August 2016 Moms

Saturday Randoms

I'm bored, waiting to see my first client so I figured it might be a good time to start this back up...




Re: Saturday Randoms

  • Last night was a rough one in my house.  DH (in this case stands for dick head) and I got into our biggest, ugliest fight yet.  I went and stayed at my mom's house for awhile.  I'm just hoping today will be better than the last.
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  • Last night was a rough one in my house.  DH (in this case stands for dick head) and I got into our biggest, ugliest fight yet.  I went and stayed at my mom's house for awhile.  I'm just hoping today will be better than the last.

    I'm sorry you guys fought, but I had to laugh at dick head. I hope things get better today and he apologizes.
    BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11

    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

    BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

    Just keep swimming.
  • This morning DS woke up at 6:30 and DH got up with him so I could sleep in. But DS is going through a mommy phase and kept yelling for me so I got up and DH went back to bed. :(
    BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11

    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

    BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

    Just keep swimming.
  • Ugh . That suicks @SheHulk723 . I hope everyrhing turns out okay. 
    My husband was talking to his dad last night and asked him what DH's sister said to him. FIL told him that she  text him and said "*** is knocked up".  (This whole situation was brought  up in the in-law madness board), she wasn't told by us that I'm pregnant, but by DH's mother. (his parents are divorced). I know that it shouldn't bother me as much as it does. But I really want to confront her about it. When you're 24, married and pregnant with you first you aren't "knocked up". I just feel like the whole thing is so disrespectful. Her and I have had our issues, but I try to be cordial .Every time I think her and I can respect each other, she turns around and does something so asinine (like getting mad at my DH, so she puts me on blast on FB, despite us not being 'friends' and me having to hear about it from someone else.)


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  • I'm being a bad mommy. I'm feeling nauseous so I turned on Sophia and have mostly cuddled and laid around. I'm hoping my nausea quits this week like it did last time. I'm pretty worthless right now.
  • I love eggs benedict. Ordered them for breakfast today, and baby doesn't like eggs benedict. So sad right now. Thank goodness for hash browns.
  • @SheHulk723 ugh that sounds awful, sometimes a little space can keep fights from escalating further. I'm a believer that it's better to take a step back and calm down a bit (even if it means not resolving before bed) rather than trying to resolve it while you're both still heated. I hope today goes better!

    @MSUgrad12 for me, with my inlaws, something that might not bother me in another circumstance sends me over the edge with them because of the crazy history (mostly with MIL). For example, MIL took DS to see/take pictures with Santa while watching him one day and I was livid (We hadn't even gotten to do that with him yet). If it was anyone else I would have brushed it off as inconsiderate but with her I feel like it's more loaded because she pulls stuff like this a lot. I guess I have no advice, just sympathy!

    @texasmama2014 I have been feeling the same way! DS barely ever watched tv before and now it's a daily activity. I figure I'll get back on track next trimester but there's only so much I can handle when even standing makes me want to vomit.



  • Ugh. Every time I shower I feel very light headed afterwards; I almost always need to sit down. I have low blood pressure to begin with and it feels like it's just getting worse. My OB didn't really have much to say about it. Anyone else feeling the same?
  • My nausea has finally subsided some and I want all the food! But I still get full really fast which is a bummer because I just want to EAT!
  • I wake up with adrenaline rush half the time idk why I wasn't like this before pregnant my DH has it though and in the middle of it all nauseous feeling, @SheHulk723 I hope today is better and you guys solve everything just don't be getting mad because it ain't good for you and baby at all take deep breaths and tell him calmly what bothers you I had to learn this one to pick battles and make him understand what bothers me and he actually tries to understand to the point he apologies for being a dick head

    @MSUgrad12 I had to learn with my DH family to choose to ignore their shenanigans they tried so much to hurt me at the beginning it hurt me so much but I learn not to let there words bother me because at the end all I need in my DH whom makes me happy and our family we decided to become a whole so there input and hurtful words just Crack me up now and I just have learn to ignore them all because at the end DH love and opinions matter not his family they get mad because I choose to enjoy my life and laugh at there shenanigans and that just pisses them off so then you really know who is miserable in there life's so just try to enjoy there misery as long as your happy that's all that matters

