hi everyone! This is my first pregnancy, I'm 26 years old & im quite unsure of CVS testing because of the risk of a miscarriage. The mothers my age that I spoke with, opted out of the testing. But mothers older than me say I should get it. I'm just really nervous, although I'm only 6 weeks, I know my 12 week mark will be here before I know it! What are your thoughts?
Re: CVS TESTING
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I have met lots of people who have done it, and the peace of mind it's given them or the ability to prepare for what's to come has helped them. It's all about what you prefer. Do what you feel is best!
For myself, I am 39, and I know that CVS will be suggested to me because of my age and the risk Down Syndrome. The risk of miscarriage (for me) outweighs the benefits of this test. We have worked too hard to make this baby just to lose it testing for something we would not terminate for anyway. The new free-cell DNA tests are just as accurate and are not invasive. We will do those first and then decide if the CVS really needs to be done.
Baby GIRL born 9/16/201
BFP! EDD 8/1/2019 CP 4w2d
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There but for the Grace of many deities go we. You never truly know & that's my point. So many of the Loss Moms I know had the exact same "I would never terminate anyway.." Mindset until they were forced into the situation. It's common here on the BMB when discussions about testing come up.
I've never had to make that call & fear ever having to do it. Just that sometimes the "but I would NEVER!" Language can be extremely hurtful to anyone who has had to do it as a mercy to their baby. Just some perspective as you think about this topic.
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