May 2016 Moms

**Twin/Multiples Thursday Check-In 1/21**

How many weeks are you:

What are the most common questions you are asked when people find out you're having twins (or more):

Anything interesting/worrisome/exciting you've found out at a recent appointment or sonogram?

How is the nursery coming along?

Re: **Twin/Multiples Thursday Check-In 1/21**

  • How many weeks are you: 25+ some days

    What are the most common questions you are asked when people find out you're having twins (or more): "do twins run in your family?" "Are they identical or fraternal?" "What are you going to do with twins?"

    Anything interesting/worrisome/exciting you've found out at a recent appointment or sonogram?
    No appointments this week so no!

    How is the nursery coming along?
    Ha ha haha. That should answer your question. :) but really, we are moving next week so then I will start setting it up.
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  • How many weeks are you: 24 weeks tomorrow

    What are the most common questions you are asked when people find out you're having twins (or more): 'Do twins run in your family?!' or 'Are they identical or fraternal?'

    Anything interesting/worrisome/exciting you've found out at a recent appointment or sonogram? I have an appointment tomorrow. I really need to decide if I want to switch Dr's/midwives. I've only been thinking about it for 24 weeks. I'm just not in love with my midwife - she seems pretty scatter-brained. The midwife for my other kids moved and that office has since closed.

    How is the nursery coming along? Sloooowwww. The nursery is currently the office. We are out of rooms in this house so we are also figuring out where to put 'office stuff' (in the living room in a tasteful way). We have the crib (in the basement). We know what changing table/dresser we're going to buy (Walmart). All the hand-me-down clothes are organized by size, to wash later. I still need to organize hand-me-down blankets, sheets, burp rags, etc to see what else is needed. We will buy a mini-crib later and probably set it up late summer/early fall (have the twins share a crib for a few months). It's not a big room.

    Do you guys have a 'deadline' in mind where you'd like to have things set up by? I'm kind of thinking mid-March? Maybe late Feb. even?
  • How many weeks are you: 20w5d

    What are the most common questions you are asked when people find out you're having twins (or more): Do twins run in your family (even after I say mine are identical)? How do you know they're identical? Are you going to make their names rhyme?

    Anything interesting/worrisome/exciting you've found out at a recent appointment or sonogram? Sad to find out my hospital delivers all twins in the OR. I was looking forward to using my swank birthing suite for birthing. Also found out I am having Braxton Hicks contractions which are unpleasant but not worrisome.

    How is the nursery coming along? I have my nursery quilt made and I am working on crib bumpers. The pattern I want to use for crib sheet and skirt calls for $200 of the fabric I want... so rethinking that. Now if only we could move so I would have a nursery to put these things in. And if only someone would buy us our cribs.

  • I'm pretty proud of this nursery quilt so I will share a pic. Who else says hell yes to a girls' nursery with a robot theme?


  • I'm pretty proud of this nursery quilt so I will share a pic. Who else says hell yes to a girls' nursery with a robot theme?


    A. Omg is that part of your wedding dress? Gorgeous

    B. Whoa post pics!!❤️❤️❤️
  • How many weeks are you: 22 tomorrow

    What are the most common questions you are asked when people find out you're having twins (or more): do they run in your family? Was it a surprise? (Who expects twins? Jeez)

    Anything interesting/worrisome/exciting you've found out at a recent appointment or sonogram? We're having boy/girl fraternal twins!

    How is the nursery coming along? My husband put up the closet organizer deal today and I've got the theme and colors picked (teal and grey with bits of coral, mountains and hot air balloons)

  • How many weeks are you:
    21+2

    What are the most common questions you are asked when people find out you're having twins (or more):
    Havent actually got a lot of questions, just "Wow!!!" "OMG!!!" "Exciting!!" I think ppl are too shocked to really think lol. they ask when they're due if that counts

    Anything interesting/worrisome/exciting you've found out at a recent appointment or sonogram?
    The tech I had this week was awesome. She showed me the babies first thing so I wouldn't worry through the whole ultrasound (I find myself holding my breath at every ultrasound, worried about something going wrong). So that was great!
    She left a note about one baby having lower fluid levels but the MFM double checked and said she it was fine. Going back again next week (they messed up and scheduled me an extra week) and then 2 weeks after that!

    How is the nursery coming along?
    Ordered the cribs!! Everything has been bought - dresser, rug, curtains, crib skirt & sheets...
    Spare bedroom is empty, need to start painting, then ripping out carpet & my dad will be installing hardwood. Hopefully this can happen before the cribs come! I don't see any work happening til next week at least bc we have family visiting from the states (we're in Canada). Can't wait to set it all up!!
  • MrsKubley said: A. Omg is that part of your wedding dress? Gorgeous B. Whoa post pics!!❤️❤️❤️
    It is! Hacked the thing to pieces. I have no illusions about my dress being fashionable enough for one of my girls in 30 years.

    Anyone else feel weird answering the "Was this planned?" question. Certainly, twins are pretty unexpected (especially identicals) but why ask the question in the first place? Do I ask you about your sex life? 

