I have a 7 year old step daughter with downs syndrome. My husband and I are very concerned with her eating habits, she only eats instant grits, cream of wheat, spaghettios, milkshakes, and yogurt. My husband has always said she had an issue with textures but now we are not so sure because she will only eat bacon flavor grits, cinnamon cream of wheat, vanilla milkshakes, and key lime yogurt, and if we try to give her anything other than that she flat out refuses to eat. She is very small for her age she weighs only 30 pounds is about the size of the average 3 year old. We have a four year old also who is now three inches taller. We worried that her eating or lack there of is part of the reason she is so small, we know there are developmental delays with downs but are still concerned. She lives with her mom full time and her mom eats pretty poorly for an adult, she loves pop tarts and chicken nuggets so she doesn't see anything wrong with the way Bella eats, give her what she likes and thats that. I'm very worried with no fruits and veggies in her diet she is going to continue to be even more under developed. I am just looking for some advise of parents with more experience than I have. Thanks!!