I'm 6 weeks 4 days, and I have my first appt 2/19 at 2 days shy of 8 weeks. I called my dr's office today to see if I could expect an ultrasound. The nurse said they only do 1 ultrasound at 19 weeks unless you are bleeding or have a history of miscarriages. I told her we struggled with infertility and she said that it's possible the dr would send us for one but unlikely. I asked what to expect at the appt and she said they'll do a pelvic exam and send me for bloodwork. When I asked if the bloodwork would tell us if everything was ok (i.e. HCG levels), she said they only run a full test if you're bleeding.
So basically my first appt will tell me NOTHING. I guess their thought is that if you're going to miscarry there's nothing that can be done about it but it would be really nice to know if everything is ok or not at least at the moment!
Oh and I'm a fraternal twin so I thought maybe they would do one to check that also but I guess not. And they only have someone come into the office once a week on Tuesdays to do ultrasounds so I can't get one done at my first appt even if I convince them to because they won't be there.
I'm really upset because we're planning on telling the family after our appt and I thought we would be able to confirm everything was ok with a visual and heartbeat
Is this normal or are my pregnancy hormones getting the better of me?
Re: No U/S until 19 weeks??
I know waiting until I am 9 weeks is killing me so I can understand your frustration with having to wait till 19 weeks to see/hear the baby.
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This is normal. Some doctors still do dating scans, but many doctors only perform the anatomy scan at 20 weeks unless you have a history of miscarriage or experience other complications during your pregnancy.
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I doubt that at 8 weeks they'll try the Doppler. It's really early to hear anything. They usually start using the Doppler around week 10-12, but some midwives wait until week 15 to be sure not to cause unnecessary stress.
Asking for the NT scan would be a good option or the boutique ultrasound will take you after 10 weeks, but I think most place want you to have one before by the OB . Good
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