Started the morning with a guilt trip and tears from MIL who swears I am trying to keep DD from her. So she got drastic and said she would have SFIL keep Dd today while she ran her errands. All I asked was she not cut DDs hair because MIL has been bugging us about it and it was quite possible she'd take it on herself to get it cut.
The tenant who is not supposed to be on the property, used the spare key he had yet to return to enter the house today and take pictures of the damages we plan to charge him for. He also wanted DH to sign a copy of the damages list that he was given Monday. Of course DH sends me a text but doesn't pick up my calls or really respond. I am a legal freak so I am SCREAMING AT HIM via text not to sign anything and he needs to call the cops and have the guy removed. Nothing. I call my dad who is also out there and of course he doesn't pick up. It was an hour later before DH called me back to tell me to chill. No I will not. He was proud for how HE handled it being all calm and telling the guy he is not allowed on the property without notice. A text saying all is ok would have been great.
I want to throat punch whoever handles the nursing line for my Dr's office. I put in a call asking about adding the GBS test to my next appointment and the line says "we will contact you within 24 hours, no matter your concern." Um it's been almost two days. Wtf.
I want to throat punch whoever handles the nursing line for my Dr's office. I put in a call asking about adding the GBS test to my next appointment and the line says "we will contact you within 24 hours, no matter your concern." Um it's been almost two days. Wtf.
WTF Why isn't this standard? Mine is being done at my next OB appt which is 36 weeks. Your doctor sucks.
Started the morning with a guilt trip and tears from MIL who swears I am trying to keep DD from her. So she got drastic and said she would have SFIL keep Dd today while she ran her errands. All I asked was she not cut DDs hair because MIL has been bugging us about it and it was quite possible she'd take it on herself to get it cut.
Omg. I'm sorry. This sounds like my mother. The fact that you even have to ask her not to do something like that is sad enough. wtf. people.
TP to my coworker. If I say multiple times that I only have enough of something that a collaborator made for me to do very specific experiments a very specific number of times under very specific conditions no I cannot: give you some to fuck around with, get more for you to fuck around with, change the process by which these experiments are being run. You saying the same thing over and over again will not change my answer. Also do not tell me that the two experiments cannot be linked together because one was given an additional stimulus. Yes they can. It's not my fault you don't understand the questions we are answering or want something different done that pertains to your stupid project that isn't going anywhere. I guess that's more of a ranty bitch, but I was annoyed beyond belief.
TP to my coworker, that I don't think I've ever actually spoken to before? (different departments, grade levels, buildings), who felt the need to comment as she walked past me in the library "You look uncomfortable". Really? WHY?! Why did you feel the need to say that? I don't look any more or less uncomfortable than any other normal day, and I think I hide just how uncomfortable I am pretty darn well, TYVM...
On another note, my work shower is tomorrow and I can't decide if I'm excited or just nervous and anxious? This is my second year teaching at this school, and while I am friendly with my team and my department, I don't interact with the majority of the people here, especially this year because I'm far too concerned with my personal life to get overly involved here, and I am in a new classroom which is its own separate building away from everyone else so I'm kind of a recluse. I know people are excited for me, the closer we get to the EDD (or the bigger that I'M getting maybe?) more and more people are talking to me, but...I don't know, I just feel weird having people at work that I don't know well buying stuff for the baby (though I love gifts, don't get me wrong lol) as well as getting a BRU gift card from the collection they've taken. I just feel awkward.
The people I work with are really getting on my nerves. I was at a meeting this morning and a lady from a different department was blasting me and my colleague about not being included on any decision making on a project (my colleague) and for her CMS account to her providers being froze (me). Lady, I have documented proof that I have no such access make any changes in CMS and that I only have read only access. Someone else froze your people so please redirect your anger there. My boss was there and afterward she told me not to worry, it's not any of my wrongdoing and that she'll try to pat those ruffled feathers down. From the phone conversations my boss had this afternoon, it does not sound like it's working. That lady needs to calm the F down.
And I'm continually being annoyed the crap out by a manager from another department who thinks she can keep treating me like one of her subordinates and telling me what to do for her area. You ain't my boss and I DON'T have to listen to you. We have a chain of command. If you want something done from me, see my supervisor.
I'm so looking forward to my maternity leave. I might be applying for another job soon because I'm tired of the power struggle each area is trying to have over the other. Since I'm just the little guy with no power in this institution I'm stuck in the middle.
ETA: After further looking in my emails, it looks like I have to send out a TP to another supervisor from a different department who is still trying to say that I disabled those people in the CMS to get her employee (who did it). I'm so sick of it.
This could just be me being hormonal. I hate it when DH has to schedule stuff in days I have something going on too and he makes it sound like I'm being inconvenient for him. I have been having my doc appointments on Monday's and Thursday's. He just got an interview offer that lands on a Thursday. When I reminded him about the appointment he sounded all bothered like why can't I ask someone to take me or if I really wanted him to take the full day off (guilt trip). Ah ok fine I will move my schedule around or find someone to drive me. Trying to be supportive but gees attitude not necessary.
