DS is 8 weeks old/3 weeks adjusted and has reflux. I sleep when DH gets home for about 2 hours every night but that's the only sleep I'm consistenly getting and the exhaustion is really taking a toll. DS will only sleep for more than 45 minutes if he's being held. To make matters worse I'm eping, so I have to pump every 3 hours. I don't want to cosleep or leave him in a swing because I'm terrified of SIDS (he's got a lot of the risk factors - preemie, male, born in the winter) but he won't sleep in his bassinet or crib for very long (even before the reflux started). Everyone says sleep when the baby sleeps but if the baby will only sleep in my arms, what can I do? I'm open to any suggestions at this point.