So we went shopping this weekend and I honestly had no idea what sizes of clothes I should be "stockpiling."
I probably won't buy very many, if any newborn outfits because a lot of the tags said they only fit baby until 7lbs. H and I were both 9lb babies and while I know (and HOPE) that doesn't guarantee a bigger baby, I don't want to stock up on newborn outfits I'll probably never use. I've bought a few 0 - 3 months and my mom has bought us a bunch of cute onesies in a little of everything up to 9 - 12 months. I figure since he'll be a June baby the majority of his wardrobe will probably be onesies in the beginning.
How did/are you ladies doing it? STMs what did your babies stay in for the longest?
I know either way I'll probably end up with an excess of things that will never get worn because he'll grow out of them too fast, I'm just curious what your game plans look/ed like and if there really is a size babies tend to stay in longer when they're small.
Re: How to stock up on baby clothes?
I barely shopped myself & still ended up giving loads of stuff away new, with tags, from my first two.
Mostly onesies is a good way to go, just make sure you also get lots of pants in the larger sizes (for when weather's getting colder and baby's getting mobile and isn't wrapped in blankets and such so much) and by around 12 months I strongly preferred t-shirts to onesies.
I got some good deals at consignment sales so I could experiment and have some back up and then could buy later what actually fit him when I saw good sales.
Triplets due 6/29/16 also from an IUI!
Stockpiling was probably the wrong word to use. I don't plan on buying a lot. I just don't want baby to not fit in something one day and have nothing the next size up so I'm trying to have a few things available at least through the first 9 months or so.
I definitely wouldn't bother with more than one pack of newborn onesies. My first maybe fit for a week, second not at all. And I'm sticking with basically only onesies for Summer (0-3 and 3 months). All the skirts and shorts are cute, but when you have poop explosions to change multiple times a day, they just become a PITA and create more laundry. When it's super hot out anyway, a simple onesie works best. Likewise, for the colders months, footed sleepers are great and sometimes it's easier to just keep them in those than putting them in a bunch of cutesie outfits when they are so little and floppy.
I've been buying clothes assuming this one will sort of fall in between my two boys in size, but realize that I may end up off some seasons, which is why I'm buying a lot secondhand.
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Personally, I would just buy a bunch up to 12 months at a minimum - we actually went up to 2T. If you are cloth diapering, you will wear larger sizes faster because of the fluff, so plan for that too.
DST T4L
Ooooh that's good to know... I have a few gift cards for Carters. Maybe I'll buy some newborn things there "just in case" and take them back if I end up not needing them.
He just wore a onesie during the day and then footie pjs at night (he hated being swaddled) my magic number was 12 onesies and 5 pjs. Pretty much everything was worn but I never HAD to do laundry because there was nothing clean. (You'd probably be fine having less newborn options).
Mainly l didn't have enough clothes for myself! Every time DS threw up it would usually only get on me, not him! And I'd leak milk everywhere.
Also, something I didn't initially know is that 0-3 and 3 month clothes are the same size. 3 month closes should fit a 50th percentile baby until it's 3 months old. You don't want to start wearing them then or they most likely won't fit!
- my daughter wore newborn longer than I thought. Probably at least or over 4-5 weeks.
- you'll find that some store brands don't fit the shape of you baby that well. I found carter's fit best because she was long and skinny. Other brands were short and chubby and didn't seem to fit right.
- try to think ahead to what age they'll be/season. I find shower guests are the worst at this, and they'll get you a bunch of "summer" outfits in different sizes
- second hand or mom-to-mom sales often have baby clothing still with tags, or that has clearly only been washed once or twice - baby goes through clothes so fast and sometimes you forget about something in the closet and they're grown past it before you have a chance to put it on them. Quite often I'd put DD in an outfit just to send a pic to whoever bought it for her, and then have to put it away because it was too small.
- which leads me to my last point - don't forget what you have in your closet!!!! I was the worst at this, and I'd go and buy DD new pants, completely forgetting to check my stockpile... Only to find out a few weeks later that I had 8 pairs tucked away!!!!
Gerber runs smallest. Carters and Childrens Place run similar and "average" in my opinion. Circo and Garanimals tend to be wider. Gymboree is my favorite but is huge... my boy has consistently worn 1-3 sizes smaller in Gymbo than any other brand.
We got a lot of handmedowns recently and I am pretty happy with my current stash of 7-8 sleepers, 9-10 onesies/shirts and 3-4 pants in each size NB to 6m, plus a few random 'cute' things.
Also, you will get a lot of clothes at your shower and from people that want to give you gifts. I wouldn't go crazy buying much until after your shower. I would also think about buying bigger sizes like 6-9, 9 months and 12 as those are the sizes that you don't get as much of at the shower.
I don't know if any of you live near baby consignment sales like "Just for Friends" sales but they are AWESOME. It is a huge consignment sale where people sell there stuff. Super organized. They have gear, clothing, shoes and outdoor stuff.
I'm very excited! I plan on holding off buying anything else really until after that and my shower in mid April.
Many son never fit in any of his NB clothes either and came home from the hospital in size 1 diapers and he was only 8 lbs.
i wouldnt "stock up" on clothes at this point - I would get a few PJs and gowns and onesies and call it a day, you can always reevaluate after baby is here and you see what size they are.
Mrs. H
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I didn't try to stockpile any particular sizes, just bought a few things here and there in 0-3 & 3-6 when I came across sales or cute things. My baby grew true to size all the way until just recently, but there's no way to predict that. Onesies were my favorite thing to have though!
clothing depends on how much laundry you want to do. I would go for comfort bc they fancy albeit cute things don't get worn and still have tags on them. DD wore NB size for about a month and the rest of the sizes about 3 mos each. I like to shop at the end of seasons and get clearance stuff for the next cold or warm season. Newborns do get blow outs and spit up so keep that in mind... I think going to get 10 onesies in each size. HTH.
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It it all started because we barely had any NB size clothes and he ended up being born weighing 6lb 9oz, so was in NB for a month or two. It was nice to get out of the house to buy him clothes.