My baby was born at 5 lbs 13 ounces. Was EBF and was up to 7 lbs 3 ounces at her 1 month check up. The pediatrician was very pleased. I started using a nipple shield to save our BF relationship and let my nipples heal from their huge fissures from tongue and upper lip tie. Which I believe has lead to my current problem. My baby won't latch more than a minute or two without the shield. I'm talking frantic awful crying. She even went on a nursing strike after trying a few days to get her to latch without the shield. At her 2 month checkup she weighed 8 lbs 2 ounces and her pedi was very concerned and advised to supplement with formula after each feeding. She won't take the formula though! I've tried putting an SNS tube under the shield, bottles, syringe, cup, finger feeding, before feeding, after feeding, during feeding. She hates it. The LC is at a loss. I've been pumping to try to increase my supply and it takes a few sessions to get 3 ounces to give her a "full feeding", she will take BM from a bottle so it is genuinely the formula that she doesn't like. I'm eating steel cut oats, drinking water and I've just ordered fenugreek which should be arriving tomorrow. Does anyone have any ideas for what I should do in the meantime while waiting for supply to increase? It is breaking my heart that I'm starving her.
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I would try making lactation cookies. You can google the recipe. These helped me. Also-fenugreek can make you and LO very gassy. Take blessed thistle with it (same dose, 2-3 capsules 3x per day) to curb these effects. My daughter was fussy and uncomfortable when I was on fenugreek alone and apparently this is common. The blessed thistle definitely helps.
My daughter has had trouble gaining as well. As long as there are some oz gained every week, you're doing ok. A pound in a month is not bad at all. It took mine until December to break 10 pounds and she was born at 8 pounds 14 oz on 8/30! Just keep it up and continue working with your LC. Good luck!!
We were finally referred to an actual doctor that is knowledgable about BF and we see her tomorrow. The LC speculated that there may be a reflux issue or something so we can get everything tested/worked out in one place. I will definitely order blessed thistle. Thank you @valerie1132
@kdoak2015 I kind of was surprised too. I thought a pound in a month was average for BF. She went from the 3rd percentile to the 1st though
The pedi knows nothing about BF though because he told me to take her off after 10 minutes each side... Which would further decrease my supply. I'm not doing that.
We have tried several different formulas to no avail. I was thinking about trying to add this to it. What do you think? https://www.amazon.com/Medication-Flavoring-Pharmacist-Yummy-Meds/dp/B00HELNXES
But after the appointment something really weird happened. My husband stopped at the grocery store to pick up another formula to try that the doctor suggested (LO and I waited for him in the car) and LO was crying her hungry cry and I tried to give her formula she has refused every time we tried it (including at the doctors office earlier today) and she took it! She ate 2 ounces and didn't even whimper. After we got home I fed her when it was time and then tried to give her more of the same formula and she took another 2 ounces again! What in the world is up with that?
My baby did start taking formula consistently today. I had to warm the formula AND the nipple of the bottle to the temperature of my skin. Picky little girl. At this point she's had more formula than breast milk today.
To increase my supply I've been pumping after every other feed(trying to get atleast 4 in a day). I have a prescription for Dom which apparently ups the supply and my DD is pretty much on the boob all day. We also use a nipple shield due to latching issues. It's been a long journey and we plan on sticking it out until 6 months at the least( setting small bfing goals)
@kdoak2015 you're a superhero nursing her all day and still finding the time to get in 4 pumping sessions! That's dedication. When I'm home by myself I'm lucky to get in one pumping session.