Another TP goes out to the chick who processed all my fiancé's crap at the DMV back in September and neglected to tell him he needed to go to full coverage with his insurance. Seriously. What the actual fuck.
All of my life has been flipped upside down because you didn't tell us that. And yeah I'm pretty much pissed it was something like this. Guess who is stuck chauffeuring until the court date so he can apply for a hardship license?
Well he gets to keep his job. And is going to traffic school. And is still contacting a lawyer tomorrow. He's not letting me take care of anything for it, and insisting on doing it himself, so there is that.
And continuing on about this morning's meeting with that lady, they called a meeting this afternoon to resolve this and my presence was requested. My boss told me to stay put and she'll go in and fight for me. I love her so much.
Another TP goes out to the chick who processed all my fiancé's crap at the DMV back in September and neglected to tell him he needed to go to full coverage with his insurance. Seriously. What the actual fuck.
All of my life has been flipped upside down because you didn't tell us that. And yeah I'm pretty much pissed it was something like this. Guess who is stuck chauffeuring until the court date so he can apply for a hardship license?
Well he gets to keep his job. And is going to traffic school. And is still contacting a lawyer tomorrow. He's not letting me take care of anything for it, and insisting on doing it himself, so there is that.
The DMV sucks and they never tell you the full set of information you need! It's like they enjoy piecing it out and having you figure it out and spend HOURS in their offices fixings things! We recently had to do a thing with our registration and were there 5 hours because every time we got to the counter, it was something else needed and we'd get a new number and have to wait all over again. They could've told us everything we needed up front and we would have had it done in maybe an hour tops.
TP to all DMVs and DMV employees - it must be a really annoying job because I have yet to meet a pleasant employee at any office, no matter how pleasant and polite I am! Glad you are getting it figured out though and he is taking care of it....try to relax and put it out of your mind if you can't actively do anything about it. *hugs*
TP goes out to whoever thought adding more racks was a good idea. Apparently we're adding more racking into one of the areas at my work. That's fine, except there's NOT ENOUGH ROOM FOR THEM. It also means the parts on the current rack will have to be accessed from the back... Which doesn't really work because the large ladder doesn't fit between those rows and the normal ladder doesn't work for short people like me. The put away people tend to put large quantities and heavy objects on the very top rack, so I'm preparing myself for my likely fall and concussion from trying to count parts.
Tp to my MIL who always needs to make me feel guilty about something. My husband is having one last outing with his buddies next weekend before the baby arrives in a few weeks. So being the kind husband he is, he got me a night at a local spa/hotel. All MIL could say was "don't waste your money. Come stay at my House and use my jet tub." Ummm no. It's none of her business how we spend our money.
Tp to my MIL who always needs to make me feel guilty about something. My husband is having one last outing with his buddies next weekend before the baby arrives in a few weeks. So being the kind husband he is, he got me a night at a local spa/hotel. All MIL could say was "don't waste your money. Come stay at my House and use my jet tub." Ummm no. It's none of her business how we spend our money.
This is my MIL to a t! Every time we take a vacation or buy something big she makes comments on how it must be nice while her and FIL are in the poor house. Not my fault they blew through FIL retirement in 10 years and we happen to plan and save for the things we want!
Tp to my MIL who always needs to make me feel guilty about something. My husband is having one last outing with his buddies next weekend before the baby arrives in a few weeks. So being the kind husband he is, he got me a night at a local spa/hotel. All MIL could say was "don't waste your money. Come stay at my House and use my jet tub." Ummm no. It's none of her business how we spend our money.
Haha, as if using a jet tub at MIL's house is equivalent to a night of peace and quiet at a spa/hotel. Ridiculous
Tp to my MIL who always needs to make me feel guilty about something. My husband is having one last outing with his buddies next weekend before the baby arrives in a few weeks. So being the kind husband he is, he got me a night at a local spa/hotel. All MIL could say was "don't waste your money. Come stay at my House and use my jet tub." Ummm no. It's none of her business how we spend our money.
yeah, because a night in your MIL's bathtub is the same thing.....sounds like your H is lovely
TP to my MIL who is smothering me! No mil, you do not need to come down every freaking weekend to "see me." I just saw you last weekend and 2 weekends before that. You already know I'm having a rough time and not sleeping much. So no, you cannot come to my house this weekend, you do not need to see me all the fucking time! And no, you will not be coming over every weekend when the baby is born! I have had it with this woman!
TP to my coworkers who smack and slosh their food while they eat and make the most disgusting gulp sound every time they swallow. How do you have a boyfriend coworker A? And no wonder you are single coworker B, listening to you eat makes us all lose our appetites!
