For your friend, maybe a necklace or bracelet with each of her daughters' birthstones. Amazon has some nice but reasonably priced sterling silver jewelry. I bought my sister a necklace with her daughter's birthstone for Christmas from there. If she isn't really into jewelry, maybe a gift certificate for a house cleaning from a local housekeeping company. With a new baby and a young daughter, I'm sure she would appreciate it. For the baby, maybe some type of keepsake since she won't be old enough to really enjoy toys for a while. I just bought my new niece a sterling cross necklace with a tiny diamond from Amazon for Christmas, and it wasn't very expensive. For the big sister, maybe a cute shirt that says "big sis" or something.
Mom- A couple of freezer meals and some easy snacks and breakfast. Far better than any material thing you can give her. Useful gifts are seriously helpful with a new baby, especially with a toddler in the house already.
Baby- A cute outfit that is just her's (not a hand me down from big sis), stuffed animal/lovey
Toddler- doll with a few accessories so she has her own baby to take care of while Mom is taking care of baby sister
Married: 1/2008 ~ DD#1: 3/2012 TTC #2: Started 4/2014 BFP 7/30/15 MC 8/3/15 BFP 9/4/2015 EDD 5/16/2016
Mom- A couple of freezer meals and some easy snacks and breakfast. Far better than any material thing you can give her. Useful gifts are seriously helpful with a new baby, especially with a toddler in the house already.
Baby- A cute outfit that is just her's (not a hand me down from big sis), stuffed animal/lovey
Toddler- doll with a few accessories so she has her own baby to take care of while Mom is taking care of baby sister
This. I did something similar for my step sister when my youngest niece was born a few years ago. Her SO had to start work back up right away as he had just started a new job, so at least to her it was very appreciated.
I think it depends on the family's preferences, which is hard to guess without knowing much about them.
If they're likely to have practical wants/needs, then food or a prepaid cleaning service are both great ideas, as is offering to run some errands for them (taking out/picking up dry cleaning, getting the family car detailed or serviced, taking the family dog out for a long run/walk to burn off some energy -- basically anything that's a minor nuisance if you don't have an infant and toddler to tote along, and a potentially giant PITA if you do).
If they seem pretty well set on that front (or if your friend happens to be insanely picky about her food, as I am -- I'm afraid any well-meaning casseroles or freezer meals people sent me would go entirely untouched), then I think a nice sentimental piece of jewelry is a lovely token to commemorate a special time in life. The toy suggestions are great too.
I am a big fan of giving mani/pedi gift certificates. Sure, with the babies, she might not be able to get out of the house and use it right away. But there will come a day that she can get some alone time, and would love some pampering!
If budget allows, an in-home prenatal massage. For the 1.5yo, a nice trip to the park or library or somewhere (at the same time the massage is happening). For the baby, lots of love whenever she arrives.
Re: Gift Help
Baby- A cute outfit that is just her's (not a hand me down from big sis), stuffed animal/lovey
Toddler- doll with a few accessories so she has her own baby to take care of while Mom is taking care of baby sister
Married: 1/2008 ~ DD#1: 3/2012
TTC #2: Started 4/2014 BFP 7/30/15 MC 8/3/15 BFP 9/4/2015 EDD 5/16/2016
Mama to Three Girls:
Twins born March 2014 at 26 weeks due to preterm labor
and our 37weeker born May 9th, 2016!
Me: 31
DH: 29, SA - Great
Married: June 12,2011
TTC #1: 1/2014
Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Treatment: Clomid: 50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored
Menopur 75ml (upped to 112.5ml), Ovidrel, & IUI IUI #1 8/31/2015
9/15/2015: BFP HCG - 400, 9/17/2015: HCG - 827, 9/21/2015 - HCG 3,327!Baby: Some kind of nice, soft blanket.
Sister: New toy or puzzle
DS: Born 5-17-16
If they're likely to have practical wants/needs, then food or a prepaid cleaning service are both great ideas, as is offering to run some errands for them (taking out/picking up dry cleaning, getting the family car detailed or serviced, taking the family dog out for a long run/walk to burn off some energy -- basically anything that's a minor nuisance if you don't have an infant and toddler to tote along, and a potentially giant PITA if you do).
If they seem pretty well set on that front (or if your friend happens to be insanely picky about her food, as I am -- I'm afraid any well-meaning casseroles or freezer meals people sent me would go entirely untouched), then I think a nice sentimental piece of jewelry is a lovely token to commemorate a special time in life. The toy suggestions are great too.
Been married since 2009.
Unicornuate Uterus (yes I menstruate glitter)
Several MCs
DD born 2013 (our miracle "you can't have babies" baby!)