I just wanted to apologize for being insensitive and not clearly understanding the atmosphere of the board. I was acting out of desperation and should have gone somewhere else. Sorry.
I just wanted to apologize for being insensitive and not clearly understanding the atmosphere of the board. I was acting out of desperation and should have gone somewhere else. Sorry.
Errr.... it's not advisable to start a new post discussing a previous post that was shut down. Also we didn't "burn" you as you said in Babies on the Brain. Just didn't tell you what you wanted to hear.
I'm not sure if you are still TTC or in your 1st trimester as per your other posts, but if you are still TTC, why dont you join into the new thread at the top of the board for intro's and introduce yourself.
I'd also recommend lurking around to see what's what here.
Also just also want to say we really did only give you the advice you asked for, maybe you werent sure what you wanted to ask?
You're more than welcome here. Like @babymish said, add an intro to the pinned thread at the top and jump into the daily WTO/TWW threads. But if your MO is symptom spotting and just wanting people on this board to say you're pregnant, you're not going to find that here. Plus your original thread asked for tough love and the sequel posts mention you getting "burned" by this board and now this post is called insensitive? It's so much MUD for no reason.
Me: 33 DH: 31 DS: 5 years old TTC #2 since August 2015 July 2016: Testing cycle with 100 mg Clomid = BFN August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN October 2016: IVF#1 - 13 retrieved / 12 mature / 9 fertilized / 2 blasts November 2016: FET#1 = chemical January 2017: FET#2 = chemical March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
April 24, 2017: FET#3 - BFN May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
As others have said you're more than welcome here. Trust me when I say that a fairly large number of ladies here have been on the receiving end of some "tough love" at least once. Whether it was over a TOU violation back when new or later on over something else. So long as you don't mind the possibility of being snarked at occasionally you should definitely stick around. I've definitely learned a lot from my time here. And I'm seriously spoiled by the no-nonsense, factual nature of the board. I mod another TTC forum on another site and as time goes on I'm getting more and annoyed with all the ladies who are "late" but don't temp or anything to confirm they O'd when they think they did. Uhhh.. okay I'm getting a little off-topic here.
Back on topic! Basically, it's all water under the bridge. Stick around and start participating. No one is going to hold your newbie mistakes against you... at least not for long.
Me: 28 Husband: 31 TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016 Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
It's better to just move on... people would've forgotten all about it if you hadn't posted a new thread.
Most of us have been taken to task over saying something stupid at one time or another. As long as you make up for it with quality posts otherwise, it'll be fine (unless you say something really awful, like wishing IF or a miscarriage on someone). Just jump in.
LFAF/Nov 16 challenge: Bad TV moms that shouldn't be celebrated
BFP #1 10/30/15 MMC found 11/30/15 D&C 12/11/15 EDD 7/9/16
healing comes in waves, and maybe today the wave hits the rocks and that’s ok, that’s ok, darling. you are still healing, you are still healing- Ijeoma Umebinyuo, be gentle with yourself BFP #2 3/21 EDD 11/28/16
Hey - I made some really dumb mistakes when I first joined up. Don't worry about it and keep participating. People will forget. But one thing you should know is it's best not to make your own threads for stuff like this. We like to have the threads as uncluttered as possible.
Re: Insensitive
Me: 33 H: 36
Married: 12/14/13 DS: 1/29/09
BFP2: 10/9/15 MMC: 11/12/15
BFP3: 4/6/16 DD: 12/12/16
LFAF April Siggy: TV/Movie BFFs
BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016
Also we didn't "burn" you as you said in Babies on the Brain. Just didn't tell you what you wanted to hear.
I'd also recommend lurking around to see what's what here.
Also just also want to say we really did only give you the advice you asked for, maybe you werent sure what you wanted to ask?
TEAM: PINK!!
DS: 5 years old
TTC #2 since August 2015
July 2016: Testing cycle with 100 mg Clomid = BFN
August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN
October 2016: IVF#1 - 13 retrieved / 12 mature / 9 fertilized / 2 blasts
November 2016: FET#1 = chemical
January 2017: FET#2 = chemical
March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
How about you just let it go...
Married to my Soul Mate since 09/06/09
Back on topic! Basically, it's all water under the bridge. Stick around and start participating. No one is going to hold your newbie mistakes against you... at least not for long.
TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
LFAF April Siggy Challenge - TV/Movie BFFS - Romy & Michele
Most of us have been taken to task over saying something stupid at one time or another. As long as you make up for it with quality posts otherwise, it'll be fine (unless you say something really awful, like wishing IF or a miscarriage on someone). Just jump in.
BFP #2 3/21 EDD 11/28/16
But already posting on the 1st tri board?
Hang around if it turns out this cycle wasn't it! We're a lot of fun... Sometimes... A lot of the time.
Eta to fix gif
April 2016 - AMH, FSH, Progesterone normal
June 2016 - HSG clear
*TW* BFP - Aug16, demise confirmed Sep16, incomplete m/c, D&C Nov16
BFP 3/27/17, edd 12/7/17
DS - 12/9/17
TTC #2 December 2018
BFP 2/22/19, edd 11/4/19
DD - 11/1/19
My Chart