Hey ladies,
as you started wearing maternity clothes, how did you buy them for size?
I'm about 20 weeks and still abel to fit into a few pre pregnancy pants/outfits but probably need to buy some maternity specific wear soon.
I went to macy's to try some things onm which may have been a mistake because Hello Expensive. I don't think there was a pair of pants there for less than $85 and anything that was even somewhat stylish was $150-$200.
anyway, when you were trying on maternity clothing, did you want it to fit THEN... or did you size up and buy things big with the expectation that not only would your belly grow, but the rest of you a bit too?
also, for bras, did you just buy regular bras in larger sizes? or go straight to the maternity bras so you could wear them for nursing later?
planning on checking out gap and old navy too, just need to find some "nicer" stuff for work as we can't wear jeans (red,black, white and grey only! dumbest dress code ever).
would love your advice.
MK
Re: Clothing your growing body
I bought jeans, but honestly didn't wear them. The material dug into me and was only comfortable when standing up.
And I didn't size up, but I've also only gained 10-12lbs. (Not lucky me, had bad low sugar and iron issues). Buy maternity in what size you wore pre pregnancy.
They all have good and decently prices maternity clothes, especially online.
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I think clothing yourself for pregnancy is another place where you have to let go of some stuff. And maybe accept that you need to change your style (in my non-preg state, I would never wear leggings and boots, but oh well. Here it is.)
I got some basic t-shirts at Target (you can size yourself there too--I thought I was gigantic, but still fitting in Ms). Some leggings/pants at Sears. A couple of shirts through H&M. I had some of these longish sweaters already that I wear. Amazon has a whole range of different stuff. I pulled out my bigger sized bras, after trying fruitlessly to find something in a store that fits. People may swear that you won't want to feel constricted by underwire and bands, but that is really based on personal taste--I like to feel strapped in, so I am still wearing regular ones a size up and if I'm busting out, I have stretchy camisoles I wear under most shirts.
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Maternity jeans are incredibly comfortable to me. I didn't think they would be, but they are wonderful. I think I started wearing actual maternity wear at about 20 weeks (I'm 27+), starting with a maternity top and jeans.
I can still fit into a lot of my pre-maternity shirts but I exclusively wear maternity pants now (leggings and jeans) - to be honest, it's just a lot more comfortable than just trying to make my old pants work.
I recently discovered Pinkblush and I love their tops. Their stuff is stylish and fits well and like PP said, they are always running sales. For basic layering tops and tanks, I'm all about from Target and the Gap which also has a lot of sales. I actually find my maternity jeans from the Gap very comfortable and wear them all the time, but I don't need dress pants for work. If I want to look a little nicer I wear leggings, I really like the maternity leggings from Gap and Motherhood.
ETA: I just get everything in medium, I was small-medium pre-pregnancy. My jeans are in my pre-pregnancy size and fit well.
They also have bras there at times (hit or miss). I would suggest going straight to nursing bras which is what I will do when the time comes. No use in buying two types of bras. I bought my sister some (she's BF her LO now) from amazon that were 2 for $20.
That being said, much of my favorite stuff I bought from kohls, target, and destination maternity. Almost everything I bought at Old Navy turned out to be a waste of money and crap. Same with PinkBlush Maternity.
I wonder if it's because i live in San Francisco!
I also got a regular Loft sweater dress at Goodwill for $9, and I love it because it's stretchy and flatters my bump. Otherwise, I've been buying flowy dressy tops from sale racks at Von Maur, TJMaxx, etc. These regular shirts are much more fashionable (and better quality) than most maternity I've seen and I figure I can wear them after baby arrives, as well. (But yeah, I can no longer do non-maternity pants, so it's strictly Goodwill maternity pants or stretchy regular dresses for me.)
Goodwill pants and a regular flowy silk top: