle 14. Femara 5mg + IUI - BFN
    Dec 10, 2015: Cycle 15. Femara 5mg + IUI #2 - BFP #5! C/P 4w4d
    Jan 10, 2016: Cycle 16. Femara 5mg + IUI #3 - BFN.
    Feb 10, 2016: Cycle 17.  No IUI or meds. Taking a break - Natural BFP Mar 5, 2016!!!! EDD Nov 16, 2016
    Moving to IVF March 2016
    Beta at 10dpo: 21, Beta at 12dpo: 98, Beta at 14dpo: 264, Beta at 16dpo: 745
    U/S 6w6d: single beautiful heartbeat of 121bpm - It's a boy!!!!
    Nov 3, 2016: Our family became complete. Welcome DS #2.
  • @laurenlalap Hey! I missed your BFP! Congrats!

    ---Trigger warning---

    Me: 31 DH: 27
    TTC since April 2013
    Two cancelled IUIs in Aug and Sept '15 due to low motility/count
    IVF round 1: January 2016
    ER: February 17, 2016; 9 retrieved, 7 mature, 7 fertilized
    Day 5 Blastocysts: 5 BB, 1 AB, all normal from PGS
    FET date: May 11, '16; transferred 1 AB embryo
    First beta: May 23, '16: 998!!  Second: May 25, '16: 1648
    EDD: January 27, 2017
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • SO SO SO happy for you!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
    Me: 31 / DH: 32
    Married 10/14/2011
    TTC since 11/2011
    DX: unexplained infertility

    1st IUI 12/23/15 Clomid + Ovidrel - Beta 1/8/16 BFN
    2nd IUI 1/22/16 Clomid + Ovidrel - Beta 2/8/16 BFN
    3rd IUI 2/27/16 Clomid + Ovidrel - Beta 3/15/16 BFN
    4th IUI 3/27/16 Clomid + Ovidrel - Beta 4/11/16 BFN
    5th IUI 4/26/16 Clomid + Ovidrel - Beta 5/11/16 BFN
    *****TRIGGER*****
    6th and final IUI 5/27/16 Clomid + Ovidrel - BFP!!!
    1st Beta on 6/8/16 @ 12piui: 22; 2nd Beta 6/10/16 84.4; 3rd Beta 6/13/16 300; 4th Beta 6/16/16 1168; 5th and final beta 6/20/16 4188
    1st U/S 6/23/16 - Two babies! One measuring 6w1d with a visible heartbeat!!! The other is measuring small and isn't likely to make it
    2nd U/S 7/5/16 - Baby #2 didn't make it :cry: Baby #1 is measuring right on schedule and has a FHR of 143!!
    3rd US 7/15/16 - Baby #1 right on schedule! FHR 168!!! Discharged from RE!!!!

    BabyFruit Ticker
  • Yays! I've enjoyed our time together on the Feb FET board. I'm glad that this cycle turned out good for the both of us. I'm so happy for you that you finally get your BFP and I'm hoping you get a take-home baby as well! I wish you nothing but the best.

    In case you're planning on staying on the bump forums and moving over to the first trimester board you should know this: It isn't like this board at all. There are people who complain about being pregnant, people who wished they weren't and some who seem just crazy. I've been lurking over there for about a week, and I don't really feel comfortable with it yet. Maybe once I know that I have a tiny heartbeat it'll be easier.
    About us:
    Me - 28, Lean PCOS
    DH - 31
    Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
    Blog: ourbinarystar.com

    FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!

  • Congrats !!!!!!!!
  • Congrats and hope you have an amazing healthy and happy 9 months!!!
    Me 28 DH 33 | DX: DOR | HSG: Normal | IUI#1: (Clomid/HCG/Progesterone) BFN | IUI#2: (Clomid/HCG/Progesterone) BFN | IUI#3: (Clomid/HCG/Progesterone) BFN | IUI#4: (Menopur/HCG/Progesterone) BFN | IUI#5: (Menopur/Gonal-F/HCG/Progesterone) BETA 7/2
  • @laurenlalap Hey! I missed your BFP! Congrats!
    Thank you! :)
    DS#1: born Dec 29, 2013 
    TTC#2 since Sept 2014 - unexplained secondary IF
    BFP #2: 11.7.14  M/C: 11.27.14 @ 6w3days
    BFP #3: 04.19.2015 M/C 04.27.15 @ 4w3days
    BFP #4: 10.05.2015 C/P @ 3w4days
    Oct 11, 2015: Cycle 13. Starting Femara (2.5mg). HSG this cycle (all clear) - BFN
    Nov 12, 2015: Cyle 14. Femara 5mg + IUI - BFN
    Dec 10, 2015: Cycle 15. Femara 5mg + IUI #2 - BFP #5! C/P 4w4d
    Jan 10, 2016: Cycle 16. Femara 5mg + IUI #3 - BFN.
    Feb 10, 2016: Cycle 17.  No IUI or meds. Taking a break - Natural BFP Mar 5, 2016!!!! EDD Nov 16, 2016
    Moving to IVF March 2016
    Beta at 10dpo: 21, Beta at 12dpo: 98, Beta at 14dpo: 264, Beta at 16dpo: 745
    U/S 6w6d: single beautiful heartbeat of 121bpm - It's a boy!!!!
    Nov 3, 2016: Our family became complete. Welcome DS #2.
  • @AandDM2014 - I can't ever remember who I've congratulated and not, so if I'm repeating myself I apologize. Congrats to you too! How exciting!!! I never thought about that really. I sometimes google random things and happen upon the "normal" threads, and it's a different world for sure. I guess I haven't given much thought to finding a safe environment afterwards. Are there are Pregnant after Infertility forums? :neutral: Hope you find your space! 

