WTF to the dude driving 20mph in front of me in a no passing zone. The speed limit is 55mph and yeah I see a bit of ice on the shoulder but that's from 3 DAYS AGO! Buck up.
WTF to my neighbors. Their 5 yr old has more ridiculous screaming bloody murder tantrums a day then I can handle. And I'm not talking like a 5 minute meltdown this child screams for a good 40 min to an hour and no one does anything about it. Every day. More than once. Sometimes is 6 am, sometimes it's 11 pm... sometimes it's right now (5pm). I just don't even know what they are doing over there.
WTF to my MIL. She has little to no relationship with DH and as a result, basically no relationship with me. We see her on holidays and that's it. We don't talk on the phone, text, or communicate in any way except through my H when we're coordinating one of our scarce visits. Well, DH got a little excited and told her I'm pregnant and now she's BLOWING UP MY PHONE and acting like we've been besties our whole lives. To make it worse, if I don't respond within seconds, she's all 'Why are you mad at me? What did I do wrong?" I just know this is a preview of the crazy that is to come when this baby is born and I just don't know what to do. We don't want to cut her out of our child's life but there are going to be very clear boundaries and she's not going to like them. She has a history of perscription drug abuse and mental illness and is just a drama magnet and I can't deal with the anxiety of her being a hovercraft over us in the early days of baby's life. Ugh.... this is gonna be rough.
Me: 32 & DH: 37
Married: November 2014
TTC #1 Since: October 2015
BFP #1: 11/18/15 - CP BFP #2: 2/8/16 - EDD 10/20/16 IT'S A BOY!!!! DS Born 10/16/16
@MRSCORKER just wait. I swear my MIL wanted nothing to do with me until I became pregnant and then BAM up my ass. Reign her in NOW cause when baby gets here it gets WAY WORSE.
WTF to house prices. We absolutely love the house that we rent and don't want to move. In order to buy it and have our rent be a mortgage payment, we would need, literally, $1M as a DEPOSIT. Are you kidding me? We are never buying a house. And we owned a house in the Bay Area of CA so that's saying something. I don't really care, but I'm feeling very nesty right now and want to be nesting in my space.
@MRSCORKER I'm sorry about your MIL. That sounds like a crappy and stressful situation.
@MRSCORKER just wait. I swear my MIL wanted nothing to do with me until I became pregnant and then BAM up my ass. Reign her in NOW cause when baby gets here it gets WAY WORSE.
I'm so sorry you dealt with that but I'm glad I'm not alone. How do I reign her in?! So far I've been pretty passive agressive because I just don't know what to do. I've given one word answers to about half of her texts and ignored her phone calls. That's only gonna fly so long before she confronts me about it.
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Me: 32 & DH: 37
Married: November 2014
TTC #1 Since: October 2015
BFP #1: 11/18/15 - CP BFP #2: 2/8/16 - EDD 10/20/16 IT'S A BOY!!!! DS Born 10/16/16
WTF Dunkin Donuts. This is Masachusetts so every store is jammed every single morning. WHY IS THERE ONLY ONE PERSON WORKING. I need my (half decaf...meh, better than nothing) coffee in my hand immediately or I will not make it through this day.
@MRSCORKER it took one unsolicited pregnant belly rub for me. I very firmly told her not to touch me again. She got offended and butt hurt and I think she expected me to apologize but I refused.
I told her I was not sorry and I meant what I said... It's my body and I don't have to allow it.
I think that's when it clicked that she wasn't going to get away with pulling crazy psycho stunts on me like she did SIL when my SIL had her baby.
However, that was 4 years ago and we have a wonderful relationship now. She's been very supportive and she has a good relationship with my boys.
@MRSCORKER it took one unsolicited pregnant belly rub for me. I very firmly told her not to touch me again. She got offended and butt hurt and I think she expected me to apologize but I refused.
I told her I was not sorry and I meant what I said... It's my body and I don't have to allow it.
I think that's when it clicked that she wasn't going to get away with pulling crazy psycho stunts on me like she did SIL when my SIL had her baby.
However, that was 4 years ago and we have a wonderful relationship now. She's been very supportive and she has a good relationship with my boys.
Yeah, we're just going to have to put our foot down and be clear about boundaries. I don't want to cut her out but she has a history of drug abuse and mental illness so all visits will be scheduled and supervised whether she likes it or not.
Me: 32 & DH: 37
Married: November 2014
TTC #1 Since: October 2015
BFP #1: 11/18/15 - CP BFP #2: 2/8/16 - EDD 10/20/16 IT'S A BOY!!!! DS Born 10/16/16
I sent out cute valentines to immediate family and my bff back home to announce my pregnancy. My bff and my sister (who I told right away so she could be my support "just in case") got theirs. My parents and my bro/SIL have not contacted me yet, and I'm all like WTF? Come on now! They are religious mail checkers. And in the same zip codes as the ones who got theirs. I want my mommy to call me!
