We are not finding out the sex of the baby and will not reveal our name choice until after the baby is born. We don't want unwanted opinions from family to cloud our judgment. However I am usually one that likes to gather others opinions in case they point out something I hadn't thought of so I would like some feedback so this seems like a good place to put the names out there. We've had some difficulty agreeing on names but have come to an agreement on one name for a girl and one for a boy.
For a girl our top name is
Autumn Joyce
For a boy, top name choice is
Xavier James
Re: Waiting till baby is born to reveal name!
Totally agree with the notion to keep the name a secret until birth. We're doing the same thing and are also feeling the frustration of not being able to bounce the name off people who know us personally. But in the end, it's impossible to find a name EVERYONE likes and it's such a personal choice, if you feel good about what you picked everyone else will learn to live with it!
Home, healthy & happy
~ A., A. & L.J. - our family is complete ~
TL;DR don't even tell the unused name!
ETA: I like both your names!