    While touring a daycare I actually had a mom there ask me if my twins were natural or if we had medical intervention. Invasive much?
  • @khochanadel I get asked if twins were expected, like even if they run in a family (which they don't in ours) why would you expect it?
  • I think anything like that, including "do they run in your family?" Is the round about way people use to find out if you had fertility treatments or not. Rather than flat out ask you that, they figure they will try to get you to say it on your own.

    The other one I get a lot is "wow are you excited?" And I've tried to test out both the "yes! So excited" and the "yes, but also nervous" answers and no matter what people always have a negative comment. I give up. Haha
  • Fwiw - yes, we did fertility treatments. However, we only transfered one embryo so yeah, twins were a huge surprise. There, you pried it out of me!
  • Fwiw - yes, we did fertility treatments. However, we only transfered one embryo so yeah, twins were a huge surprise. There, you pried it out of me!

    I've reached an impatient point with that question. We did not have fertility treatments, but we did have previous losses so we know a taste of the trials and tribulations of fertility. And to me I don't see how it's anyone's business either way. So now I'm a tad snappy about it, even when I don't mean to be
  • Just lurking, not having twins - but I'm always curious about if twins run in a family when they crop up! Fertility treatment is never on my mind when I ask - it might just feel that way if it's something you've been thinking of a lot. I also like grilling people about eye color of everyone in their family, can roll their tongues, etc. Just think that genetics is fascinating how it passes certain things down. I have definitely learned since being pregnant that whatever question someone might have for you, you have already been asked it thirty times, so I just wait and see what information is volunteered. I'm even tired of just being asked, "how are you?" so I get that this would be super annoying at this point.
  • Pascal86 said:

    Just lurking, not having twins - but I'm always curious about if twins run in a family when they crop up! Fertility treatment is never on my mind when I ask - it might just feel that way if it's something you've been thinking of a lot. I also like grilling people about eye color of everyone in their family, can roll their tongues, etc. Just think that genetics is fascinating how it passes certain things down. I have definitely learned since being pregnant that whatever question someone might have for you, you have already been asked it thirty times, so I just wait and see what information is volunteered. I'm even tired of just being asked, "how are you?" so I get that this would be super annoying at this point.

    FYI - only fraternal twins run in families. Identical twins are just random (lucky me). The more you know!
  • And that doesn't mean they have to run in family's. I'm having fraternal and they don't run in ours.
  • @khochanadel - I've heard that! And my understanding is that chances of having fraternal twins is passed down on the mom's side? My MIL is a fraternal twin but I read somewhere that this is dependent on the mother's chances of having an egg that splits, and not controlled by the sperm. Anyone else know anything about this?

    And I don't know why, but SO many people asked if I was having twins when I told them I was pregnant. I think everyone just gets excited by the idea of twins, so you ladies can probably all look forward to a life time of people being fascinated by your kids!
  • Pascal86 said:

    @khochanadel - I've heard that! And my understanding is that chances of having fraternal twins is passed down on the mom's side? My MIL is a fraternal twin but I read somewhere that this is dependent on the mother's chances of having an egg that splits, and not controlled by the sperm. Anyone else know anything about this?

    And I don't know why, but SO many people asked if I was having twins when I told them I was pregnant. I think everyone just gets excited by the idea of twins, so you ladies can probably all look forward to a life time of people being fascinated by your kids!

    Yes fraternal twins are passed on the moms side but the egg doesn't split, it's when there are 2 separate eggs, so still has nothing to do with the sperm. Identical twins the eggs splits, and I think someone said above that all people have the same likelihood of identical twins.
  • It can be passed through the father's side but it's a little complicated. Say for example my grandfather was a fraternal twin, he doesn't have any more chance of having twins but his daughter would. Because fraternal twins is just the likely hood of a woman releasing two eggs at a time.
  • MrsKubley said:

    It can be passed through the father's side but it's a little complicated. Say for example my grandfather was a fraternal twin, he doesn't have any more chance of having twins but his daughter would. Because fraternal twins is just the likely hood of a woman releasing two eggs at a time.

    Right, when I said "moms" side I meant the person carrying the baby. My DHs family history has nothing to do with us having twins. But my parents family history could. Make sense?
  • Pascal86 said:

    @khochanadel - I've heard that! And my understanding is that chances of having fraternal twins is passed down on the mom's side? My MIL is a fraternal twin but I read somewhere that this is dependent on the mother's chances of having an egg that splits, and not controlled by the sperm. Anyone else know anything about this?

    And I don't know why, but SO many people asked if I was having twins when I told them I was pregnant. I think everyone just gets excited by the idea of twins, so you ladies can probably all look forward to a life time of people being fascinated by your kids!

    I think people ask if pregnant women are having twins because they don't understand that everyone's belly grows at a different rate and full term pregnant women are often huge.

    When someone asks me "What are you, having twins?" after looking at my belly, I say "Actually I am. But you probably shouldn't ask any more pregnant women that."
  • And yeah, the twins will be the greatest psychology experiment ever. :)
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