TTC after 35

Weekly check-in Jan 13

This check in is for anyone on this board to participate in and will occur every Wednesday. If you are new here and haven't made a separate intro on the main board please do so before checking in so we can "meet" you! It's easy to do just click the new discussion button in the top right and post away. 

1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from. 

2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.? 

3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE? 

4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? 

5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc) 

QOTW: Where would you like to travel to within the US?
Me (42) w/ partner for 16+ years
TTC #1: 11/2012 - 9/2013; 6/2014 - present
Follistim + TI (3x): All BFNs
Follistim + IUI (1x): BFN 
IVF #1: 17 retrieved,15 fertilized, Day 3: 15, Day 5/6: 3 biopsied
Result; 1 frozen blast (inconclusive PGS results)
IVF #2; ER: 6/22 16 retrieved, 6/25: 5 transferred (CP), 2 frozen
FET 9/17: BFN
Current FET -- Transferred 2 day-3 embryos - BFN

Re: Weekly check-in Jan 13

  • Slgill from KS

    TTC#2 since August 2015

    Stilling using Ovulation kits and a ovulation/fertility tracker

    I am waiting to ovulate - actually my cycle just started right on schedule yesterday. 

    I always have mixed feelings with is the month? Are we going to get our timing right and try while ovulating? 

    **I would love to go to New York, Boston, or Seattle. 


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  • Rita from California

    TTC#2 for a year and a half, 2 MC's and 1 CP

    This cycle I am going to stick with the progesterone an baby aspirin. Trying to get an apointment with an RE. In the meantime OB has ordered me some standard tests to get the ball rolling but need to wait for next cycle to do them since some are timed.

    CD 20 still waiting to O.... OMG why am I not ovulating this month? I kid you not the line has been getting lighter not darker and never even got close to matching the control line. I may not ovulate at all this month is my current thinking on the matter

    Feeling this cycle is a bust based on ovulation or lack thereof

    QOTW: Would like to travel to Alaska I think
  • 1.) Chloe from Chicago
    2.) TTC #1, 1st cycle after Dec MC
    3.) Im temping, doing acupuncture, and OPKs probably
    4.) Cd 10 maybe? I had some sort of cervical blockage my 1st cycle after MC that caused AF to be blocked at least 2 days, if not more. I'm temping to see if I can tell when I ovulate and I had a huge temp spike this am, so I'm not sure what that's about since it seems early. H and I are just going to BD every other day for 9 days and hope that we catch it.
    5.) I'm not holding out too much hope for this cycle, but we will see. We will be at my parents house for 3 nights this weekend, which would put a damper on BD and staying at an all-inclusive in Mexico during the TWW. So not conceiving this month wouldn't be the worst thing.
    6.) Hawaii is probably the last state that I have left to visit that I really want to go to. Maybe Oregon too.
  • 1.  sinnet -upstate ny
    2.  6th month TTCAL #4
    3.  opks, pnvs
    4.  wto
    5.  I'm still working on not obsessing/stressing about getting pg again. calm isn't my thing, but i realize i can't control getting pg. it'll happen when it happens, though i'd love it to happen this month as i've always wanted an october baby.

    q- would love to see the grand canyon. have yet to get there.
    DD 6/2007
    DS 4/2009
    m/c 11/12/2010 ~ 7 wks
    m/c 7/4/2012 ~ 6 wks
    DD 12/2013
    mmc Baby Girl 7/12/2015 ~ 14 weeks  <3
    Twin girls! 8/26/2017


  • Amanda Marie from MD

    TTC #1 for 7 months

    3. Charting/Temping

    4. I don't know where I am.  I'm either on CD33 and waiting to O, or I'm 5 DPO.  FF wasn't showing that I had O'd, but on what I expected to be a 3rd high temperature, I entered I know what was a messed up reading (didn't take the temp at the right time, didn't sleep well leading up to it, etc).  When I discarded that temp it gave me cross hairs.  I just hope my period comes soon, I just want this cycle over.

    5. How do you feel about this cycle?
    Miserable.  I just want it over.  I don't know why my cycles are now taking forever.

    QOTW: Where would you like to travel to within the US?

    I've never been to Alaska, I think that's my US bucket item.  I also want to do a road trip.  We were supposed to do a long road trip[/baseball tour this spring, but probably won't happened because I'm changing jobs. 
  • 1. Molly. We live in southern California.
    2. We are just starting TTC #3. I had a miscarriage between 1 and 2, so it will be my 4th pregnancy.
    3. I am temping and charting.
    4. I am in the 2WW. I am somewhere between 7 and 9 DPO. I've been sleeping terribly so my temps are off and it's hard to know which. I tested this morning, BFN.
    5. I am trying to be hopeful, but I'm not feeling super pregnant. H thinks it didn't happen. If not we'll just move on to the next cycle, but baby would have been due just after my birthday, which I would have liked.

