my brother in law donated sperm and I'm pregnant. So excited and my gut reaction is to be super open about it - what he did was so generous and amazing and I am so grateful. I just want everyone to think that way! But also know this situation needs to be handled delicately. His kids may feel a bit threatened. My bro in law may feel more responsibility than he would like. my husband may feel like less of a father. How do we have this not be a secret and celebrate it ... softly?
Would love to know if anyone has been through using a known donor and how they handled it down the line. all experiences, good bad or indifferent would be much appreciated!