TTC After a Loss

Intro - early miscarriage *TW loss*

Hi Ladies, my name is Rebecca. I'm new to this board because as of 2/9 it was confirmed I was miscarrying. I got my BFP for my first pregnancy on 2/1. DH and I were so excited because he's a LEO and TTC has been difficult with him working nights. We had told a few close friends and had just told his parents (which I am thankful for because they are so close to us and have been such a support). On the evening of 2/7 I had some light pink spotting on the paper when I used the restroom. I was hoping it was just from some irritation but it continued every time I went. On the evening of 2/8 it got heavier and darker and I knew I was losing my baby. The next morning I went to see my OB, they did an US and blood work. I was only 5 weeks, so they couldn't see anything on US but when my blood work came back my level was only 5. It was a natural, complete early miscarriage and we're heartbroken.

My OB didn't say anything about waiting but I want to get right back into it. My bleeding has already slowed way down, almost stopped. I just want to be pregnant again so badly. DH and I are going to spend this weekend away from everything, just the two of us to heal. I know all of you ladies are hurting as well and I hope we all get our rainbow babies soon. Thanks for listening!

Me: 24  DH: 28

Married: 9/2013

Love my LEO!!

TTC #1: 9/2015

BFP: 2/1/16  MC 2/8/16 @ 5wks

BFP: 5/22/16 RAINBOW BABY

EDD: 1/30/2017 *IT'S A GIRL!!!!* 

Kirsten Grace 1/20/17                            


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Re: Intro - early miscarriage *TW loss*

  • I am so sorry for your loss. I hope this weekend is good for you and your husbands healing. 
    Me: 32 DH: 31 Married since 2010
    MC January 2016
    BFP February 2016 Baby Girl born 11/2016
    BFP 8/16/2018 EDD 4/29/2019 MMC 10/3/2018
    BFP 12/16/2018 EDD 08/26/2019 MC/CP 12/20/2018
    BFP 03/28/2019 EDD 12/07/2019 Hoping for our rainbow


  • @Megz1902 Thank you
    Me: 24  DH: 28

    Married: 9/2013

    Love my LEO!!

    TTC #1: 9/2015

    BFP: 2/1/16  MC 2/8/16 @ 5wks

    BFP: 5/22/16 RAINBOW BABY

    EDD: 1/30/2017 *IT'S A GIRL!!!!* 

    Kirsten Grace 1/20/17                            


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  • @becbec28 I hope you find comfort, joy and strength in your weekend away. I've found that through all this misery, I was able to fall deeper in love with my tremendous husband. Sorry for your loss and all the best to you on the next part of your journey.
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • @reneeannemm thank you so much. My husband has been so great!
    Me: 24  DH: 28

    Married: 9/2013

    Love my LEO!!

    TTC #1: 9/2015

    BFP: 2/1/16  MC 2/8/16 @ 5wks

    BFP: 5/22/16 RAINBOW BABY

    EDD: 1/30/2017 *IT'S A GIRL!!!!* 

    Kirsten Grace 1/20/17                            


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  • So sorry for your loss. Welcome!
  • So sorry for your loss. Hope you and your hubby enjoy your time away.



    Our Journey:
    DS born 05/14
    Losses 06/15, 09/15, 02/16
    DS born 12/16
    HPT+ 1/12/20



  • edited February 2016

    @silentP and @Af2013nl thank you!

    ETA - fix tag

    Me: 24  DH: 28

    Married: 9/2013

    Love my LEO!!

    TTC #1: 9/2015

    BFP: 2/1/16  MC 2/8/16 @ 5wks

    BFP: 5/22/16 RAINBOW BABY

    EDD: 1/30/2017 *IT'S A GIRL!!!!* 

    Kirsten Grace 1/20/17                            


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  • I'm sorry for your loss. I know nothing anyone can say right now will really help. But we're all here for you. If you ever need to vent about the frustrating of TTCAL or you just need an e-shoulder to cry on during a hard TTCAL day, we're all here.

    Hopefully your stay here is short and you get your BFP for your rainbow baby soon after you're ready to TTC again.
    Me: 28 Husband: 31
    TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
    Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
    Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017  ❤️

    Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
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  • Rebecca, I am sorry for your loss. I hope you and your husband enjoy your time away. You're in my thoughts.

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








  • @NamelessAria and @fivetimesnoluck thank you so much! 
    Me: 24  DH: 28

    Married: 9/2013

    Love my LEO!!

    TTC #1: 9/2015

    BFP: 2/1/16  MC 2/8/16 @ 5wks

    BFP: 5/22/16 RAINBOW BABY

    EDD: 1/30/2017 *IT'S A GIRL!!!!* 

    Kirsten Grace 1/20/17                            


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  • I'm so sorry for your loss - hugs and love sent your way
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    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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  • @catiecatp thank you so much
    Me: 24  DH: 28

    Married: 9/2013

    Love my LEO!!

    TTC #1: 9/2015

    BFP: 2/1/16  MC 2/8/16 @ 5wks

    BFP: 5/22/16 RAINBOW BABY

    EDD: 1/30/2017 *IT'S A GIRL!!!!* 

    Kirsten Grace 1/20/17                            


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  • I'm sorry Bec-my husband took me away for the weekend after mine (confirmed hcg levels decreasing), and it was absolutely the best thing for us. Best wishes to you.
    Me: 37 DH: 38
    CP 1/25/16 4 weeks, developed Graves' Disease


  • I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome, the ladies here are great support.
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    BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d;
    BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks; 
    BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016 

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  • So sorry for your loss. You and hubby try and enjoy your time away to start healing. We'll be on here to support you. 
  • I'm so sorry! How awful. Wishing that you find some peace, and get pregnant with your rainbow soon 
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