    QOTW : I would love to travel in the Northwest. We are from the east coast, and haven't seen as much out here as we have back home.
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    BFP 3.8.16  EDD 11.20.16

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  • Kathleen in GA

    TTC #1 since early 2015

    I was trying to do IVF, but IVF was cancelled (after I used up the majority of the very expensive drugs), converted to IUI.

    1dpo/dpiui. I'll wait until 14 days to test.  (At least, I intend to)

    I'm disappointed with the failed IVF.  I'll hold out hope for this IUI, but it's IUI #8.  Chances are not high. But there is also an increased risk of multiples, which is scary, but something I accepted. 

    I want to see the desert in the southwest, and the Grand Canyon, and the northern Rockies!  I kind of want to see it all....
    Me- 39 (turning 40 in April), TTC for the first time ever (since Jan 2015), low ovarian reserve
    Married 3/14/14 to my wonderful wife, but her sperm count is rather low
    TTC with frozen donor sperm and science

    7 IUIs, 7 BFNs.
    2 IVF attempts, both cancelled and converted to IUI, both BFNs.
    Decided that my tired old ovaries are ready to retire.
    Next step- reciprocal IVF, using my wife's eggs, my uterus!  
    fresh 5 day transfer (2 embryos) 4/17/17- BFP! 
    Identical twins "due" 1/2/17 (but anticipated arrival sometime December)

  • BernieRae from Oregon

    TTC #1 for 2+ years

    Clomid & IUI w/ovidrel trigger

    8dpiui

    This is the part of my cycle where I notice that nothing feelings different so I begin to waver in my hopefulness. But it's not impossible so I'm going to try to remember that!

    QOTW: Hawaii

  • 1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from. 

    dmdsr4eva
    New Mexico

    2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.? 

    TTC #2 my son is 6 yo.  Also SO has two daughters 18 and 21. 
    NPNT for 2-3 cycles.  Starting to monitor CM and OPK this cycle.  On TWW now.

    3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
    checking CM and OPK 

    4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? 
    2WW
    Will test this weekend

    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc) 
    I have no idea what to expect.  This is 3rd cycle of NPNT.  Timing seemed good though. 

    QOTW: Where would you like to travel to within the US?
    I would love to go to Puerto Rico or Hawaii again.  I went to Hawaii in 2008.
  • Happyktmom from Virginia
    TTC#2 for almost 2 years
    We are taking a break from temping right now.  I'm getting myself healthy and losing weight.  Already down 5lbs from New Years!!  Thank you @emsmama15 for stearing me towards the Green Smoothie Detox! Just what my body needed!!
    We are gearing up for repeat bloodwork and SA next month and then anticipating our first and only IUI in April.  Fingers crossed a little something amazing happens before then!!

    I'm remaining positive but also realistic that a second child may not be in the cards for us.  Though disappointed, I am beyond grateful for what I do have and really tired of investing so much time, money and effort into trying for something that may never happen.

    I would love to take a trip up the Northern California coast through Oregon.  Everything just seems bigger there.  We have beauty in DC/MD/VA but I've never been to those areas and would love to see the Ocean and Forests on that side of the US.
    **child mentioned**
    Me(38)PCOS/Hypothyroid   DH(43)Low T/ED
    MMC at 10 weeks 03/2011 DD born 01/2012   TTC #2 since 04/2014
    BFP 8/26/2016


  • Jen from Oregon

    TTC #1 since Nov 2015

    Charting, sort of temping (finding it impossible with my work/sleep schedule)

    CD 12, right in the thick of O week!

    I'm feeling really snarky lately. I work with a very large group of married women in their mid 20s and in the last week 3 of them announced they were pregnant (two of whom "weren't really trying"). I also have two friends who are my age and announced their pregnancies too. It's been really hard to be happy for them and to be positive about this cycle. Next month I'm away for work during my 3 most fertile days, so the pressure to get timing right this month is almost unbearable ( @Sinnet don't worry you're not alone with the stress over timing!).

    We were supposed to go to the Grand Canyon and Moab last spring, but late snows botched our plans. We did end up going to Joshua Tree (which was amazing!) and it really made us want to get out to Moab even more!
    Me: 39 SO: 36

    Dx: low progesterone, possible DOR - officially "unexplained"

    TTC#1 since November 2015
    9/16/2016 IUI#1 - BFN
    10/12/2016 IUI#2 - BFN
    1/21/2017 Clomid/IUI#3 - BFN
    March 2017 IVF: BFP! (beta#1 191, beta#2 378!) - it's a boy! DS born 12/6/2017

    TTC #2 since July 2018
    May 2019 IVF #2: BFP! (beta#1 346, beta#2 646) - vanishing twin at 8 weeks. Baby B still going strong - due 2/8/20!
    Pregnancy Ticker
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