August 2016 Moms

Work situation...Suggestions/Ideas?

I currently drive an hour to and from work each day (4x/week). Once the baby is born, I don't want to sacrifice time with my child/raising my child to spend away and commuting. All of my work functions can be done from my home. I have a work laptop and desktop computer with reliable internet service, a cell phone that can be used for business, a portable scanner, and access to all my files via Google Drive. I want to present my employer with a tele-commute arrangement. I would be willing to continue to come in 1-2 days/week and work the other two days/week from home. Has anyone had similar experiences? Any ideas/advice for having this work out? -- because I don't want to quit, but I don't see how it will work unless they can be flexible. 

Re: Work situation...Suggestions/Ideas?

  • I'm in the same boat :/ my commute is 2 hours each way and I have no idea how I'll ever make day care hours, or see my child ever. I too will have to figure out something with work. I have capability to work at home but it's highly frowned upon. Good luck! I'll be coming back to this thread for advice too
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  • I've tried asking my employer for more flexibility around working from home because I can do my entire job from home as well, but they're very inflexible about this. They'll let me do it once in a while but because my position isn't a "work from home" position, per HR, I have to spend a certain amount of time in the office.
    That being said, my company is probably not the norm. I'm an exempt/salaried employee, yet they make me use PTO if I miss over an hour on any given day, even though I don't get overtime for working over 40 hours (obviously, because I'm salaried). They treat me like an hourly employee. 
    If I were your boss, I would want a presentation showing how this benefits ME and the company, so make sure that you don't open with how it benefits you. Talk about how you're losing two productive hours, and how much money the company could save if they allowed more people to work from home. Do your research and go in prepared.  Good luck, mama!
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  • My husband was in this situation. He outlined to his employers exactly how this would impact what duties, and set specific days he would come in (Mondays and Wednesdays) so his boss knew when to schedule meetings. The biggest impact was when he printed a book to be sent to the publishers, with corrected annotations (he work in publishing) the mailroom would have to walk over to the printer and pick up the book, rather than him dropping off the book at the mail room. A digital copy was always sent, but a physical back up was required.

    He talked to the mailroom before speaking to his boss, got their buy-in and created a process to make it happen when he was working remote (he would email them 15 minutes before he hit print.)

    He also set up a home office, with all the same capabilities of at work (scanning, printing etc)

    The fact he reasoned out the impact and found solutions prior to bringing it up allowed his supervisor to feel comfortable approving it.




  • Im in the same boat. I have a co-worker who wrote the following letter and was able to get an altered schedule and I will re-write this letter and see if I can get some work-from home time. She wrote this letter and ended up working 30 hours/week yet still considered full time salaried, and she works from home 2x a week. Other days are in the office.

    Dear boss,

     I have been thinking constantly about my maternity leave and post-maternity leave plans and would like to update you on some conclusions I have come to.  I am still unsure how my maternity leave will work out (i.e. if I will take the full 12 weeks or less time; consecutively or gradually coming back to work more often), but I do have a tentative proposal to offer you for my full-time, post-maternity work schedule.

     I have always felt strongly about keeping my future children out of daycare or other group childcare programs and would prefer a nanny or family member to watch my children while working.  I also feel strongly about raising my children myself (with Kevin) as opposed to letting someone else take on the primary childcare role.

     I absolutely love my job at XXX and would hate to lose it, but also have a hard time thinking about leaving my child with someone besides his/her parents for five days of every week.  During my time working in XXX, I have found that most of the year (March through November) I find it difficult keeping myself busy for the full 37.5 hours per week.  I believe this will continue to be the case in the future, especially since I have organized the office in a more efficient way to complete my work as quickly as possible. 

     My proposal is to alter my work schedule to allow for my son or daughter to be with his/her parents more often.  I would like to shorten my work week to 30 hours and four days per week, working three regular days and Saturdays.  I will be willing and able to work an extra day per week during our busiest months of December and January if necessary.  This schedule will allow Kevin and me to avoid hiring childcare for more than half of the week and be available to our child’s needs most of the time.  We would have an easier time finding childcare, as well, since family members have already agreed to babysit two to three days per week to allow us to keep working.

