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Not sure

Ruthless96Ruthless96 member
edited February 2016 in Sex and Relationships
My fiance and I unexpectedly became preggers, he was excited and so was I. Now that I am a little further along he tends to go off to a buddies house for long periods of time (so far only a week at a time) and I can't help but feel that it is something I am doing wrong. It makes me feel so alone in the pregnancy right now...i'm not sure if anyone else has experienced this or not. Thanks :)
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Re: Not sure

  • bridgemanlizbridgemanliz member
    Not with this one but my last one i had something similar. My daughters father explained to me that granted I was going through a lot so was he. He would venture off to distant land to figure out what his next step was. This time around my fiance leaves me at home when hes working or drinking a beer with buddies. Which im fine with more nap time for me. Give him time and try to talk to him. We arent mind readers even though that would help. Best of luck sweetheart!
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  • SaphireSweetie88SaphireSweetie88 member
    Ruthless96 said:
    My fiance and I unexpectedly became preggers, he was excited and so was I. Now that I am a little further along he tends to go off to a buddies house for long periods of time (so far only a week at a time) and I can't help but feel that it is something I am doing wrong. It makes me feel so alone in the pregnancy right now...i'm not sure if anyone else has experienced this or not. Thanks :)
    @Ruthless96

    Talk to him. Venting here is perfectly okay too but you need to talk to him and see what he is thinking / feeling and let him know that it makes you feel like you're doing something wrong. If you don't vocalize otherwise, he may think you're perfectly okay with what he's doing. Good luck :)
    Me:35 | DH: 32
    Married: 06-2024
    TTC #1: Since November 2015
    Restarted TTC "count" Oct. 2016
         due to previous issues.
    ***TW***
    BFP: 11/4/2016 
    BFP: 07/17/2024
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  • BigboobsmcgeeBigboobsmcgee member
    Wait a second. Your fiancé leaves for a week at a time to stay with a friend?! Do you guys live together? If you do, there is absolutely zero reason why a grown man should go stay with a friend for a whole week unless it's like a yearly trip to fly and visit a friend he never gets to see. You need to talk to him and see what's up because that is not cool.
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  • Ruthless96Ruthless96 member
    No we don't live together, we are trying to, but havn't yet found a place 
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  • Ruthless96Ruthless96 member
    Yes, thankfully we have talked things out. Turns out it had nothinging to do with me and something to do with a fight at home.
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  • amiidav8765amiidav8765 member

    during pregnancy, all the senses are heightened and you want constant attention

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  • knottiecd04b29f03b11378knottiecd04b29f03b11378 member
    So just wondering if it’s just me or even normal but 10-15 minutes after sex my baby is super active kicking and that and the 10-15 minutes later it’s like he’s sleeping or something just completely chill? Is this normal!
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