Hi Ladies,
I suffered a miscarriage last night. I feel bad creating a new thread for this. Can I suggest starting a Thread to remember all of the August Angels so all the loses can go in one place? I sincerely hope I am the last to go and it isn't needed.
I will drop in and lurk every now and then and hand out a love tit or two.
Good luck ladies!
Re: Goodbye- I wish you all a healthy 9 months.
BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13
BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15
BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d
Just keep swimming.
BFP #1: 08/17/2012 DD1 born 05/01/2013
BFP #2: 07/31/2015 M/C 09/23/2015 (11.5 weeks)
1. It does get better, time makes the hurt and the awfulness better.
2. I waited a month and then got pregnant right away. I'm not saying this to boast- I'm saying this because I was convinced that I was broken and I'd never have a kid. The terrible 'at least you can conceive!! shit that people say just rolled right off my back. I didn't believe them. But, here I am again.
3. Even though people don't talk about it....SO MANY of us have had a miscarriage!! You are NOT alone!
4. The miscarriage and pregnancy loss board on the bump helped me for a bit. I didn't stay long, but hearing other people's stories really helped.
Best of luck. Once again, I'm so sorry for you loss. Miscarriages SUCK.
It's been a long road- Let's just say that!
Don't feel bad for creating a new thread. Your pregnancy deserves to be recognized.
Thank you again for the kind words
Something that really helped me was to name our son. (We found out the gender through a previously taken blood test) We have only shared the name with a few close people but its nice for my husband and myself to be able to refer to him by his name. Sometimes people don't see the lost angels as real people. It helped me to be able to give him a name and declare that he was and will always be my son.
My thoughts are with you and your two angels
Married 5/2/09 To my best friend