Temper, Temper! Anyone Else?

JamieK1882 · February 2016

This past week I seriously can't control my temper with DH and we are bickering over everything. I know it's me and I am trying to control it, but I'm really having a hard time shaking it. I even got mad at him in my dream last night! I don't remember this happening with my first pregnancy, but if it did he was a lot more understanding. I think because we have so much going on right now and DD, he keeps forgetting I'm pregnant. Anyone else with a short fuse?

alysie89 · February 2016

It's a long standing joke in my house that the earliest indicator of pregnancy for me is that I wake up one day hating my husband. Usually I shake it by 6 weeks.

katiegeminimoon · February 2016

Meeee. It's the worst.

llsarmy · February 2016

Oh my gosh me! My poor kids have had to put up with me being a monster.

LizaKate1213 · February 2016

DH thinks it is hilarious when I get testy. He just laughs at me because I think it helps him control his reaction. He knows I can't help it!

JamieK1882 · February 2016

@lizakate1213 at least he is understanding!DH initially gets mad but later we hug it out

sjo_thetwins · February 2016

I am nasty lately! We have to have hug it out moments too. Hopefully it subsides, seeing as we are only 4 weeks.

LGW2015 · February 2016

Same here! This week was pretty bad

lilylover27 · February 2016

I get very cranky when I am tired and whine like a baby and snap at DH, but he understands it is just hormones. Hoping the fatigue goes away soon as this causes most of it!

ashleyp625 · February 2016

Me! I freaked on some 6th graders first period Friday morning for not wanting to use a binder to store their music. Today, some lady bypassed the really long line at customer service at Sam's Club and I got so mad about it. I have a pretty short fuse anyway, but the last few days have been worse than normal.

krzyriver · February 2016

I have a very short temper to begin with (I'm Mexican and Irish, there's no avoiding it lol). But it's worse now. Hubby usually has a short temper too (same heritage lol) but he's been very patient with me. We don't usually fight, we'll usually bicker for a few minutes before we realize how silly we're being, but he doesn't want to stress me out. So he's been very calm with me. He lets me blow my top and then he helps me cool down. Lol

klv · February 2016

I have been a grouchy wench the last few days. Between my 4yo just being 4 and F not reading my mind what's a girl to do?

strickland8052 · February 2016

I haven't been too mad at DH, but I have had the worst road rage. Today I almost rolled down my window and yelled at someone in a parking lot, but then I remembered it isn't worth getting myself shot.

TheBeeCharmer · February 2016

I'm not very crabby but I'm insanely weepy and emotional over the littlest things!

Jen080916 · February 2016

My poor H can't do anything right! I feel so bad because I'm ridiculously snappy and everything he does or says irritates me!

blaf322 · February 2016

I'm in the same boat... Just so easily irritated. DH's patience has worn thin now :-/

afry613 · February 2016

DH feels I direct hate towards him only and I have patience for everyone else. He's scared to say anything back to me now because I don't let up. I can't control it. He doesn't get that. Just want this phase to be over. I love him dearly and don't want him to ever feel otherwise.

von1976 · February 2016

I'm usually easily irritated, so it's like ten times worse than normal. I absolutely hate it when my husband tries to "help" when I haven't asked for it.

For example, at the movie theater yesterday, I decided I had to have some popcorn. So the counter guy hands me the popcorn and DH insists on getting a food/drink box. I kept telling him we didn't need it. I had one drink and one popcorn and two hands, but he absolutely insisted. So when the counter guy gives him the box, I go to put my drink in the box, and he takes the popcorn out of my hands and dumps it into the box. And I just stared at him like he had three heads, and said, "What the hell did you do that for?" DH said, "Oh, it's easier to eat this way, and you can share." He had told me he didn't want any popcorn--so WHO exactly was I going to share it with? I can eat it just fine out of the container the popcorn came in, thankyouverymuch, and I don't need to waste another piece of cardboard. I got so mad at him that I made him dump the popcorn back into the container and throw the box away. WHY THE HELL WOULD ANYONE DO THAT? Ugh, I'm still irate over this incident. Seriously, DH... STOP "HELPING"!

kelliott09 · February 2016

Meeeee! Ugh, it's only my SO that I rage on regularly for the last couple of weeks. I still can't decide if he's just really dumb, forgetful, inconsiderate and messy or if it's my hormones.

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