Wtf to my mom. Our relationship has always been rocky. And now that we are pregnant, she is overbearing. She's mad.because I won't have the baby where she wants me to have him. And she is mad because I won't let her to convince me to leave my FI, because she doesnt like him. so she's always causing some kinda drama. she also has mental disorders. She also abuses prescription medications. I refuse to have my child in that situation. Her visitations will also be scheduled and supervised, despite her beliefs. So wtf mom
WTF preschool?!?!?!?! You called to tell me the lottery was on Friday and you'd be putting a letter in the mail that day. It's Wednesday. Still no letter. Clearly, it was too much for you to mail three letters out before you left for February vacation. Now me (and 2 other families) have to wait until Monday so we can call and ask you if our kids got in. I'm so frustrated.
Wtf nausea. Can you please just let me enjoy ONE frigging meal in peace!?!?
Me: 30 DH: 31 Married: 11.12.11 TTC: Nov 2015 BFP #1: 1.22.16 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX) D&C: 3.2.16 BFP #2: 4.14.16 CP: 4.17.16 BFP #3: 6.10.2016 CP: 6.17.2016 RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending 8.15.16 Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
Wtf dude in car behind me, honking isn't going to make traffic go faster, like I'm the cause of it all. Sorry I breaked early and missed our green light! Oops, don't piss of crazy pregnant lady. Lol
WTF DH, it's not like I am enjoying eating potato chips and French fries for every meal because that's all I can stomach. He just lectured me on "eating better" because of baby. Well, baby is the one making me eat like crap! I usually eat much better. So thanks for that, DH. Asshat.
WTF to my coworker who always comes to my desk to chitchat when I am eating lunch?! I walk during my "lunch" so when I am sitting at my desk eating I am technically working (cough-cough bumping)
@emmaaa I'm with you, sister, I look like a little puffy monster!
WTF to my firm's management team--they just let go both of our most junior employees with no warning and NO transition planning, so half of my clients now have no admin support and guess who has to carry the extra weight? Grrr!
@MRSCORKER Sorry about MIL! Boundaries are key with those kinds of people.
**TMI** And WTF cervix?! I'm used to getting pain/pressure there before my period, but it's been horrible for two days now. I've been doing kegels all day to relieve some of the discomfort and I'm going to develop a vagina of steel at this rate.
Re: WTF Wednesday
Me: 32 & DH: 37
BFP #2: 2/8/16 - EDD 10/20/16
IT'S A BOY!!!!
DS Born 10/16/16
@MRSCORKER I'm sorry about your MIL. That sounds like a crappy and stressful situation.
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Me: 32 & DH: 37
BFP #2: 2/8/16 - EDD 10/20/16
IT'S A BOY!!!!
DS Born 10/16/16
I told her I was not sorry and I meant what I said... It's my body and I don't have to allow it.
I think that's when it clicked that she wasn't going to get away with pulling crazy psycho stunts on me like she did SIL when my SIL had her baby.
However, that was 4 years ago and we have a wonderful relationship now. She's been very supportive and she has a good relationship with my boys.
Me: 32 & DH: 37
BFP #2: 2/8/16 - EDD 10/20/16
IT'S A BOY!!!!
DS Born 10/16/16
I give alternatives. Like: "No I don't want DS around xyz but, he's been begging to do christmas cookies. Are you free soon for that?"
Dating: 10/3/08 | Married: 12/27/14
TTC #1: August 2015 | BFP: 2/3/16 | EDD: 10/7/16
DD: 10/5/16
TTC #2: September 2017 | BFP: 4/28/18 | EDD: 1/7/19
DS: 1/9/19
LFAF April Siggy: TV/Movie BFFs
BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016
Married: 11.12.11
TTC: Nov 2015
BFP #1: 1.22.16 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX)
D&C: 3.2.16
BFP #2: 4.14.16 CP: 4.17.16
BFP #3: 6.10.2016 CP: 6.17.2016
RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH
Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending 8.15.16
Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid
half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C
PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
Baby GIRL born 9/16/201
BFP! EDD 8/1/2019 CP 4w2d
WTF to my firm's management team--they just let go both of our most junior employees with no warning and NO transition planning, so half of my clients now have no admin support and guess who has to carry the extra weight? Grrr!
And my WTF goes out to my stomach that will growl every two hours and I get nauseated if I don't eat. It's not helping the bloat or weight gain!
Me(29)DH(30)
Baby #3 EDD 10/6/2016
DS 11/2009
DD 1/2008
**TMI** And WTF cervix?! I'm used to getting pain/pressure there before my period, but it's been horrible for two days now. I've been doing kegels all day to relieve some of the discomfort and I'm going to develop a vagina of steel at this rate.
Dating: 10/3/08 | Married: 12/27/14
TTC #1: August 2015 | BFP: 2/3/16 | EDD: 10/7/16
DD: 10/5/16
TTC #2: September 2017 | BFP: 4/28/18 | EDD: 1/7/19
DS: 1/9/19