There's been a couple threads this week about SPD. I have this and now that baby has dropped, it's extremely painful even to roll over in bed. When I walk, it's more of a shuffle because raising my feet hurts. I also have tachycardia which causes shortness of breath. This causes further issues with walking. I can't walk more than a few hundred feet before losing my breath and needing to sit down.
I've resorted to using the motorized cart at the grocery store. It was embarrassing but so is having to sit down in the floor in the middle of the store. Well...I went to Target the other day and I realized they don't have these motorized carts. They do have wheelchairs at guest services, but they don't have carts on them so there's no way to shop.
I'm wondering if you other Target-shopping mamas have noticed if your stores have the carts or not. I posted on their facebook page and have been called entitled, extreme, and told that I shouldn't even be out because I've said I can't shop there until my baby is born. It's really an issue of them basically excluding disabled people from shopping there (not that I'm calling myself disabled mind you).


Re: Target
You are definitely not entitled either.
I guess I'm just shocked lately in general at some peoples' inability to understand that one woman's pregnancy might feel different than their own!
I can't believe people actually have you a hard time when you posted on their Facebook page. Absolutely ridiculous!
Sort of related to this thread - I found out this weekend that Target does not have a changing table in the men's bathroom, only in the women's bathroom and the family bathroom. Total BS. I'm thinking of writing to them.
Usually, I change my son in public bathrooms because I know it's hit or miss if there's going to be a changing table in the men's bathroom. But, lately, it's been getting hard to lift him and wrangle him on that high table, so I've been relying on hubby to do it.
This weekend, when we were in Target, there was someone taking forever in the family bathroom (I've been that person, with a potty-training toddler, so I'm not judging), so I asked DH if he could take my 2.5 year old into the men's room and change him. He came right back out and said there was no changing table in there. I'm surprised a store like Target doesn't have a changing table in the men's room.
I have SPD and honestly I would consider it a short term disability. I've had to go down to part time work (I'm self employed in a labor intensive job), and sometimes grocery shopping makes me want to cry thinking of all the crouching I have to do to get things off lower shelves or lift dog food.
It has given me even more appreciation for those living with chronic pain or mobility issues.
Although I have yet to use any of the mobile carts, I'm sad that Target does not provide them for long or short term disabled customers.
Expecting Saulie O 2.12.2016
Thanks for the tip, @SgtLou2. I'll ask him if he looked in there. If it was occupied, he may not have.
I wonder if their store also doesn't have the motorized chairs w/carts.. I should ask her. It just seems like common courtesy. I keep forgetting that logic is no longer used. it makes me kind of scared for when my daughter grows up. We can only do so much to prevent her from being one of "them".