In am in my 14 th week. I just told my work this week and plan to tell my girlfriends next week as we are meeting for a birthday dinner.. But struggling with telling my 3 &5 year old. My loss was at 9.5 weeks and I hadn't told them about the pregnancy yet. I am feeling superstitious about telling them, because the loss shook my confidence a bit, and I just can't bring myself to tell them yet. Anyone else feel this way, or have you told your kids already, or have a plan to break the news?