    I'm having a good day other than kinda of feeling a Lil sick but I'm make the best of it today and kick my feet up and stay warm because it's cold hot chocolate sounds so good
  • @lgem4 Thank you for the advice! I always have the fan on, but I'll try keeping the door open as well!
  • I have random bursts of anger towards DH. I think it's due to a combination of things: Stress from keeping my pregnancy a secret due to new job (I'm not even eligible for maternity leave & FMLA. PTO's are not accrued but given up front so I don't know how everything is going to work out once the baby comes); emotionally, as this is my first pregnancy, I've been taking all the changes my body's going through with a bit of shock- adjusting to it hasn't been the easiest; I just don't feel like myself sometimes these days and poor DH gets the brunt of it; MIL drama because she feels so entitled and basically wants me to have a forced relationship with her out of my "obligation" as a DIL (seriously)- she's mistreated me for so long and wants me to call her "mom." I just can't. DH is cutting off all ties with his mom as a result. It's seriously a lot to handle right now. Sorry for the depressing novel, lol. I'll get over it. Happy Saturday!
  • @Bookhousegirl absolutely! It's hard to even get the whole story in the post because of all the history!

    @emmeline714 thank you. I usually just move on. I am just so tired of it being constant, especially because she does not have a high horse to stand on.


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  • Everything smells. Everywhere I go. All the smells.
  • @Hannah0726 I'm with you there. The smell of our bathrooms at work (the cleaning supplies used in them) make me incredibly nauseous.

    I've been acting like a hormonal b**** today. I feel so bad for DH. He's sick with a sinus infection (hopefully because if it's something else then I'm worried he could be contagious) and a 101 degree fever. But I keep snapping at him and just in general over really stupid reasons.  I just feel so grumpy and tired I just want to go to bed and wake up when the first trimester is over.
  • I just ordered a week of Blue Apron meals after seeing their commercial bc I'm having a hard time planning meals with all my MS and fatigue. And I tried to go to Costco today but almost hurled with all the people and smells, only managed to grab a pizza before I had to leave :/
  • I slept great till 3 am then was WIDE AWAKE till 6. I eventually moved to the couch to watch some recorded tv before finally falling asleep. I just wanna sleep thru the night
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  • me too @msdidonato! I'm so sick of not sleeping. The insomnia went away for about a week, but is definitely back.


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  • I feel the same @MSUgrad12 and @msdidonato

    Both pregnancies I've craved chocolate milk and things you eat with milk like cereal. But the thought of a glass of milk still makes me sick. Weird.
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  • @katie121209 we just stared Blue Apron this week and it's been great so far. I decide that morning which of the three meals sounds appealing (or more accurately which doesn't make me dry heave) and they've all been relatively simple to make, but delicious. It's nice to add some variety to our usual rotation.



  • Last night, we ordered Indian food for delivery. It's my husband's favorite, and it actually sounded like something that would agree with my stomach so I thought it would be great.

    After 90 minutes of waiting for it, we called the restaurant and found out that the delivery service had picked it up 30 minutes earlier. We then had to call the delivery service, and they couldn't get ahold of the driver for another 30 minutes and he said that he had already delivered our food. So, then my husband is trying to straighten it out, and I'm bursting into tears because I felt bad because I ordered it and it was all messed up (and well, I'm crying a lot over everything these days).

    My husband was a trooper and called in a take-out order from the restaurant, went and picked it up (after an 11-hour day at work). So, we ended up having the food, and all was okay in the end. 
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  • @Bookhousegirl have you ran into a night where none of them sounded good?


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  • Yeah, last night's wasn't super appealing but I got through it. I don't have horrible food aversions right now, except for some very specific things, so it's usually manageable. I would say that if you have a very wide array of aversions it's probably not the way to go.



  • I'm just so tired of being tired!! Here's to hoping there is truth to "it gets better in The 2nd trimester " this time.
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