I have been stock piling a number of things, but so far nothing for myself after the birth. I was going to put this in another forum, but I figured that I would get a variety of answers and others with the same question could finds it easier this way as well.
STMs: what are the best items for aftercare? Ointments, salves, pads, breast care, care for your lady bits, general advice? Please put your preferred brands as well.
TIA!
Re: Postpardum care for mom
For home care kit, I had Lanolin for nipples, another peri bottle (one for each bathroom is really nice), Tucks pads, lady bit spray like dermaplast (I was really swollen from all the pushing plus I had done plus the perineal tear), the biggest pads I could find with wings, and I also had some breastfeeding safe stool softeners. You'll want to have some kind of either underwear that you don't care for (in case of leaks) for when the mesh panties run out (or if you don't like the way they feel).
You'll also be contracting still sometimes (your uterus is shrinking). Some women make rice filled or bean filled socks to microwave and then lay along your tummy to help with the ouchies. My sister found me this neat heat/cold pad with beads at Walgreens that I could freeze and sit on (yep, my lady bits hurt) or heat up and put on my lower abdomen.
A lot of people like taking baths after birth (or even just sitz baths - the hospital may send you home with one) and they use some mommy botanicals in them to heal. I don't have any recommendations though.
Last time I had neither of these, and I had to make a last minute store stop. My beasts were so engorged I was putting frozen peas on them. I've never used the tucks pads before, but have read they're a savior.
The hospital I'm delivering at only supplies the peri bottle and mesh panties, along with GIANT diaper sized pads. So this time I'm coming prepared with my own preference of supplies.
Lanolin and/or coconut oil for sore nipples, gel pads for the first few weeks (for sore boobs), bottled water/Gatorade and snacks for the nursery (like granola bars) - you will be thirstier than you've ever been in your life and you thought hunger during pregnancy was horrible - hunger during nursing is miles beyond that, comfy clothes.
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Comfortable leggings/pajama pants. You might fit in jeans but you're not going to want anything constricting against your stitches, if you get any.
I actually recommend getting coconut oil for sore nipples instead of lanolin or similar; worked much better and you don't have to thoroughly wipe it off before every nursing session since it's safe for baby.
also if you nurse, a chiro visit can be great after a month or so to relieve the 'nursing shoulders' pain you might get.
I also found a Belly Bandit for this go around. I had a cheap support belt from Walgreen the first time around and even that was a huge comfort because I felt so loosy goosy in my pelvis and abdomen.
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