Saying goodbye (loss & closure)

alphaphi98 · February 2016

After 3 weeks of speculation, worry, limbo, plummeting betas and unfavorable ultrasounds, we finally confirmed today that my pregnancy is not viable. The original sac still remains empty and measures 9 weeks (30 mm). And the 2nd sac they found two weeks ago is also empty and mis-shaped. It looks like 2 blighted ovums. Although this pregnancy was totally a surprise & unplanned, I'm still disappointed. I want to thank everyone for their thoughts & prayers while going through this. I gave my 2yr old DS and 3yr DD extra big hugs tonight when tucking them into bed. I'm sad I bought a 'Big Bro' t-shirt for DS. This just wasn't meant to be.

I was late joining the Bump group. Hopefully I'm the last person to say goodbye from the group. I'm happy to see most of you near the end of the 1st trimester. I want to wish you all happy and healthy pregnancies. Take care!

crispy11 · February 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself.

mrsgillham14 · February 2016

So sorry for your loss!

RedMar · February 2016

So sorry to hear this, I was hoping for better news. Take care of yourself and keep giving those babes extra hugs

Smallangel · February 2016

Sorry for your loss x

OBMommy · February 2016

I'm so sorry!

Themaritimemama · February 2016

So sorry to hear this. What a roller coaster for you. Wishing you all the best.

LakeR2014 · February 2016

I'm sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family.

Knottie1456280733 · February 2016

Saying a prayer for you right now for healing and peace. I'm so sorry for the roller coaster you've
been on.

SLou24 · February 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss and that you've gone through all of this. Hugs!

*Please excuse my signature gif -- I always realize after posting that it's rather inappropriate under these circumstances*

Tippy05 · February 2016

I'm so sorry to hear this. Please take care of yourself.

LizC216 · February 2016

So sorry to hear this.

TNgoldengirl · February 2016

Take care. So sorry for your loss.

izzetoot · February 2016

So sorry for this unexpected and painful journey. I'm happy you have two babies at home to love on. Take care of yourself!

PSUBecky23 · February 2016

I'm so sorry.

lovelylauren86 · February 2016

So sorry for your loss.

jellybiehn · February 2016

I am so sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself.

Sporty1216 · February 2016

I'm so sorry for this news. I know it's been an incredibly long journey for you to get answers. I hope that you can find peace as you move forward. Take good care of yourself.

UnwritteN12 · February 2016

I'm so sorry. I had so much hope for your situation. Prayers for you and your family.

MommaMacri · February 2016

I'm so sorry!!

Spindlek · February 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss.

fiorip · February 2016

Prayers for you. So sorry you're going through this.

backoffunicorn · February 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Alyeena · February 2016

I am so so sorry for you loss. I know it is really hard even if it was planned or not, so please take good care of yourself.

cassloumy · February 2016

So sorry for your loss and the difficult road you and to travel to get answers

CoffeeBeanFiend91 · February 2016

Sorry for your loss

eboyd83 · February 2016

So sorry to hear of your loss.

anneb644 · February 2016

I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you find time and space to grief and heal from this difficult journey.

linzandjer11 · February 2016

This is not the end of your story and this pregnancy was not an accident. I hope that you are able to grieve well. Miscarriage sucks, even if you're ready for it.