     I understand that working Saturdays may seem to be an issue since our office is not technically open.  I understand that I will not be able to receive many phone calls, but much of my work goes beyond talking with cardholders over the phone.  I will be able to write letters and emails, process enrollments, terminations and transfers,  update addresses, file and scan documents, process deposits and ACH batches, write checks, generate mailings, put together and send enrollment packets, update our website, run reports, and update cardholders’ information through regular monthly verification checks already put into place.

     As stated above, my job as benefits coordinator is something I deeply care about and would hate to lose.  Please consider this proposal as a compromise to allow me to be the available mother I have always hoped to be, while still working to my full potential here at XXX.

     Thank you,

     

     

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  • I think it's definitely worth an ask.  I am an attorney, but an associate, so typically large law firms like you to work physically in the same office location as the partners you work for.  My husband took a job in another city, which happened to have a branch location of the law firm.  I talked to my immediate boss and basically presented it as "My husband has been working in city X for several months, and his career is in that city.  I want to stay with this firm, so I'd like to slowly transition to the other office."  I was expecting a lot of push back, but the answer was yes, absolutely, we want to keep you and we can make it work remotely.  It helped that I was the only associate doing support work for a very busy partner, and he didn't want to have to go through the trouble of replacing me or using other associates (I had heard of bad prior experiences).  Last May, I started working 1 day a week in the new city, 4 in the old, June was 2 days in the new, and so forth, until come late fall, I was only in the old home office 2 days every other week.  The travel has been on my dime, but it shows my willingness to do what it takes to make it happen.  I also made a strong business development pitch--why me being in the new city was profitable to the firm.  After my baby comes, my firm is going to get used to me only being in the home office a couple days a month, but likely not back to back for a while.

    So, my application here is (1) ask, because you may be very pleasantly surprised, (2) be willing to keep face time going, and phase in your telecommuting so they get used to it and to reach a happy medium, (3) find and present the argument of why you working from home is actually better for them, (4) keep showing them that when you say you will work from home and be available, they will never have to doubt that availability.  For instance, instead of you not being in the office until after you drop baby off, or leaving early to pick up baby, you can stretch your work availability.  Or, we all know young kids have sick days and doctor appts--the less commute for those mean greater work availability.  Or, maybe you're in a market where it'd be really good for recruiting or their image to say they allow telecommuting.

    Good luck!

  • Like others have said, put together a plan and show how it will work/benefit your employer. And ask for a trial period to start after your maternity. Approach it professionally and give it your best shot - that's all you can do but you might be surprised at how receptive they are. Good luck!
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  • Lots of good advice on here. Are there any cases where they have allowed this in the past? Perhaps trying to connect with someone in your company who has come up with a similar arrangement. Not sure your finances would allow it, but my company has allowed two people to job share a position if they still want to work but want more time at home and can afford bringing home less on their paycheck.
  • kattyleighkattyleigh member
    edited January 2016
    Don't forget that just because you work from home doesn't mean you'll be equally interacting with your child. Yes, newborns basically eat and sleep but you WILL need to hire childcare or you won't get any work done.
  • All great advice but I especially agree with @kattyleigh about childcare. Be sure to show how that will be provided in your proposed plan. In my experience, your employer is going to want concrete assurance they aren't paying you to work when you're really at home taking care of your child.
  • jmknoxjmknox member
    edited January 2016
    My son was/is a high needs colicky baby.   I couldn't ever put him down, he wouldn't nap, and he cried constantly.  For over a year!.  People told me having a baby would be tough but no one told me we might draw that straw. It was another full time job ( as motherhood is) on top of a full time job!   Some times it was nice to go to work just so I got a break.  And I love my baby to death despite him being Mcgrumpy pants.  I'm mentioning this because if I was working from home (I wish I could do dentistry from home) that it would have Been so very hard.... Oh so hard.  So like PP said being able to have some type of childcare set up for your sanity would be a really good idea in the event you really need it.
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