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AprilV421AprilV421 member
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I will keep thinking positive for you guys, but today didn't go so good for me. Everything measured 8 weeks but my little baby's heart beat was 58. I'm beside myself. 3 miscarriages now. The worst part of this one is I have to wait for my baby's heart to stop. Good luck to everyone but I'm heading to the miscarriage board.
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  • bntfroggiebntfroggie member
    I'm so sorry <3 I hope you enjoy these last moments, you know that you loved your little one with everything you had in you.  Not many people can say they were loved their entire lives, but your little one can.  Please be kind to yourself.
    BFP 2/11/15 (EDD 10/13/15). MMC 3/30/15 D&C 4/3/15 "We will always love you"
    DD1 - BFP 7/23/15 (EDD 3/31/16).  "We believe in you rainbow" DOB 4/2/16
    DD2 - BFP 2/9/18 (EDD 10/19/18).  "Grow baby grow!" DOB 10/24/18
    BFP 11/16/20 (EDD 7/31/21).  "Round 3 FIGHT!"
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  • jacobsone2jacobsone2 member
    I'm so sorry! :'(<3
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  • MamaBishMamaBish member
    I'm so very sorry, so many hugs to you!
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  • peregrinefalconxperegrinefalconx member
    I'm so sorry :(

    When you are ready, if you haven't been seeing an RE, I would suggest one. So hard to keep going through this.
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    Me: 42, DH: 46, Married: 11/12
    Losses: MMC#1 11/12 BO, MC#2 11/13 at 8w BO?, MMC#3 8/14 chromo healthy M @12 weeks, stopped growing at 10.
    Negligible AMH, FSH finally went high. Pursued DE.

    DD born at 38w2d on 5-27-16. Finally!!

    Pregnant again with OE. EDD 11/9/17 Girl!




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  • spatter1spatter1 member
    I'm so so sorry. Praying for you and your little one.

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  • AprilV421AprilV421 member
    A RE is a specialist right? I asked the practitioner today and she said they could refer us to one. I think its definitely needed at this point.

    Thanks for all the kind words.
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  • Tippy05Tippy05 member
    I'm so sorry!
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  • carrieandrcarrieandr member
    Oh @AprilV421, my heart sunk when I saw your post title!  I'm so, so sorry. God, I wish I could stop this from happening to people. Take care of yourself. I'm sending you love. xoxo
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
    BFP 2/16/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks      •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
    BFP 9/24/18  •      CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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  • AprilV421AprilV421 member
    Thank you @CarrieandRoy I hope you had better news today than I did. I was waiting to see your update. Good luck with the rest of your journey.
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  • carrieandrcarrieandr member
    I did get good news and I was looking for yours. It felt like a sucker punch when I saw it. I wish there was something I could say to bring you comfort.
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
    BFP 2/16/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks      •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
    BFP 9/24/18  •      CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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  • AprilV421AprilV421 member
    Thank you @CarrieandRoy but knowing that someone got good news and is moving forward is kind of comforting. I am very happy for you. And I will take this challenge and let God get me through. Plus my hubby is being pretty amazing. I'm lucky to have great support and we WILL have a child one way or another in this life. Enjoy every minute!
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  • rkricheyrkrichey member
    This just breaks my heart. I'm so so sorry.
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  • AprilV421AprilV421 member
    Thank you
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  • crob5685crob5685 member
    So sorry for your loss. Creepy internet hugs!
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  • Lovefor5inIDLovefor5inID member
    Oh Hun...no words will be able to help. My heart is breaking for you, I am so so sorry
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  • purplefan1purplefan1 member
    Sending you love and support!!
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  • lilp2015lilp2015 member
    So sorry. Thoughts and Prayers.
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  • ALC08ALC08 member
    Bless your heart! I am so sorry!
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  • ejmo68ejmo68 member
    So sorry!

                            

    Me: 33 DH: 39
    DD 1: 5-24-13
    TTC#2: BFP: 8-23-15 MMC: 10-29-15
    DD 2: 9-15-16
    DD 3: 9-16-17


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  • mommasealmommaseal member
    Oh no!! I'm so sorry!! Sending lots of ((hugs)). Keeping you and your baby in my thoughts & prayers.
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  • SynnovusSynnovus member
    I'm so sorry for your loss! I've had 1mc and 2 mmc in a row myself so I know how hard this is. Please be kind to yourself, find someone to talk to ( a good friend, family member or therapist) and grieve as you feel you need to. I don't know if you have talked with your OB/ doc about testing yet. I had several tests done after my third loss to see if there were any underlying issues. They might not find anything (they didn't with me), but if there are any issues you'll know and get appropriate treatment. Wish you all the best for the future! Hugs
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  • tiffanyhrtiffanyhr member
    edited January 2016
    My heart breaks for you - I've been there. :'(


    Tried for DS for 1 year; one dose clomid Nov 2011 = DS born on 8/10/12
    BFP 6/30/15  MMC 7wks 5 days  D/E 8/9/15
    BFP 1/8/16 EDD 9/9/16
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  • BoonhildeBoonhilde member
    Oh I'm so sorry! 
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  • Plleriti1Plleriti1 member
    I'm so so sorry. Take care of yourself. Hugs. 
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  • purplefan1purplefan1 member
    I'm so sorry!! Thinking of you and yours 
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