I've been on quite the breastfeeding odyssey to figure out what was wrong and why LO was losing weight and then not regaining fast enough. At first we thought it was the fault of a shallow latch, but after a one on one lactation consultation today, including weighted feeds, she told me that I have supply issues. After feeding 20 minutes on each side, she found out that LO is only getting about .2 ounces out of each breast, even with a correct latch, and she needs to be having about 2.2-2.5 oz each feed. I have a thyroid autoimmune disease (hashimoto's thyroiditis) and the lactation consultant told me that some women with hashimoto's can't produce much milk, so there is a possibility that no matter what I do, I will have low supply.
We have been supplementing with formula since day 2, because of her weight loss/dehydration/slow weight gain issues, but I was holding out hope that I could eventually EBF once my milk fully came in and we fixed whatever was wrong with the latch. But now I'm feeling a bit down because I've been having fenugreek, oatmeal, and coconut water, as well as feeding every 2-3 hours, and pumping a couple of times a day too, so I think I'm doing everything I can to increase supply and I may be stuck with just a little milk. Until she regains her birth weight we are feeding her at the breast but with an SNS supplementation device so she's receiving whatever breast milk I have plus 2 oz of formula at the same time. I'm happy as long as she is gaining weight but I admit I'm really disappointed that breastfeeding may not be something I can do exclusively, and I'm wondering if there are benefits of continuing, if my supply stays so low, or if it's easier/less of a headache to switching to all formula at some point, maybe after a month or two of trying to increase.
Anyway, any other hashimoto's moms (or low supply moms) in a similar position? Did you ever get enough milk to EBF? If so, any tips? My endocrinologist usually doesn't evaluate medication levels until 6 weeks postpartum (once all the hormones settle down) but did anyone else have the experience of them adjusting meds earlier due to low supply?
And, if you never got enough milk to EBF did you keep breastfeeding the little bit you have and supplementing with formula as well? Or did you go all formula at some point? I'm trying to take things one day at a time but I'd love to hear from any other low supply or hashimoto's moms and learn about what you did, feeding wise, moving forward - whether you kept up a combo approach or went just formula and how your experience has been.
Thanks so much!
Re: Any other breastfeeding moms with hashimoto's thyroiditis? Or breastfeeding moms with low supply?
How old is your LO? Do you feed on demand? I sometimes feel like I am constantly nursing him, but I think feeding on demand is what really established my supply. (For what it's worth that's usually every 2 hours during the day, and maybe every 3 at night, but sometimes it's every hour)
My opinion is that any breast milk is better than none, but you are doing great mama. Keep it up and do what you feel is best for both you and your baby. If it gets too hard to do both, or is causing you more stress than is good for you (also a supply killer) then formula is totally fine and everyone will be fed and happy.
I'm super disappointed that I couldn't EBF, but I can get a little extra sleep, because DH can feed her too (which he loves.) Plus, it's easier for me to get out of the house when I need to. None of that is as good as being able to EBF, but we have to make the best of what we have.
That said, we have been about 90% EBF. Early in the day, my supply is great. As the afternoon goes on, he nurses for longer periods of time, I'm guessing because my supply is lessening. By about 10pm, he gets so frantic while nursing that I end up letting him suck for about an hour then give him a bottle. Sometimes expressed milk, sometimes formula. He usually will take 3-4 oz at that time, which tells me he isn't getting very much from me in that hour I let him nurse.
DH and I talk every day about whether we should continue BFing or switch to formula completely. It certainly would be easier and there would be no guessing how much he is getting. For right now, his diaper output is right on track so we will continue with our current regimen, but I know that if BFing doesn't work out, for whatever reason, I'll be ready to face that realization and move on.
but it for what it's worth, I ended up getting bad hives every time I had a let down nursing and both my LC, Pedi and GP advised me to stop nursing as they were starting to get in my eyes and throat. So now I am formula feeding and still struggle emotionally with not being able to provide any of the benefits of of BFing to my baby. In my opinion any breast milk is better than none. But a well feed baby whether by formula or breast milk is really all that matters.
best of luck to all you ladies!
In the meantime, I'm just breastfeeding what I have, supplementing what LO needs and pumping and taking fenugreek, etc. to boost supply as much as I can. Worst case scenario, if I have to combo feed with breastmilk and formula I'll make that work, but I'm still hoping I can turn this around in the next couple weeks.
Again, thanks all! Very helpful feedback.