My parents (who are awesome) offered to pay for a deep clean of our house as a baby gift. We have a regular monthly cleaning service we use, who quoted us a reasonable price for a deep clean. Our regular monthly cleaning date for May is the 16th, and I'm due the 23rd. Question is, would you rather have the deep clean done a week or so before baby arrives (I am not expecting to be early at this point) or wait until after, or at least closer to due date? Other factors are we have a dog, cat and toddler who between the three of them will probably get things messy again pretty quickly!
Re: Deep clean of house - before or after baby?
I have this concern that I'm going to deep clean the week before my due date (which I did last time) and then, since DH and DS will be there for 2-3 days, (rather than the house being empty like last time) I'm going to return to a freaking war zone. I know DH's primary concern will be keeping DS entertained and safe, which should be his main focus, but it means the house is likely to look like a tornado went through.
Considering you have a toddler at home too, I think that a deep clean afterwards may be better-- as long as you don't think it'll disrupt your daily activities.
What an awesome gift!
I would do it before. It will give you that sense of 'I'm ready'. Plus the deep cleaning is what lasts longer than the everyday messes and clutter that animals and kids make.
Maybe see what their availability is and explain the situation, and just cancel/rebook closer to when your due date? I did that last time so I could have appointments as close to my delivery as possible.
When we were in the hospital my MIL pretty much deep cleaned our entire house (I didn't ask her to do so) and I about bawled my eyes out when we got home with the baby....thanks hormones. It was so wonderful to have it so clean.
I vote before, though. That way everything is nice and tidy, and you can really think about how best to organize things as you get into a rhythm/routine with a newborn. Easier to do with a clean house.
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