TP to my m'f'in hormones that are making me want to kill everyone around me! Fuck!
^^^ Good luck with the MIL. Mine did the same thing. It was annoying AF, but at the same time kind of nice as she would sit with the baby while I took a nap. My MIL LOVES babies so I am a little worried about how she is going to treat DD1 when the baby arrives.
TP to my company - they sent one of our checks SIX days late AND underpaid a majority of us by a few hundred dollars. This particular check covers my first of the month bills. Well, my account overdrafted yesterday thanks to this and the bank didn't notify me. Now, I have a 25$ charge for each transaction that they processed yesterday, adding up to a cool 175$ in overdraft fees.
She just lately has started acting like this, I dont get it? I want her to visit and want LO and her to have a close relationship. But geez, I need my me time ya know? Especially right now since being 9 months along and working full time is really kicking my butt. The weekends are my time to rest. Like Im not getting dressed this weekend.....and I may not bathe LOL, so no thanks to having company over!
Re: Throat Punch Thursday 3/3
The tenant who is not supposed to be on the property, used the spare key he had yet to return to enter the house today and take pictures of the damages we plan to charge him for. He also wanted DH to sign a copy of the damages list that he was given Monday. Of course DH sends me a text but doesn't pick up my calls or really respond. I am a legal freak so I am SCREAMING AT HIM via text not to sign anything and he needs to call the cops and have the guy removed. Nothing. I call my dad who is also out there and of course he doesn't pick up. It was an hour later before DH called me back to tell me to chill. No I will not. He was proud for how HE handled it being all calm and telling the guy he is not allowed on the property without notice. A text saying all is ok would have been great.
Omg. I'm sorry. This sounds like my mother. The fact that you even have to ask her not to do something like that is sad enough. wtf. people.
On another note, my work shower is tomorrow and I can't decide if I'm excited or just nervous and anxious? This is my second year teaching at this school, and while I am friendly with my team and my department, I don't interact with the majority of the people here, especially this year because I'm far too concerned with my personal life to get overly involved here, and I am in a new classroom which is its own separate building away from everyone else so I'm kind of a recluse. I know people are excited for me, the closer we get to the EDD (or the bigger that I'M getting maybe?) more and more people are talking to me, but...I don't know, I just feel weird having people at work that I don't know well buying stuff for the baby (though I love gifts, don't get me wrong lol) as well as getting a BRU gift card from the collection they've taken. I just feel awkward.
The people I work with are really getting on my nerves. I was at a meeting this morning and a lady from a different department was blasting me and my colleague about not being included on any decision making on a project (my colleague) and for her CMS account to her providers being froze (me). Lady, I have documented proof that I have no such access make any changes in CMS and that I only have read only access. Someone else froze your people so please redirect your anger there. My boss was there and afterward she told me not to worry, it's not any of my wrongdoing and that she'll try to pat those ruffled feathers down. From the phone conversations my boss had this afternoon, it does not sound like it's working. That lady needs to calm the F down.
And I'm continually being annoyed the crap out by a manager from another department who thinks she can keep treating me like one of her subordinates and telling me what to do for her area. You ain't my boss and I DON'T have to listen to you. We have a chain of command. If you want something done from me, see my supervisor.
I'm so looking forward to my maternity leave. I might be applying for another job soon because I'm tired of the power struggle each area is trying to have over the other. Since I'm just the little guy with no power in this institution I'm stuck in the middle.
ETA: After further looking in my emails, it looks like I have to send out a TP to another supervisor from a different department who is still trying to say that I disabled those people in the CMS to get her employee (who did it). I'm so sick of it.
It's a boy! Grow baby, grow! EDD: 4/22/2016
All of my life has been flipped upside down because you didn't tell us that. And yeah I'm pretty much pissed it was something like this. Guess who is stuck chauffeuring until the court date so he can apply for a hardship license?
Well he gets to keep his job. And is going to traffic school. And is still contacting a lawyer tomorrow. He's not letting me take care of anything for it, and insisting on doing it himself, so there is that.
And continuing on about this morning's meeting with that lady, they called a meeting this afternoon to resolve this and my presence was requested. My boss told me to stay put and she'll go in and fight for me. I love her so much.
It's a boy! Grow baby, grow! EDD: 4/22/2016
TP to all DMVs and DMV employees - it must be a really annoying job because I have yet to meet a pleasant employee at any office, no matter how pleasant and polite I am! Glad you are getting it figured out though and he is taking care of it....try to relax and put it out of your mind if you can't actively do anything about it. *hugs*
TP to my coworkers who smack and slosh their food while they eat and make the most disgusting gulp sound every time they swallow. How do you have a boyfriend coworker A? And no wonder you are single coworker B, listening to you eat makes us all lose our appetites!
TP to my m'f'in hormones that are making me want to kill everyone around me! Fuck!
I. Am. Livid.