    Congrats @laurenlalap - again... not sure if I already said so :) so promising seeing so many of you "graduate" from our little infertility community. Gives me hope again. Hope the next 9 months treat you well. 

    And congrats again tvh1982 
    ---
    Started TTC April 2011
    Me: 32, DH: 32
    Diagnosis: Endometriosis

    • 2012 - 3 Rounds clomid - all BFN
    • 2013 - 1 Fresh IVF with 2 day 3 embryos - BFN
    • 2014 - 1 Frozen IVF with 2 day 5 embryos - BFN
    • Took a long break, continuing trying naturally
    • Feb 2016 - Biopsy = Endo, DH sperm improved from 1% to 6% morphology
    • March 2016 - Fresh IVF cycle with acupuncture & intralipids: 20 eggs retrieved (17 mature), 7 ICSI'd fertilized, 9 naturally fertilized. 16 total embryos!
    • April 8th - 2 embryos (1ICSI and 1 Natural) transferred. (7 blastocysts frozen), April 18th - Beta = BFN
    • Sept 23rd - Lupron Depot Injection for Endo control
    • Nov 15th 2016 - Started daily Lupron Injections for upcoming FET
    • Nov 22 - Baseline US/BW - Intralipid Infusion - Start Meds for FET with immune protocol
    • Dec 16th FET transfer of 3 embryos (1 - AA, 2 - BB)
    • TW below
    • Dec 22nd - first ever bfp (very faint lines FRER & cheapie)
    • Dec 27th Beta = 192, Dec 29th Beta = 379
    • EDD - Sept 5th 2017

    - - -
    I'm a YouTube vlogger who talks about Infertility, IVF and Endometriosis. Check it out here!
    Follow along at http://liv4today.blog
    Instagram @liv4todayvlog 


  • srh18srh18 member
    Congrats @tvh1982 !! You have been so supportive and helpful to everyone. I am so so happy for you!! Wishing you a happy and healthy nine months!!
  • tvh1982tvh1982 member
    edited March 2016
    Aw, you girls are to kind.

    Every time I see a BFP popping by on here I get all excited! So I was definitely thinking of staying a lurker here, as miracles do happen on this forum!

    @AandDM2014 I'm not sure I am ready, or every be ready to hear about women complaining that they are pregnant. I don't mind the complaining about symptoms, as they are not always easy to handle..but to complain there is a little miracle growing inside you, that is just something I can not deal with. So thank you for the heads-up.

    @twomommiestobe: Yes I finally got my BFP, see we are not to long apart from each other with due-dates! 

    @oxinfree: it is indeed over one hurdle unto the next...I had to google 'pregnant what now?' As I am absolutely clueless about this part. But my regular doctor, has already done his research to give me a propper follow up after IVF, so I feel like I am in good hands.

    @msirni0, @tulips29 and @radmom27 thank you..I'll keep 'stalking' you girls a bit to see how your journey goes!

    Now you made me cry too @dragonfaerie! Can't wait to see how you be doing in mai!

    Keeping everything crossed for you on 15th March @nursetmd85

    Not sure what your new protocol will be @dadezbomz, but I'll keep an eye out for you!

    Let's get that trigger ready next week @starlight811! You've got this!

    Keep going strong @srh18, I know your in your dreaded TWW, and those are torture. Find lots of things to do that make you happy! FX

    **edited: English is hard ;)

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    Daisypath Happy Birthday tickers Lilypie Maternity tickers



  • I am so beyond ecstatic for you ! You really have been amazing to us all on this board being an ear to vent and always keeping us positive . You are already an amazing mama . I hope your pregnancy is happy and healthy and I wish you and your Little one all the best . As others said , please don't be a stranger . I creep on the pregnant after IF board for inspiration so maybe I'll see you there !! Hugs !!! 

    **BFP and loss warning**

    Me: 29
    DH: 29
    Us: Married Valentine's Day, 2015
    DH: No issues.
    Me: PCOS, unexplained infertility (whatever that means!!)
    June 2015 Medicated TI cycle: BFN
    July 2015:  Medicated TI cycle: BFN
    August 2015: IUI: BFP. Chemical pregnancy :(
    October 2015: IUI: BFN
    January 2016: Egg retrieval: 10 frozen embryos!
    March 2016: FET Cycle- 2 embryos transferred!: BFP !
  • @oxinfree There is a success after IF board, but it is pretty dead.

    @tvh1982 I agree with you that English is hard! Hopefully when you're ready to move over to that board it'll be helpful. I think I've only posted twice, as I just don't feel comfortable being there yet. Maybe after a few u/s I will!
    About us:
    Me - 28, Lean PCOS
    DH - 31
    Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
    Blog: ourbinarystar.com

    FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!

  • @tvh1982 congratulations, so happy for you!! 

    there is a pregnant after infertility board here that has been good, more on the quiet side but still good. 
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